Ugh my heart 💜😭🫂 Loves you. Thank you. 🙏

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Love will find you. I try to enjoy every moment when I'm in love. And I also believe in real and endless love ❤️

pls stop making nostr feel like slack.

everyone’s so serious, just have fun.

Yes, a very emotional topic. And I absolutely agree with you. However, I had to learn that it's not always that easy. I'm divorced and have three kids. There were times that weren't nice. And I hated my ex-husband too. Of course, there were also lies, manipulation and everything. But what was I supposed to do? I can't turn around and say I don't want to have anything more to do with you. There are things to discuss and things to decide together. Birthdays and other celebrations. I hated him for a while. Then I learned to like him. He's the father of my kids. Sure, there's no love anymore, but we get along. No hard feelings. We are friends now. I've learned to forgive him. And he forgave me. That has set us free. Forgiving him was especially important for me. But I understand you. Lies let die the love and trust. 🫂🥺

haha not bitter at all, it was just sad, reality was very clear to me, he'd blown his budget saving all his possessions from being lost through import taxes back to his home country and didn't want to wear just one month of my costs so i wasn't literally on the border of homeless

and i got a job before a month passed, and it wouldn't have been much different the other way around except he might have got some thanks by way of giving him the money back, and not have lost my trust

meh, stupids gonna stupid, i'm not bitter, it was his loss to throw away my trust like that after i'd been as good as i could be

people do this, they get distracted by other things that aren't as important as the world around them these days, eyes glued to the doom scroll of X and their bank account balance or crypto balances

i'd talk to him again no problem if he actually demonstrated that he understood his actions were cruel and unjustified, but he was clearly so wrapped up in himself he couldn't see straight - and i'm teh one fighting vision loss because of type 2 diabetes, and trying to code at the same time to save my ass

They - I think that if you hate, you haven't overcome anything. Only when you feel indifference are you over it. But whether that's a good thing, I don’t know. In any case, love and hate are such strong emotions and speak to the fact that you haven't let go yet. I try not to hate. But there are people who no longer touch me. Finally.

Sometimes the heart knows the answer but the mind doesn't like it

Deep 😌

you must be in the equatorial zone then? in my old town Brisbane it got down to like 12 on exceptionally cold winter days once or twice a year

i only just fully acquired this one recently... froze out a guy who turned toxic on me after i'd done plenty to help him out and more than what he paid for on my sponsorship but then he lets me run off to an atlantic island to find him a place and then he says "no, you don't get any money for getting this place organised" and i had to sell everything and i froze that fucker out so bad i've never been so hostile to another human being i couldn't get away from

and the last thing he sends me in a message after i finally vanish the moment i have the money to is, is about how "we'll look back and laugh" ... lol, no fuckin way. i don't leave my friends stuck on a fucking island with no money to survive for a month while they have to hunt a job, not my friend, end of

there is a lot of people in the world like this, they are good up until something trips them into psycho mode and they become unreasonable and you have to isolate yourself from them

That's like me 🫂💀

Hate is a strong feeling

So the eternal Spring 😉

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