Avatar
Faith & Practice 🍁
ebd504aab1c87be1124111bfd0294f85976e3af890814732de7a602063c266a3
Christian, husband, father, son, therapist

I tried maintaining my own lightning node and found it onerous, and did make me appreciate how easy centralized services make it look.

I have frequent seasonal power outaged and in consequence my channel partners punished me with unilateral closures. This experience, the fees, the necessary knowledge, and maintenance involved made me hope for an improved layer 2 to see instant cheap and anonymous payments become easier to truly self-custody and operate.

As a result lf this experience I learned to appreciate again Bitcoin's base layer.

Strike and WoS are wildly popular among bitcoiners, but also wildly centralized and custodial. They're convenient, but you trade for that convenience with your liberty, privacy, and responsibility. What gives?

Without trying to do a trinitarian heresy here, is not the Holy Spirit kind of the 'protocol' or central authority that connects the seemingly separate parts of the 66 books? Likewise churches may appear quite decentralized with their many differences, but as long as they are orthodox and faithful churches of Christ, they serve one master, one central authority, one king, and one husband - The Lord Jesus Christ.

Tomorrow is the Lord's day.

Use this map link to find a faithful Reformed church to worship with tomorrow, local to you.

https://www.google.com/maps/d/viewer?mid=1d_UbOHoEYBmcyriC09r3x2AdcP4&usp=sharing

Spook got called back by the brass. He takes orders from above.

Our difference lies in the definition of worship. I agree with your counterpoint. Sexual activity and maintaining sexual attractiveness and service to one another is a natural and holy obligation.

1 Corinthians 7:4-6:

For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, wso that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

Something I was totally unequipped for before becoming happily married: understanding the natural differences of men and women in libido.

For women, libido so much depends on hormonal cycles, and she becomes most sexually interested during the times she is most fertile.

Man, on the other hand, is far more "ready" and consistent. In and out of season, he is open to his wife. Therefore, men must learn to live in natural respect and patience with this difference and not take it personally. Women are beautiful creatures and God's gift to man - the perfect companion. Practice self-control and live with your wife in an understanding way.

#Biblestr #Psychology #Christian #Marriage #MasculineFrame

Replying to Avatar vincenzzo

People become corrupted when they lie to themselves and others. It you have the presence of mind to catch your lies you can start to turn the world around.

The more we lie and the less we catch ourselves the more we turn the world into "Hell".

In order to catch the lie and have that presence of mind we must do internal work in the Jungian sense in order to know ourselves well enough to catch us in the act of lying.

https://youtu.be/2v8lq_vnklI?t=3974

First put yourself together and then go forth and change the world starting small with your own family, relationships, job, community and then wider society. If you start the other way around you end up in the place of the Woke Political left. Scared people freaking out about the world (inequality, pronouns, climate change etc). While they have correctly identified the problem(s) they have incorrectly landed on a solution.

A good example is in the #bitcoin community. I saw someone on Twitter saying inheritance tax needs to be larger but if they had first looked internally and understood they were being lied to about inflation and fiat money system then they would not have landed on 'tax more' as the solution to inequality. They would have landed on 'promote hard assets' instead. And #btc is the king of hard assets as it is backed by decentralized node operators and physics in its energy backed creation of Bitcoin 'monetary tokens'. When we tell the truth about money we can end up in a world where prices decrease ie deflation

#bitcoin #plebarmy #grownostr #bitcoin #lightningnetwork #jordanpetersen #philosophy #psychology #woke #politics #climatechange #scartactics #inflation #deflation

One of the most replicatable phenomenons in the discipline of #psychology is the undeniable effectiveness of prolonged exposure therapy, coming out of the behaviour sciences. If you have conditioned avoidance to a stimulus based on a bad experience with it, the only cure to that fear and subsequent avoidance is a progressive safe re-exposure to that thing again to re-train your brain with a positively different association. This cure applies to developed fear of:

• Environments

• People

• Food

• Animals

• + more

Your mind will tell you to avoid exposure, but if you know better life is on the other side of this barrier, you must cognitively distance from this thought, buckle up, and do what matters. The alternative is watching a better life go by the wayside - your mind will point it out to you, too. In this way, avoiding pain creates a pain feedback loop.

~~~~~

Fascinatingly, we also have pre-conditioned aversion to some things such as spiders, some would-be foods, and snakes. It's not all tabula rasa in the human brain. Some of our responses are innate and usually very beneficial for our survival.

Since I work from home from a computer, Saturday's tasks of cooking, tidying, washing, mowing lawns, and fixing things are a welcome relief.

Has anyone else read that physical leisure has high quality of life returns for office workers? Likewise the opposite is true: a man who works hard physically finds it most restful and streas-relievinf to read, study, or otherwise engage his mind as a hobby during his off-hours.

T.S. Elliot opined: "variety is the spice of life."

#Psychology

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7758601/#:~:text=Several%20recent%20studies%20have%20shown,job%20stress14%2C%2015).

Word on the street is that Chad Kroeger is a grade-A A-hole to those who he considers below his accomplishments. I recall a friendly local venue security guard recall how Chad arrogantly rubbed in his face how he makes as much as this guy does in a year in a single performance.

That's a good enough reason alone to dislike them I think.

I'm using the Primal beta .APK file for android. it nicely organizes global into popular hashtags for easier discoverability. I intend to use more hashtags consistently going forward. #psychology could use some contributions, and I recognize I'm uniquely equipped as a professional to add to that conversation.

Sad but true. There will be an adoption curve with nostr as there was for bitcoin and other tech that is ahead of its time. One day, others will wake to it. Until that day, it's good to be here.