i've been a few times. it's uh interesting. but you see i'm now in my room lol
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You’ve been to snuggle party? A few times?
yes. the first half is basically a workshop on consent and boundaries. i've never been to the second half 👀 I always leave and disappoint 😆
Ohhh… umm that uh sounds like an Aella party 🤣
Why leave early?
Been invited to these before. Always seems interesting, but I never go.. I think there's a reason.
yeah, i've only been to the first half. and only went to practice "no" in awkward settings. it was good for that purpose. i don't find comfort in snuggling with ppl i don't know. i'm v sensitive and energetically i'm happy with most ppl not touching me lol i'd say your gut is right
Spooning always leads to forking…..
Straight men mentality 😆
I'm just teasing. Don't attack me
Sikto (and I guarantee you no one else) would never attack you. shit talk all day. 😂
Why not any more? Which part isn't good? Curious.
one time this much older guy (i don't even know his name lol) straight up said he'd like to "rub his hands intimately all over" me and i was just like, yeah buddy that's not gonna happen
if you're a pretty female it's kinda intense 😂
This sounds terrible.
now you see why i'm in my room lollll
last thing to clarify: but also, it isn't terrible. the consent and boundaries part was extremely helpful. remember he said that in a controlled setting where I could then say no way with no pressure and he actually thanked me for taking care of myself. I don't think women get to experience that, maybe ever? which was the original reason I wanted to go. I think this type of scenario could be beneficial for a lot of people.
nostr:npub1jha738m0ley92vkysglh2llkvddz0wm60wcqa305new2az9c55cqr8xj6y just posted this lol
I agree!
to say no and to be told no, gracefully, are skills
He's really not supposed to say that in that setting.
