Having a family member on hospice is the worst kind of limbo. Especially when itโ€™s towards the end end and every time the phone makes a noise, itโ€™s like heart-stopping.

Iโ€™m just waiting for the call. Could be in 5 minutes, could be in 3 days, but it feels like everything is on pause.

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Sorry for your situation. I been there, and itโ€™s tough, hang in there.

Thank you. Itโ€™s definitely uncomfortable ๐Ÿซ‚

An old rugby mate of mine was a doctor in a hospice. He took great pride in making his people comfortable. I feel for you, honey. I lost my mum, tomorrow, 30 years ago x

My dadโ€™s caregivers are AMAZING; heโ€™s just not able to speak or function anymore

I feel it baby girl. Been there. My mum refused to go into a hospice so my aunt and I looked after her. Hard

Damn that must have been exhausting

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I was there almost 2 years ago.

I get it all.

Nothing much to say. I'm with you. ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚

You and they are eternal beings of light. There is no need for pause.

You are so wise. I felt that

Circumstances donโ€™t matter, only your state of being matters. Much love and appreciation ๐ŸŒน

Praying for you and your family ๐Ÿ™โค๏ธ๐Ÿซ‚

Thank you sticker guy ๐Ÿซ‚

I'm sorry to hear it. We are in a very similar position right now too. Stay strong ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฝ

Ugh that blows. Thank you friend and likewise๐Ÿซ‚

I went through this 5 years ago with my stepmom. It was really rough. โค๏ธโ€๐Ÿฉน

Yup. Itโ€™s a very yucky feeling ๐Ÿซ‚

That phone ringing anxiety will absolutely eat you. Be careful with yourself.

Trying to distract, but itโ€™s not really working

Yeah it's dark. For sure mute everything that isn't important.

I would rather mute it all, disappear for a while, and then receive it on my own terms. You know it's going to be there when you come back, it's just a matter of actually reading or hearing it. A shrink would probably not approve of that...

Yeah Iโ€™m trying to do that

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I'm sorry.

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peace be with all ๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ

That really is sad, sorry noshole ๐Ÿซ‚

Im so sorry Noshole. It's a challenging time for sure.

that sucks ๐Ÿซ‚

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God bless. Itโ€™s the toughest situation to deal with. Sending love

Sending love to you friend. Reach out if you need to. Hoping for a peaceful transition for you all. ๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚๐Ÿซ‚