It’s been a very difficult era to be a proper man.

Inflation degrades earning power and ability to provide perpetually. Housing and food is always less affordable thus having a family always get harder through time.

Masculine endeavors have been under attack by the media for decades. Women have also been encouraged to be more masculine and provide for themselves while being trained to have distain toward typical male behaviors.

Processed foods and hygiene products have a negative effect on male hormones, literally emasculating men at scale.

Rebuke the modern attacks on men. Men need to provide, protect and lead. It’s the natural order.

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***Women have been forced to be more masculine, especially as a single parent. The men I’ve dated have unfortunately reinforced that dynamic. It’s so hard to find a man (like you’re stating) because they need to be in their masculine enough where I can follow versus be in charge. Love your post 🤗

I’ve had the opposite problem and maybe it’s somewhat geographical (I’m in the Seattle metro area which is a liberal stronghold) but the women I have dated are unwilling to follow the path I am on even as I’m explicit that I want to be the provider and leader. It’s frustrating and the complete opposite of how I grew up with my dad as provider / protector / leader.

The women I have experience with seem unhappy, unstable and listless while trying to lead and provide for themselves. But at the same time unwilling to change their path. Weird times.

> Weird times.

You can say that a few more times.

Rebuking is weak. "Proper men" take action.

You’re right. I thought rebuke was a synonym for reject but I see that it isn’t. Just a mistake on my end.

This is the sign of a responsible human. It's so refreshing to experience! Thank you for looking into it and following up! 🙌

Hey I learned something today too so thanks. Always trying to sharpen my spears.🫡

you can do both, take action while you openly discuss the problem.

In some spheres is also risky to just talk about this, so I wouldn underestimate the power of saying what we think, specially when it carry a cost wich tends to be when is more needed.

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THIS

The more I delve into the human mating literature, the more I think that not only modern "common sense" is wrong, but exactly the opposite as what is true. An "anty truth as Jstated btordan Peterson"

Feminiti is also under heavy assault. Imagine how better of both sexes will be if we were encouraged to aim high at the archetipe of both man and woman instead of being tempted to be as weak and ugly as posible in every sense of the word.

Is possible that this is a natural and unfortunate shift in general beliefs because truth have the habit to be unbearable sometimes, but it is unlikely to be an accident.

Those funding "filantropic think tanks" tend to be a mix of malthusian eugenics who believes that the earth has "too many people" and oddly enough those same think tanks foster whatever crap that difficulst, interfere or prevent people from having chindrens, be it divissive feminism, gender politics or early castration of confused childs.

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