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I was just curious. I'm reading it now and just thought you would like it.

Many here don’t love government and I totally get the sentiment.

But through first hand experience, the real evil IMO is consultants who take advantage of, and manipulate, well-meaning officials who have no business or street smarts. They are masters of deception and fraud who position themselves to be “needed” whenever public funding becomes available for a project.

Then they work to siphon those funds towards themselves while not providing any actual value in a truly sickening fashion with no regard for the taxpayer. Projects go over budget and way past schedule, designs are totally out of touch and get reworked over and over again while unnecessary services are billed month after month by the consultants. They steer the ship in circles from the shadows.

The officials hands are tied by a system hardened thru too many rules and are pressured to show *something* is being done. They’re not innocent either in many cases- but most people here don’t realize it’s actually very hard for them to commit conscious fraud. So a lot of it is a slow innocent drip as the consultants corner them like a boring but dominant chess player. They do this without committing anything that looks like a “gotcha” type crime. It’s systematic- like you’d need to RICO case every play to truly prove anything in court. It’s not even one coordinated group, it’s a whole damn industry of waste and fraud… like a decentralized ongoing racket.

DOGE isn’t perfect but it’s a step in the right direction… too bad it’s not being done at state and local level too (at least in CA). I can tell you- they need it too.

Have you read The Sovereign Individual?

Today I engaged in an argument with a toddler. He thought that in his storybook of Noah's Ark, there were cracks in the clouds. They were broken clouds. He just would accept my explanation of lightning and thunder. Lol.

I grew up in a place that a family can hunt and fish for enough meat to last the whole year. It's a new thought for me that most places aren't like this. I really just take it for granted, and didn't ever put it together other places aren't like that..

Told someone today I regret going to college. And explained, I just really want to raise my kids, and be a stay at home wife. Their response was... So you just wanted to be taken care of.... But no, that's not it. I just wanted to take care of... Take care of my children, take care of their education, take care of dinner, take care of the home, take care of my husband, take care of the laundry, take care of while being present and available to my family.

Replying to Avatar Noshole

lol

She taking the carnivore/animal based diet to a whole new level.

Replying to Avatar AnnSofiNovelist

When I was single ready to be a wife, I heard a story of someone who had talked to a Jewish man who picked the spouse for his children. The kids had a say, but they weren't left on their own to get it done.

My parents had zero involvement, also, it only took 68 days from our first date until we got married, and he was only my boyfriend for 6 days until we were basically engaged (though I got the ring the night before the wedding when we first met in person) but we had God basically being our wingman, so it worked out well 😎

I really liked the idea of getting to see how my future husband interacts with other people, because if we like someone we tend to put our best foot forward, but other people tend to get the more real experience of a person.

Like the women who like a bad boy, because he's kind to her but treats others horribly. It's not gonna take long before he starts treating her the same way! But then she's already attached and it's harder to leave.

One of my friends had been away from home for maybe 1.5 years. When she came back, a guy had joined her church and became friends or at least friendly with her family members, and they liked him, and when they started interacting they realized they really liked each other too, and ended up getting married within about 6 months. It really helped her that her family had already seen the real him before he even knew she existed, because she could use them as a reference for his character.

So, yes, I think it's a great idea when the community gets involved. However, they need to be healthy people who can give honest observations rather than those who just blindly encourage dating because they wanna go to a wedding or they like the person, but the person doesn't actually suit the single person and what they want out of life. So, it's a balancing game.

I think it's super important to know oneself and what one wants out of life so they can sort potential partners accurately and quickly.

These are some of the things we'll be helping people figure out in our book.

I think references, and advice from people who see it as their responsibility (not their entertainment) would have really helped me when I was in my teens and early twenties.I knew what I wanted in life and knew myself well enough but didn't have the life experience to recognize a man who wanted the same thing.

When I was dating, before anything else, I noticed their posture, stride, cadence, how they hold their head, what they look at... Its not about what youve got, its about how you strut it!