She should be moving like this for you and nobody else. Women have the power structure all mixed up in their heads. A woman who is shaking her ass for attention is giving away all her power. Sure she might get some dollars, but she loses her appeal to any man that has an ounce of dignity. Having men actually lust for her gives her power. Selling herself to the highest bidder is giving away all her power to others.
#women #power
If you give her a life free of worry and burden, she will willingly become your personal property.
How to achieve this?
Provide #leadership and take #responsibility for everything.
The society that does not value anything, relationships are disposable and even when married people are looking at all the other options. The idea of giving up their childish ways scares all the 20-something’s, then by the time they realize it, they are too late as their eggs have dried up.
I think it is in their nature and truly they are disappointed / let down / turned off when you give in. Yes both people need to be heard, but I see the difference when my wife is being bitchy and I submit to her requests, versus when she is being bitchy and I do not give in. The first version ends up with her submitting and being content. The second version ends up with a tense household because she is taking my role and she is not actually happy about it.
They do not understand what they are actually attracted to.
Liberal men are not attractive to feminine women. Inside their guts, women want to be protected and cared for. If she has to spend her time and energy keeping up with things that are her man’s responsibility (protection, taking out the trash, finances, big decisions, yard work), she will not have long lasting sexual interest in tha man because she is wasting energy thinking about your job.
#responsibility
Keep her guessing and surprised 😮
My wife thinks I got her a vibrator or something similar - she had seen the box and yesterday she asked “when do I get the gift you got me?”
“Spread your legs and place your hands on the the bed, mama.” 👮♂️
#relationships
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Having sex without ejaculation puts you on a different frequency. You feel the hum in your body. This is where transmutation / sublimation can take place in the mind. Stay conscious, seed your thoughts with new ideas, and see what you can create.
#retention #sublimation #transmutation
These are the messages you get when you provide #leadership and #responsibility
Also, early in life (20s) women are buying the guy’s potential, not his current assets. If she thinks you’re gonna do well in life and lead her to a better place, she will put up with a lot of BS.
Not sure who is going on vacations in college with people they are not exclusively dating, but he is dealing with reality vs the story he has been told about girls, feminism, etc. he is told they are all boss babes who are independent and don’t need a man - but reality is that a woman wants to be swept off her feet, shown a good time, romanced, teased, forgotten, and remembered. She does not want to “go dutch” or split the bill, no matter how much he or she brings home. If you’re in college it should be simple - watch a move, go to a party, whatever.
Somewhere around day 4-7 of retention, you will flat line - your hormones have settled and you won’t feel the pressing urge for release. Be sure to stay playful with your wife. Dabble in some erotic photos if you need the help, but do not worry - Your body will respond correctly when it is called upon.
#retention
#readbetweenthethighs
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Heading into the weekend, make a plan to get some tasks done which show you are thinking about the big picture of your family’s needs. Many moms complain that their husbands “only do what they are asked to do” - take some responsibility, think with your brain, initiate tasks without being asked, and reap the rewards.
#responsibility
I had a problem with dirty talk. I would either just grunt a lot, or I’d say things that I felt in the moment but she later said it felt cheesy or porn-y.
Started describing what we are doing / what is happening, or what I like about what is happening, and the response has been positive.
#relationships #sex
A normal and healthy male in his 20s will be driven to have sex with multiple women. This is natural, for young men to sow their oats.
Unfortunately, many today are slovenly, addicted to porn, weed, booze, compulsive masturbators, etc. 1/3 of men live in their parents basements, have no positive masculine role models, and have no female partnership to speak of.
The future is bleak for the American male. The cream rises to the top and gets all the rewards and it has never been easier to stand out.
#responsibility #sex
https://www.ibtimes.com/1-3-american-men-aged-18-24-havent-had-sex-past-year-report-2993949
First you want to zap me, then 8 hours later you you don’t like that I used the word “girls”… I did not provide any “advice” in this post.
How much passion do you sense from the men in these circles? Do they take care of themselves physically and mentally? Do they excite the women they are with?
I don’t know about “betting” but there is definitely sport in it.
How many girls can you keep at one time? How many times do you see her before sex?
Usually leads to short term situations because the goal is reached and the excitement subsides.
Wife snagged me by withholding the pussy just long enough to keep my interest but not totally dissuade me.
There are 3 categories of problems in your life:
[1] Your Problems (and her big problems) - Your car broke down, her car broke down, your job, immediate financial problems, house matainance, emerging issues, etc. Any real problem that your wife brings to you. You need to handle these things and not put any burden on your wife.
[2] Shared Problems - These are things such as long-term finacial planning, big purchases, etc. You need to create a plan for these things, get your wife's buy-in, and then she can help you execute if necessary.
[3] Her Small Problems - These are make believe girl problems. Becky is being a bitch, her sister did a stupid thing, the cleaning lady is coming tomorrow. Listen to her, repeat the problem and impact back to her, but do not offer new solutions. She does not want your solutions, she wants you to hear her, understand her, and support her.
#leadership #women