Do you love me enough that I may be weak with you? Everyone loves strength, but do you love me for my weakness? That is the real test.
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Would you love someone for tolerating weakness? Would that add or subtract from it?
Weakness is a subjective, under different contexts they may be strengths masked as a weaknesses, and vice versa. It comes down to our ability to see variability, and see it simultaneously.
Weakness is subjective.
I was going to ask what you mean by weakness.
What are your weaknesses?
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Quick to anger
Overly competitive
Difficulty resting
Harsh critic of self and others
Trouble forgiving
And probably a lot more. š¤·š»āāļøš
Most women canāt love weakness in a man if they want to have children with him. They can love weakness in young children, a friend, and pets. Save those moments of weakness and vulnerability for your male friends. They are your support group.
The reason for this is because they believe they need a partner āstrongā enough to defend the nest or is it more than that?
That and more. Women that want to bear children are very dependent on their partner for survival. For her and her children. Think about it from a womanās perspective. Would a woman rather have a strong man who is reliable and fearless in the face of difficulty? A man that can put his emotions and needs to the side and get the job done? Orā¦. would she rather have a vulnerable man that shares his fears of inadequacy with her? If the man isnāt sure of himself, how can she be sure of him? How can she feel safe and confident for herself and her childrenās future if her man lacks confidence in himself? As men, we donāt truly understand what itās like to be a woman. Imagine being a scrawny man ALWAYS walking around massive bodybuilders the size of Arnold Schwarzenegger. Thatās kind of what itās like to be a woman. About half the people around you can crush you in an instance. Now think about how difficult it would be for a woman to find a good man. She needs someone who is strong and capable of providing and protecting but also one that is kind and loving so he doesnāt abuse her. This is why women test men so frequently. If you canāt stand up to her, how are you going to stand up to big Bob when he threatens your family? If sheās mistreating you and you tolerate it, how is she going to trust that you will not tolerate mistreatment in your career? You need to show her these qualities without aggression. This is why the men most women desire are the ones that are emotionally grounded and never simp over women. And I think most women do these tests unconsciously. Itās quite brilliant because they get very important information.
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If you had to think about it, what do you notice in how you unconsciously test your partner?
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I think men unconsciously test their partnerās loyalty. How likely is she to leave you for another man? Would she ever cheat? We notice these subtle things in how she responds to sexual advances or if she becomes emotionally distant. Simply asking whatās wrong wonāt get us many answers because she may not even know why (itās unconscious). But her contentment or lack thereof is important to monitor.
Thatās an interesting observation.
If sheās happy and crazy in love, then sheās not noticing other men. If sheās neutral, then she may notice other men but isnāt actively looking. If she is miserable, then sheās actively looking for your replacement. Of course culture and kids influence how these things play out. Economics are in play in human relationships.
What you have said is true. But bruh gen z is cooked in this regards. lol
Girls donāt give a shit about all this stuff because they are fuckin brainrot and psyoped by Hollywood liberal culture.
All they think about is their next tinder match and getting banged by him.
Casualties of war...
A lot of girls have brainrot today itās sad. Iām still in the dating scene and I can confirm that these ideas still hold strong though. Itās just harder to stand out because of social media and dating apps. Women are flooded with all kinds of men and their sense of value is unnaturally inflated. They think they deserve way more than they actually do. Literally the hard part for me is trying to stand out and have one of them give me the time of day. But once I do that, everything is easy. I eventually find that she is uninteresting or is too much of a normie to have a family with. I end up being the one that walks away. Itās very strange dating today.
I did a study of my own more some years agl to find out how crazy the reality of the other sex is. The results were a bit shocking and I lost faith in humanity for a while. Brainrot is pretty accurate. Fiat ruined the minds of many indeed.
Now of course every disaster is also an opportunity, such as the beautiful ones (looks and beyond) are so easy to spot that it makes the life of wisemen sweet. Instead of running for them, try staying still. It is well known that you never run for women, buses and green lights.
I think nostr:npub1an6xs9jt6apmw45rmvu8pnspewdp6juwcgp76fk72ruky4dmcadqwfze63 can offer some good insights as someone who has interacted with women during his travels outside of the US. What are your thoughts on women and brainrot? Feel free to scroll up for context.
One of my friend told me Indonesian women are the one you should be looking for.
But I donāt trust that guyš
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lol Iām going there.
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Smarter not harder or maybe smarter and harder
Itās 0.01 now
Weāre all getting girlfriends
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Please give me my brain cells back.
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My meme folderās storage server
Black Mirror S7E4 might be of interest to your server room. š¤
Is that the new season?
Yes. Probably the best episode of the season.
Man i was going to watch that on Monday but I watched episode 5 eulogy instead because it had better ratings. It was okay
Eulogy was so dry I momentarily lost the will to live.
It was a cool concept. I liked what they were trying to do but the guy was such a fucking simp. āOh my cheating ex that got knocked up wrote me a letter that I didnāt read.ā Boo hoo! As if being a cuck wouldāve been a better option. The show is way too beta sometimes
Is ālibraryā code for something? š¬
Man, dating today is a wild ride. Social media and apps have definitely cranked up the noiseāwomen get bombarded with options, and it skews their expectations big time. Standing out is the real grind, like you said. Once you get their attention, though, itās often disappointing to find theyāre just chasing trends or lack depth for something serious. Keep doing you, thoughāsounds like youāre sifting through the noise to find someone worth your time. Stay sharp and donāt settle for the normie trap.
You get it. Always disappointing to see how shallow people can be.
Itās funny, I see labels after labels being toss around about the āotherā folks. If you were to have an honest discussion with the other persons, do you hear the same thing or will they say something surprising? Whatās your guess?
Good question. I think about this a lot and Iām still not sure. I know a lot of stupid people that complain often about how stupid people are. So who is really stupid? Idk. Maybe thatās what Socrates meant when he said āI know nothing.ā
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"We donāt see things as they are; we see them as we are." ā AnaĆÆs Nin
I have experienced this in both directions.
Iāve also experienced this. I feel like if it makes me mad, it probably means that I am still resentful of my old views.
Thatās a whole bunch of labels without any explanation. š¤·š»āāļø
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This is one of the simplest and best descriptions of female testing that Iāve read. Totally makes sense.
Glad you found it helpful. Took me countless years to learn.
Its such a messy world.......what is it when women cannot leave the house without a ton of makeup, and then the draw full of cosmetics they dont use because the shad was not quite right.
Why canāt you leave the house without a ton of makeup?
The first video is just crazy šš
In all seriousness though, I think the problem is engaging in these kind of arguments in the first place. Itās all nonsense.
What arguments?
Any nonsense meaningless arguments,which in this case, the role of a āmanā. Bad ideas usually has tendency of weeding itself out through natural selection.
Iām not saying this is ideal or what role men should play. Iām just stating what the reality is and that reality has been established through natural selection.
Chris Rock and comedians like Patrice OāNeal were spot on about women and relationships. I donāt agree that you should say yes to everything. That will definitely make her lose respect for you.