I’ve quietly watched as something quite ugly has developed on #nostr.

Going back almost a year, I’ve spoken about the future of nostr, the inevitable beginnings of bots, fake accounts, trolls.

Even then, I realized nostr was resilient to these things, thanks to layer 2, and the portability of the core values of Bitcoin.

However, there is a separate issue that I did not give much thought to, and now I’ve seen it grow as a trend and I feel I should speak on it.

I’m talking about begging by proxy. I’m prepared to start using my end user power of filtration to mute these npubs.

I’m tired of seeing pity me posts, I’m a victim of circumstance posts, poor me posts. It’s pretty ugly to watch certain users climb in popularity by virtue of association, to later use their exposure to appeal to other users sense of pity or empathy.

I remember a conversation with a male role model in my life during my 20s where my response to his questioning as to my lack of employment, was to say “ I can’t get a job because I don’t have a car, I can’t get a car because I don’t have any money, I don’t have any money because I can’t get a job…”. This was when he explained to me that I was a victim of circumstance, but that the fault was my own.

No matter the cycle, you must find the most viable attack vector to break the cycle.

All the users on nostr have their own hardships too. This isnt a “rich ppl chatroom” where you can cry about your hardships hoping some wealthy person will have sympathy for you.

Proof of work.

Not, beg for bitcoin.

There are a few users who need to scroll back up and read this again.

Or, don’t. But you risk becoming the first person I mute.

Sorry, not sorry.

Love you plebs…

🫂💜🧡🔱

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Internet beggars and e-girls are on the same level in my mind.

It’s disgusting.

I have extremely wealthy friends, and I’ve gone through a lot of hardships. I have had help, and I have also gone it alone.

But to publicly shed all self respect, for… fiat? Basically? It’s appalling.

It’s nasty, and I really do not like it. At all. This protocol is a gift, for plebs to link up, learn from eachother, respect eachother. Not a country club to sneak into to steal and beg.

Yuck.🤮

Interesting

haters, haters everywhere. Fuck em.

💜 haters

I never said nothin bout you onyx don’t you be calling me no hater I never gave you no shit!

I understand I never said nothing except “interesting” under another persons comment about girls. I an’t calling you one.

My haters comment genuinely wasn’t towards you at all buddy. Fr. Lol

“E-girls”^

Meanwhile Noshole is in Main Chat having a living funeral and having nostr:npub1unsnfxtxsht58arcpq3d34rskx99zln79axv9v4awq5ar5sguv6qk68r2y read her last rights on her death bed for period cramps. 😂😂😂

And Rupert is struggling with mental health today. Woo! Eskitit.

Sister🫂

♥️🫂🫂🫂💜

🤣🤣😂💜

I gave my home girl a good send off to the next place. nostr:npub1ymt2j3n8tesrlr0yhaheem6yyqmmwrr7actslurw6annls6vnrcslapxnz is an awesome woman, and I commend nostr:npub12r0yjt8723ey2r035qtklhmdj90f0j6an7xnan8005jl7z5gw80qat9qrx for his wisdom in his selection. The couple are quite the prize, a perfect union. I respect them both, and they are real people, that I’m proud to call my frens.

You’re awesome! Thanks Sai, likewise 💜

Massive high five. We die on our feet speaking the truth, we never die on our knees living a lie.

I can't get out of bed before I've had my coffee.... Etc

We don't wanna end up with a homeless crisis in the Nostr colony then we need to address this behavior. begging is the opposite of sovereignity.

You are free.

Act like it.

with love

That’s what I’m screaming b. This is proof of work not proof of beg.

I totally agree . I've blocked quite a few myself.

I hate to block someone. But I’m getting close. Love and respect seimi

It's seemed p inevitable when I first joined. I'm also not convinced about the party line of z@ps being somehow necessarily superior to likes or a better 'signal' of quality of post. Visit primal's trending tab and you can see this. Social media dynamics on nostr seem to work exactly like all other social media, we just also have alt-likes with some sort of monetary value or something. But yes, z@ps do seem to bring the potential with it of another additional sort of social media game meta.

One of the most sensible things Instagram did (mostly by force of criticism and bad press) was give the options for users to hide like counts under their posts/notifications. I'm not sure any nostr client has this option? #asknostr

*+ The gofundmefication is on all platforms really, it's just more obvious here with the counters under our posts(?)

I’m not totally aligned with your views, but I do share some. I do believe that nostr has the potential to move us passed the pitfalls of other social media platforms, however.

💜🔥

Preciate you CD. 🫡🫂

🫂🤙

We can summarize this note quite nicely: V4V 🤝

TL;DR

You need to bring value to receive value

Hence why I prefer to zap than to like. One has intrinsic value, the other doesn’t.

Public shaming over censoring

Censoring what exactly. I did not shame anyone…

I was suggesting shaming the beggars instead of muting them.

Ay man its tough times out here

Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day, teach him how to fish and he will eat forever.

Well said bro.

That's one of the reasons why I took a break from Nostr a couple months back. I've run into my fair share of shallow social climbers in this space. The way that Bitcoin reveals incentives is truly a blessing as it makes it easier to decide whom I want to spend my scarce time with. People who bring their baggage/fiat tactics from fiat land ALWAYS find out

proof of work is all that matters 🙌

Agreed. 🫡

Be a Neo, not a Cypher.

Remember what a shitshow that Steemit became back around 2016? It we thoroughly contaminated with overt and subtle content solely created to 'pay me'.

Nostr is NOT immune to this.

My bro! Good to see you?! You haven’t been to active huh? How’s everything

Sup. Sup?!?

My plate is full right now. No spare cycles between travel and work.

All is well in the Citadel.

How bout you? How you treating Nashville and Life?

I’m VA still. I’ll be back in Nash sooner than later. Working work work work. All is good tho.

Thanks for sharing insightful post 🫡 🫂

Just another day keeping it real with my plebs. Ty tho

This is true. In life there will always be problems - and addressing problems with practical solutions is a valuable skill. And if you can’t see the solution, then having people willing to spend time to brainstorm solutions is really precious, at least to me. It's more valuable than dumping money. Its satisfying to be able to work towards a goal and overcome problems on your own. I've also noticed that oftentimes those who really suffer are the ones who quietly fix their issues and try to help others. But I have also learnt that not everybody is the same. Sometimes people don't want to solve problems. Sometimes they just want quick fixes. Sometime they want the attention, and some might badger the hell out of you if you try to help with ideas for solutions. Perhaps adapting to a new financial culture may be a factor idk. But a principle i have always held on in life is to not help anyone who is not wiling to help themselves.

Alright you got me I pity you for crying about all the poor people you have to step over on your way to spa. Zapping you for your sorrows.

Huh?

I'm surprised no one has onboarded a small animal/cat/dog rescue shelter here tho. That's is both a good cause and content, photos& videos of cute animals. I think that would work really well here.

read your reply suggesting animal rescue shelter then went back to the first post about 'pity me posts' im confused, i was hoping for cute animal pics lol

Yeah sorry, there is a link between the two things lol. Unfortunately not yet!

I’m just out here rescuing animals on my own time and dime. Sometimes I post puppy photos. The animals I find are either lost and need help being reunited with their humans or they’re fosters in need of a home. Posting to platforms with the ability to connect more locally ends up being the best outcome.

I’m visiting South Africa this year and will be onboarding a couple of Lion Rescue Sanctuaries, watch this space 🫡

Amazing Marie!

Nice:)

Gtfo! I've given out more sats than I've ever given. Tracking zaps on nostr is broken anywhere you look too...

Hell, I even gave nostr:npub137c5pd8gmhhe0njtsgwjgunc5xjr2vmzvglkgqs5sjeh972gqqxqjak37w and others their 1M sats back that I had left over for helping me not be homeless! Don't make me post the fucking screenshots of private msgs.... I am him.

Ain't nobody gaining popularity or shit this way.

I'm just noting.

I'm on so many fucking mute lists because I'm an opinionated asshole who's going to throw the raw and realness of your own actions back in your face and ask why tf you did that...

Like you bringing my npub into this bullshit....

Fuck titles. Fuck notoriety.

And fuck your opinion that I'm one of these people.

🖕

Can confirm, 1M was zapped back. 🐶🐾🫡

I’ve both given and received over the last year depending on circumstances brother. Don’t let someone hiding behind a throwaway account steal your joy. Just show love to those who helped and pass is forward when you can.

I’m not going to let anyone tell me why I’m here. I know why I am.

No body can steal my joy as they do not have access to ME. My shell will remain here on earth though.

🤔 hmmm...

But I guess I could argue to myself about how social posts come from within and the shell just types them and that might be pretty close to actually knowing somebody...

#RawThoughts

Excuse me while I smoke this joint and ponder this observation.

Insurance covered my car lmao

Bang on 👏

I'm sure people who are on the internets long enough, are super resilient to such posts.

Nostr is a big community with tiny gangs and each member of a gang knows who's legit and who isn't.

There is geyser.fund for those things instead

Appreciate you posting this. Digital panhandling is not something I want nostr to be associated with.

tldr;

dont panhandle for sats on nostr.

I haven't noticed such things, but I no longer follow the global feed 🤷🏻‍♂️