I totally agree. It happened to me too. To whom it didn’t happen ? We’re all sometimes on auto pilot with our unresolved traumas. Men and women. To me the first dialogue and the last pieces of the lyrics are very intense and true „But I can't beat ya, 'cause I'm still with ya

"Oh mercy", I implore

How do you do it? I think I'm through it

Then I'm back against the wall“ . She has recognized the pattern, but doesn't have enough .. let’s say self-love , because of our topic :) to break it. She feels naked and maybe abused.. and is in the end allone.

There’s personnel interpretation possible, that’s why it’s a good video and song. But trauma comes from the past, right ? In my interpretation the men she dances a d fights with are symbolic for the unresolved relate traumas she brings into every new relationship. I understand that she blames the man for acting like that. That's human and everything is a process. But she must leave the scenario, she has to protect herself from that destructive and disrespectful behaviour. And that’s hard. If you love, you love. But I guess at some point ..after a leite of time .. it's enough and an open door is just a wooden thing and no longer a temptation. That’s the thoughts I have here.

Most abusers, men or women, act like this. They love bomb you in the beginning of the connection. A lot of messages, a lot of attention, they shower you with attention and time. Then when they understand you are hooked, they start to talk less, and less and sometimes ignore (leave you on read). It's a manipulative tacking, called intermittent reinforcement, to get you "addicted". Your body and mind does the rest. Like an addict you do anything to get the attention again. When they feel you slipping, they come again. Usually when they are not giving you attention, they are with someone else. This devaluation process usually occurs between 3 to 6 months into the connection and repeats on a patter. It's insane and fu*ks with the soul.

This is a violent video with a very heavy message,I know. But I love it cause it represents a very dark period of my life. I am so glad I made peace with it ! No shame, no regret! 🔥😋😆🙌

It's a beautiful song, I like it . Thank you for sharing! 🎶🪷🎶

I did not know, first time listening.

Deutsche Bank has terminated the account of a UN accredited human rights activist.

AML/CFT laws are routinely weaponized to silence dissent without any recourse or due process. It's the outsourcing of policing powers to private institutions without democratic oversight, where the presumption of innocence and right to fair trial do not exist.

AML/CFT needs to be abolished today.

My 103 year old Aunt sends jokes with her card for our anniversary 😂

I know is a tough one. But it will be good for you dive into the waters ! 😆😂🫂💜

I was thinking and nothing came and then it hit me. Self-love. I think it will be a good exercise. Not easy, but since you said what you said, I reckon it will do marvellous. I don't think we fall out of it. 😉

So, what did you create, lovely?

Nothing to show just yet. :) I've been busy working on a website (soon to see here too). I always need some artistic stimulation to clear my mind while thinking .. so I've been painting with watercolors but feel like I've tapped out that medium for now. I’ve thought about a concept for an exhibition, and what I really need now is a hole in the ground! 😄 I have an idea involving Raku technique that I will explore . It was a good day, getting back into the flow.

So, what did you create, lovely?

a lot of yall got wives you love, but always zapping other women’s selfies.

madonna whore complex is real and alive on nostr