no, the family is not the same
the man is responsible and must defend, and provide for all of his flock, be they his wife or his children or his pets and livestock, he is responsible for anything they do wrong, as well as doubly punished when he mistreats them
only since the communism banking system arrived that women have had votes or needed to work outside of their own homes
one of the objectives of this system is to turn the children into slaves to the State, also, thus the government controlled education system, and the entire edifice of credentialism that distorts science as well, of course the most important one being history, because you must praise the leaders and their ideology
this is the natural order of human society, and in every case where there has been extended periods of peace this is the order that prevails
when people acquire undue power to influence the lives of other people, the people rapidly are degraded into slaves and whores for the service of the king, or baron, or whatever you want to call it, and ultimately this destroys the integrity of the family, which as i just described is based on the integrity of the man who heads it up, the leader of the family
leadership beyond this level of scale turns rapidly into tyranny, and enslavement for the greater number of people
there is many mechanisms by which they do it, the 10 plankks of communism sum them up. and the thing is, they call them "planks" but they are really the same as the "sticks" (faggots) that are bound to the axe of the warlord, as defined in fascism, which was invented by italians
or at least, they were a notable "innovator" in this way of structuring society to be an army