i do not feel comfortable telling people to run knots until it has better review and release processes in place
if you do not want to relay larger op return transactions then run core v29 (the most recent version of core) and do not update to v30 when it is released
alternatively you can run v30 with a modified config file
i think luke, mechanic, and most core contributors mean well and care about bitcoin
long term i want to see more well reviewed bitcoin implementations exist, more choices for node operators is strictly better, this is one of the reasons i have donated my time to build out opensats
i think this ‘debate’ has mostly devolved into social attacks and is mostly unproductive
i do not think it matters much for the global bitcoin network which client you run, in this specific situation
i have said much on this topic in the past, use the search feature if you are curious