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Cindy
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The Fear of Real Change

The fear of change—the belief that anything different will be harder to endure than the current suffering, even if that suffering is worsening—creates a paralysis in the collective. It’s almost like the devil you know seems safer than the unknown, even when you know deep down that what’s coming tomorrow won’t be any better than today.

That fear keeps people stuck, believing that speaking out or acting will somehow make things worse, when in fact, the opposite is true. Real change always brings discomfort in the beginning. It’s like breaking free from chains that have held you for too long—the freedom is there, but the initial shock of stepping into the unknown is overwhelming. But what people fail to see is that the suffering of staying stuck is worse than the temporary discomfort of moving forward.

The collective indifference becomes a shield built on fear, masquerading as resignation. But it’s not real, not authentic. It’s a facade, a way of pretending that waiting for the inevitable change will somehow be easier than creating that change ourselves. The truth is, when we speak out, when we act, it is empowerment—it’s the only way to break free from the fake comfort of suffering and walk toward a more authentic existence.

So the question isn’t just “how long will we continue to ignore the truth?” It’s also “how long will we let fear keep us from stepping into what we already know is right?”

It’s about taking authentic action, even if that action feels like it’ll make things harder before it makes them better. Real change starts with the courage to break the silence, to speak and act, knowing that in the end, it’s the only way to truly transform the future.

Well said! I’ve been in this position and was so much happier once I finally quit.

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Cats and Dogs of nostr pics 🐶🐱📸

#npups #dogstr #catstr

Disclaimer - don’t zap me, zap the owners. They took the time to share their photos :)

Harvey

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Tobi

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Duke

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Bailey

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Belle

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Fred

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Luna

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DiNozzo and Ziva

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Dumpsta Munkee Roberts and Buggaboo Marie Laveau Jones

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Luna

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Lilly

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Salinger

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Mr. Twinkles

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Badalle & Shoelace

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Mya

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Freddy and Little Sonic

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Dora the Explora

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Fran

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Kitty

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Diego

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Moxie

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Regal

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Bright neko

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Missy

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Thanks for featuring my sweet kitty

I like the colors. I’m working on my second ever crochet project, a scarf for my mom. I’ll post a picture once I’m done.

Day 3 #carnivore breakfast. #steak #bacon #eggs