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Gestalt Psychotherapist | Hard Money, Sovereignty, Slow Travel & Homeschool Advocate | Human behavior nerd | Ex Web3 CM | Free markets. Free minds. Real growth.

Loneliness is not about who you are…

It’s a signal about what you need.

Here’s a fantastic summary with a suggested strategy by Kasley Killam

🥹“How to navigate loneliness according to neuroscience” 🥹

#neuroscience

#TherapistTips

#therapistsofnostr

#beatingloneliness

#understandingloneliness

#healingloneliness

#meditation

#selfcompassion

https://youtu.be/DC9-StcwNFU?si=fYA8EkJOZ5UF2wtW

Here’s an interstate moving tip:

Source a Shipping Container

Removalist Provider

They stop it off in front of your place.

Give you two days to fill it.

Then pick it up & load it on train or ship.

Then store it for you as long as it takes for you to find your next destination.

POW TIP 💥

Put the heaviest things in the middle and strap them in.

Ensure that all sides are as balanced weight wise, as possible.

If you put the heaviest items closest to where the truck picks it up- it’s harder for the truck to lift it.

No one told us that ahead of time. Luckily ours wasn’t too heavy.

We were also told we cld fit a car inside- a 20 foot container was way too narrow to drive in / only allowing 40 cm to spare. The car was a tiny old Toyota.

From mess to move, we did it!

#debtfree

#downsizing

#earlyretirement

Creating a life for yourself

T H A T Y O U L O V E

takes balls.

Our life is ours for the making.

Don’t let fear stand in your way.

Our finite time needs apex investing.

#TherapistTips

#Bitcoin

#selfempowerment

#selfleadership

#sacrifice

#bigpicture

#longtermgame

Keep us posted.

You deserve better.

You know who you are. 👊

I know.

It’s shit.

But my POW has been that when I face my fear in pivoting away what is not correct for me, my life gets better than I imagined.

But it’s shit at first.

Cross that bridge when you get your it.

But there’s no way around a toxic boss who doesn’t give a rats about you.

It will steal your life force.

No matter how put together you are.

Your environment matters to your health.

I learned the hard way.

2x crazy ass bosses and my health took a huge deep dive in 5 months.

And I’m a self leader with strong boundaries & even stronger self worth. 💪🏽

It didn’t make a difference.

Because when we put up with bullshit, we move into a dance with

OURSELVES

Do we have the courage and skills to call it out and even move on to greener pastures.

The strategy of putting our head in the sand or just trying to cope with it

DOES NOT WORK.

It only delays the pain created by not giving yourself what you need to stay in alignment.

Good luck with this and hope that never happens. 🤞🏽

Cognitive dissonance is when your brain feels confused or uncomfortable because you’re thinking two things that don’t really fit together.

Because I’m continually seeking out new perspectives, information and ideas…

I’ve created strategies to help me process polarising ideas or even, new ideas or thought bubbles that challenge what I already believe.

You need a strategy for processing in such a way that you remain grounded & feeling safe and secure in who you are when your cage gets rattled, so to speak.

Without this ability, you will never allow yourself to think outside what you already ‘know’ ( believe to be true. )

Avoidance is a strategy one might choose habitually to stay one step ahead of CD. Avoiding new information or opinions.

Dismissiveness is another. Dismissing anything you are exposed to if it sets you off kilter.

Self leaders embrace CD even though it can, and is uncomfortable.

#doit

#growthmindset

#grownostr

#TherapistTips

#TheArtOfAlignedLiving

I’m no longer an investor in NFTs or POS but I still love my gear from when I was!

#NFT

#web3

#community

#worldofwomen

#10ktf

Replying to Avatar Diyana

Good morning, dears.

So basically , I am quitting coffee (again). Did a family constellation on my overall well being yesterday and yeah, coffee is kinda a seductive bully, to all of me anyways.

Not sure if I could manage to do cold turkey as I have a lot going on this week (and the withdrawals can be gnarly). But both yesterday and today started with a hot cup of bone broth, real salt and a splash of apple cider vinegar. The last few days have also waited 70-90 mins before making a cup of espresso and been sipping on it tiny sips slow over hours.

Wish me luck and I welcome any support in this endeavour.

I have never been a coffee drinker honestly. I'd always get super jittery from it and sometimes could not sleep at all. And then about 11 years ago I tried the Bullet Proof Coffee for a moment, it resolved the jitteriness but I found it was very aggravating for my liver after a while. So I stopped.

I've tried it intermittently here or there but it wasn't until my grandfather passed in spring of 2021 and I entered a space of grief. I built an altar in honor of his life and consecrated with coffee. My grandfather was a religious coffee drinker, and he had his daily rituals with coffee. He introduced me to coffee. And as I consecrated with it, the few days became months. During summer months the combination with the heat outside and the heat from the coffee in my body was a double whammy of a struggle.

I've tried to shake it off a few times now and I do feel so much more at ease in my body without it when I successfully do that over a stretch of a few weeks. The difference is palpable. I love the taste and the smell of it but the long term effects don't seem so great for my well being.

So yeah, support welcomed! 🙏😊🫂🫶🏻🌹🕊️🧿

#coffeechain #plebchain #grownostr #bonebroth #livergallbladderflush

I swapped to decaf and it’s been the best thing ever. I sourced a healthy decaf coffee here in Oz, no chemicals and very happy!

I had the jitters too and I know the effects of caffeine in my adrenals so this switch has made me soooo happy.

Cheers to your reset as well!

We all find our way.

Replying to Avatar Diyana

Good morning, dears. #gm #gmprotocol #coffeechain

Drinking my bullet proof coffee, enjoying the greenery and getting some morning light in my eyes.

Currently listening to this talk by Ra Uru Hu on the Undefined Will/Ego center... #humandesign #hd

https://youtu.be/iCFNd_L1Wac?si=ql4_sgnHEuG6BnwB

The whole theme of proving my worth and value has been stubbornly in my face for a while and this makes so much sense. I love to learn more about it from a Human Design perspective considering perhaps 2/3rd of humanity has an undefined Will Center.

Have you gotten your free chart done? Do you have a defined or undefined will/heart center?

Love the lush greenery 🌳🧡

Replying to Avatar Diyana

Good morning, dears. #gm #gmprotocol #coffeechain

Drinking my bullet proof coffee, enjoying the greenery and getting some morning light in my eyes.

Currently listening to this talk by Ra Uru Hu on the Undefined Will/Ego center... #humandesign #hd

https://youtu.be/iCFNd_L1Wac?si=ql4_sgnHEuG6BnwB

The whole theme of proving my worth and value has been stubbornly in my face for a while and this makes so much sense. I love to learn more about it from a Human Design perspective considering perhaps 2/3rd of humanity has an undefined Will Center.

Have you gotten your free chart done? Do you have a defined or undefined will/heart center?

Why yes I do! This one also fascinates me!

Packing up my house, preparing for hitting the road to drive from Sydney to WA - will be looking at off grid properties along the way 💕