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struggling with my kids regarding this πŸ˜…

It might be that they didn't use it enough to "get it", nostr:npub1klkk3vrzme455yh9rl2jshq7rc8dpegj3ndf82c3ks2sk40dxt7qulx3vt said it best, using X and other legacy social media show you stuff based on an algorithm but nostr has Bitcoin payments behind it so it shows you what you would like. "And so we build a way to send and receive Bitcoin so that your friends see what's the stuff that you like. And that's a social signal that's not just likes and reposts but a real monetary cost of, hey, I value this thing. And nostr:npub1dergggklka99wwrs92yz8wdjs952h2ux2ha2ed598ngwu9w7a6fsh9xzpc has the perfect line of, you wouldn't zap a car crash. Car crashes are something you just have to look at when it happens. You don't really want to see it, but your attention is drawn to it. You're somewhat tricked by your brain to actually look at it. But you wouldn't send money to it for how great it is. so we have a car crash economy in our attention seeking in the legacy social media that makes you see stuff that you don't really want to see but you're forced to look at it because the algorithm chooses to maximize for your attention and in nostr we can simply make that obsolete" from nostr:npub1dg6es53r3hys9tk3n7aldgz4lx4ly8qu4zg468zwyl6smuhjjrvsnhsguz podcast. I had never thought of it before but yeah some people believe more noise IS more relevant unfortunately.

the babysitter is recommending one of my kids does a parasite cleanse, what do you guys think? I haven't read much about it, not sure if it's worth it

yes, but no need for fear mongering, ac motors are used in a lot of appliances used on the daily - doesn't mean that that exposure will harm us.

I'd love to see any evidence on this type of exposure and the effects it might have on humans as this has been studied extensively for decades.

and while that does looks alarming, if you're really worried about that exposure - moving the blowdryer a few inches away from your head will reduce "exposure" sharply.

β€œEverything they teach in school can be learned outside of it β€” but the things that truly matter can only be learned outside of it.β€œ

Love this quote from Sylvia's nostr:nprofile1qqsthdez4xd23ah3e0p4734uvpltlkse7d3as9px4r6ynkjdw8etfngpzpmhxue69uhk2tnwdaejumr0dshszrnhwden5te0dehhxtnvdakz70vy5qy newsletter.

Replying to Avatar RobBrinded

The moment I almost broke my daughter's trust forever

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Yesterday I shared my first rollercoaster ride, but I had another story from Disney that was even more powerful.

We all arrived home to our cabin at Center Parcs after an exhausting but exhilarating day. I was getting things ready for bed when I heard my youngest start to cry.

I rushed into the living room to find Sylvia comforting Bo as Lima looked on, upset and starting to cry herself.

My Unable/Able hamster wheel got triggered immediately. I angry-panic asked: "What's going on?!"

Sylvia explained that Lima had thrown a sharp keyring holder at Bo which hit her on the forehead.

This triggered my Right/Wrong wheel. I became 100% angry and raised my voice at Lima for doing something so "wrong."

Lima burst out crying.

Immediately upon seeing her like this, I caught myself and stepped into admin mode.

I KNEW Lima would never intentionally hurt her sister. I went to soothe her, but she was also triggered (her Unable/Able wheel) and moved away from me, hiding behind the curtain.

**This is exactly how wheel scripts get imprinted.**

I asked Sylvia to go comfort Lima, which she was able to do. But when I approached, Lima pushed me away and told me: "Get away. I don't want you here."

Those words cut deep.

I went to bed but realised her words had triggered something profound in me. A deep sadness at being pushed away.

Sitting on my bed, I watched my thoughts spin:

*"I shouted at her and now she no longer loves me."*

*"I've hurt her and now I'm unable to get close to her."*

*"I've broken something in our relationship."*

I watched the hurt spin and looked for the hamster wheel causing the most pain in me.

I knew the situation "out there" had triggered some deep glitchy coding in myself. I also knew that if I reacted from that place, I would CREATE the very reality I feared most.

Then I saw it: **Support/Let Down.**

I felt I had let her down. Not supported her. And she was deeply disappointed in me.

That disappointment wound cut straight to my core.

I immediately picked up little Rob (the practice I teach in my book) and comforted him. That mechanism - understanding the glitch in my code - made the wheel dissolve.

Peace washed over me.

Without thinking, I stood and went back into the living room. I hugged my wife, then Bo, then Lima - who was now calm and allowed me to hold her.

If I hadn't done admin mode, I would have returned in anger. Because I was hurt, I would have angrily told Lima "you can't push me away like that."

**That would have energised the exact script I was trying to avoid.**

It would have created more disappointment and let down - a wave of destructive energy flowing through my family system, encoding the pattern deeper into all of us.

Instead, I returned to my bed and slept peacefully with a deep knowing:

I had stripped away another layer of conditioning that would inevitably bring me closer to my family.

And that connection is the most valuable thing in my life.

**Do this work. You will find that nothing is more important.**

If you're ready to see which wheels are running your life - and learn how to step off them before they damage what matters most - my book "Glitch" maps all five patterns with surgical precision.

**Read it here: https://www.glitchthebook.co**

Rob

P.S. Lima doesn't remember the incident this morning. But something shifted in our relationship. That's how this works - you don't fix the other person, you debug YOUR programming, and the relationship transforms naturally.

very inspiring story Rob. our kids deserve the work we have to do + unconditional love β™₯️

I was shocked, that tourist guide lady is certifiably psychopathic!

set this up so I can make lunch, would recommend however as is the case in our house, markers always end up on the walls πŸ–ŒοΈπŸŽ¨

my son has been calling me "little mama" for a while now so today I asked him why? I'm not little and now he's calling me "big mama" 😭

another day, another round of moms offering unsolicited advice about my happy and wild children ✨

I finally found my childhood books, had to go through baba's library and eventually found them demoted to a box (to make space for his books obviously). I can't wait to read these again with my kid πŸ˜πŸ“š

thanks, will need every bit of strength πŸ˜‚πŸ€

i love that my friends reach out to me whenever they can't find an ebook "legally" πŸ΄β€β˜ οΈ

asking my son the highlight of his stay at his grandparents, "when you left... and when you came back" 😐

you must be seeing something else, this is pure beef with salt - no shitcoins involved :)

Bitcoin Beef Bits, local Finnish beef hash-dried (using miners). The reindeer tallow mayo is a must try! nostr:nprofile1qqstlj7mpf4c8h473vpr9vglazye3j3vaww66u2y7pxtzhtnj2pp37qppemhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mp0qywhwumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytnzd96xxmmfdejhytnnda3kjctv9urhxmql

I woke up to Mohammed saying "orange man bad, he bombed Iran" πŸ˜•

I don't think I know how to use nostr but here we are