The manipulation tactics of a narcissist penetrate deeply, poisoning your self-perception, self-worth, and trust in others. It not only hurts your emotions, but damages your soul. This is why it takes so long to heal and recover. Take the time. Find and accept the support. You are worth it!

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Narcissists are learning more and getting educated about narcissism just like everyone else. Just because they know the terms and can lie better and manipulate you, doesn’t mean you’re the narcissist, even if they say you are. They’ve lied their entire lives!

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Happy Easter to all those who celebrate in every way that you do. I hope you have lots of love in your day and in your life! I hope you have all the treats and wonderful things. I also hope you find all the good eggs and throw out the bad ones!😁 #grownostr

It's a trap and it's not really love. It's a fake expression of love rooted in deception. It may even look or feel real, but it's not. It's an illusion! Awareness is the key to breaking this cycle. Pay attention more to their actions than what they say. If these don't match it's a red flag.

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Yep. This is very true. So many variables. Generalizations are not always helpful. I do my best to help people who are struggling with narcissists. I'm open to the feedback and different perspectives.

I will also continue to use generalizations in ways that are helpful for people who are struggling.

Even when the narcissist is right, it doesn't excuse their abuse, which is one of the ways they gaslight other people.

"I was right, so it justifies my abuse."

Being right is one thing, but abuse is an entire different issue. Most of what I talk about is the abuse and healing from it.

Until we address the abuse, it doesn't matter what else is right or not.

With everything going on in our lives and especially abusive relationships, it often feels like everything is not ok, even when it is. Even if it’s for a moment, it’s helpful to embrace when things are ok. It helps to settle our emotions so we can figure out what we can actually do, instead of being stuck in the fear of what could happen.

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Narcissists abuse other narcissists. Just because someone was abused by a narcissist does not mean they are not themselves also a narcissist. They will prey upon our kindness and compassion just as much as any other narcissist. Don’t fall for this trap and allow them into your life.

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The empathy displayed by a narcissist is a calculated act designed to manipulate, without any genuine emotion. They don't actually have empathy. They have learned how to fake empathy. They only fake it for control and power, never because they actually care. It's all an illusion, don't believe their lies no matter how well they act.

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We can want, hope, beg, and even insist on a narcissist changing anything and it will almost never happen. Even when it looks like they changed, they really just changed the way it looks. There’s nothing we can really do about it. What we can do is focus on ourselves and our lives.

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Much like a spider's web glistening in the sunlight, the initial charm of a narcissist ensnares unsuspecting victims who venture too near, making escape challenging. Many of us get trapped. Go easy on yourself and figure a way out. Kindness to ourselves is the beginning of the way out.

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I agree with you in that they are focused on themselves. They also have an extreme desire to control everyone and everything else. They may be entirely focused on themselves in many conversations. With people they have close relationships with they always want control over them. It may be to control what happens in their own life, but it shows up in controlling ways to everyone else.

Also in conversations about any issues with a relationship, it will all be turned back on the other person and made to be their fault. I understand this may be a narcissist protecting themselves and their ego or issues, but it shows up on the outside being controlling and blaming to the other person at best. At worst it's character assassinations.

Narcissists drain you with chaos and unrealistic demands, leaving you feeling judged and incapable. Simple tasks become overwhelming, and recovery can take time. It's okay to struggle; healing is a personal journey requiring patience and self-compassion. No one else can dictate your healing process.

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The trails have been drying out and it's been beautiful out! So I suppose we were overdue for a snow storm. Maybe mother nature is just making sure our trails don't get dusty.😂🤷‍♂️ #grownostr https://m.primal.net/QTql.mp4

All of the anger and bitterness we hold towards them hurts us. It keeps out attention focused on them and everything they did. Allow the emotions, but then bring your focus back to you. What do you want for your life and for yourself. This is the path toward healing.

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It’s truly crazier than fiction, which is why it’s not only hard to believe, but also to make sense of. This makes it hard to let go of in order to move forward in our lives. Find the people who do understand and believe you, they are out there. Keep moving forward, you deserve a life you love!

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Care to expand on how you think it's inaccurate? Definitely open to other perspectives

Even when narcissists tell you they want to talk about things. Nothing could be further from the truth. Their only intention is to listen enough to you so they can manipulate the conversation to turn everything back on you. They don't want to understand, only control.

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It's a mess we didn't make, but we have to clean it up to move forward with our lives. Narcissists make a mess in our lives and of our lives and then leave like nothing happened. It isn't fair, but we still have to clean up the mess to move forward with our lives. Feel all the feels when you need to, but keep moving forward no matter how slow the progress is. You'll get there.

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Although many of the tactics and abuse may be similar. Every single narcissist is completely different in their personality and tendencies. That's why it's not easy to spot them especially in the beginning of the relationship. Go slow and pay attention to their actions.

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Most of us are more likely to question if we are the narcissist in the relationship with a narcissist than narcissists are. This doesn’t mean we are, it means we actually care about not being a terrible person and that we care about other people. Narcissists simply don’t question because they don’t care, and of course they want to protect their illusion too.

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