On a scale of stupid to fully missing a brain, how stupid is it to live next to your in-laws?
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I like it, would buy a house nearer if I could.
I guess I got lucky with that
🤣🫂
In a normal society where people value community and live as families it's pretty normal to live close to your in-laws
My wife does it and it’s definitely a mixed bag but if it was going to be very bad, you probably wouldn’t be even thinking about it
10/10 so I'd say fully missing a brain stupid .
Jealous…I’d love to live next to a parent🤙
They leave us too soon
I live next to my in-laws and it's great. If by next to, we're talking about in the state next to the state they live in 😎
This is how to avoid getting on the stupid to missing a brain scale 🤣
FAFO
Depends on what kind of people they are right.
Missing a brain…..soon you may have to start searching for your testicles too.
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Are you old enough to remember Everybody Love Raymond? If not give it a try, might help you laugh at the situation.
They cool or nah?
Fully missing a brain. I wouldn’t even want to live next to my own parents and I love them.
We live about 15 minute drive from my wife’s parents. In fact they were just here this evening to celebrate my birthday and Mother’s Day.
It was great when our son was younger and they’d watch him.
Now they come to his basketball games and help watch our dog if we are gone for the day or extended time
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I think the big fear many have is the in-laws just dropping in without a call.
That has only happened a handful of times and it was usually related to them surprising us with a gift or something.
I think the main point of I have one is this: the older I get the more I realize how important family is.
My wife and son will always trump the relationship with my parents or in-laws…but it’s important to have a quality relationship with them.
It’s messy sometimes, as all relationships can be, but at the end of the day Relationships are worth Reconciling
All of our ancestors were missing brains when their families were bound to and lived together in a single village for generations. 🤣
Depends who owns the house I'll bet
The last time I talked to my sister, she was telling me about her mother-in-law coming over while she wasn't home & cutting down the bushes that blocked the view into the living room window
That calls for a restraining order!
My wife grew up on the same large plot of land as some extended family, including my wife's grandparents and two sets of cousins, aunt, and uncle. I was hoping to do so, too, but money was never good enough to get it, but then my children are older by too much to have the same arrangement of growing up surrounded by cousins. Might not happen.
I find there to be a major difference between living on the same piece of land & living in an urban environment.
There's no shared goals in the urban setting.
I mean... how's the mother in law pussy,, let's be honest
brainless people do this.... ruining marriages and families
Having no family bonds is what the banksters want.
No one to depend on.
Alone among a sea of strangers who have also eschewed their own families living in a concrete shoebox full of unnatural LED lights in the city because netflix groupthinked mother in law bad patriarchy bad into you.
Dont fall for the scam.
Family should be good.
This, except… patriarchy bad
you just described my life except you forgot thigh high socks...
First they created the nuclear family to replace the community.
And now they're working on dismantling the nuclear family so that we all live alone and socially isolated.
I live one street over from mine and I wouldn’t trade it for anything. They’re babysitters on standby at all times and we enjoy walking over there with the kids a few times a week. I happen to have great in-laws that aren’t nosy and dropping in at random all the time so maybe I’m the exception though 🤷♂️
It all boils down to personalities. Your and their!
Anecdotal - mine were gems! I miss them. They were good people - they went through a lot. They're hardened by tough times. And their advices mattered.
(They're not alive now)
Are they cool
I live really close to my in-laws and I love it 💖
My mother in law lives upstairs. Works for us.