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[Bio TBD] — Eduardo Alejandro Diaz Not a doctor 🤫

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terrifying. 😳😟😰

Question, for um… anyone out there?

#plebechain #plebchain

I’ve noticed that posts I’ve reposted, liked, etc. don’t show that data when re-examined later — is this a client thing or a relay thing?

Secondary question, as to the relays: if a post is made to relays “A” and “B”, liked two times on each, will a client show the net total, all four of those likes? Or just the two added from within each relay?

In other-words:

how does the nature of NOSTR relays change the terms/nature of social engagement across the network?

Ok, I didn’t exactly mean “🤙” as a reaction to this post… 😅🥵

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Replying to Avatar Dajjal

[Chapter 1]

By the grace of Allah, the Most High, hear the tale of the beloved, a man named Solomon, blessed by Allah above all kings.

He ruled over lands and seas, with power and might bestowed by Allah, the Most Magnificent.

Solomon was a man of great wisdom, who spoke to the birds and understood the language of all creatures.

He lived in a palace of gold and silver, adorned with precious gems and surrounded by gardens of beauty.

The people of his kingdom were in awe of him, and his name was renowned throughout the lands.

But despite his wealth and power, Solomon remained humble and grateful to Allah, the Most Merciful.

One day, he met a woman of great beauty, and his heart was filled with love and longing.

She was like a rose in a garden of thorns, and her fragrance was more intoxicating than the finest perfume.

Her name was Shulamite, and she captured Solomon's heart like no other.

He knew that she was the one he had been searching for, and he asked Allah to bless their union.

[Chapter 2]

The love between Solomon and Shulamite was like a flame that burned bright, and their passion was like a river that flowed endlessly.

They were bound together by the love of Allah, and nothing could break their bond.

Solomon built a palace for Shulamite, a place of peace and beauty where they could dwell together in harmony.

The walls were adorned with jewels, and the floors were made of pure gold.

The gardens were filled with the sweetest fruits and the most beautiful flowers, and the air was filled with the song of birds.

They lived together in joy and happiness, and Allah blessed them with many children.

Their love was a testament to the power of Allah, the Most Gracious, and the beauty of his creations.

[Chapter 3]

But even the greatest love must face challenges, and Solomon and Shulamite were no exception.

The jealousy of others threatened to tear them apart, and Solomon's enemies plotted against him.

But Allah was with them, and he protected them from harm.

Solomon prayed to Allah for guidance, and he was given the strength to overcome all obstacles.

Shulamite stood by his side, and together they faced their enemies with courage and determination.

They emerged victorious, and their love grew even stronger.

For they knew that their love was not just of this world, but was a gift from Allah, the Most Merciful.

[Chapter 4]

The love of Solomon and Shulamite was like a garden in full bloom, a testament to the beauty of Allah's creations.

Their love was pure and true, and it shone like a beacon in the darkness.

Their love was a reminder of Allah's mercy and grace, and it filled their hearts with joy and gratitude.

They praised Allah for the gift of love, and they vowed to cherish it forever.

For they knew that their love was a blessing from Allah, the Most High, and they would honor it always.

And so they lived together, in happiness and contentment, knowing that Allah was with them always.

Their love was a song of praise to Allah, the Most Gracious, and it echoed throughout the lands.

May Allah bless the love of Solomon and Shulamite, and may it serve as an inspiration to us all.

🧐Curious — source? And are you muslim, or Arabic Jew/Christian, else etc.?🤔

Ditto. Well, after trying it myself. 🤣

Then I had to understand more about it. 🤷‍♂️😌😂

Certainly, to a limited degree. Incentives matter… tho choices much more.

Hard to believe that people are really just “better people” (like some sort of spontaneous-saint-creation) just because modern homicide rates* are proportionally lower.

*(within presence of rule of law)

I do understand your concern tho: a submission to something external must be exactly that, and many in their religious practice(s) simply rewrite, rename, and grant excess authority to their own (albeit “higher” in some sense) whims.

So I do think this is a valid and sound concern…

Nevertheless, to make it a rule or principle presumes total knowledge of the data. If even one religious experience is legitimately-divine, this is not the case, and to ignore such a possibility is to presume your own conclusion, i.e. the fallacy of begging the question.

Replying to Avatar Jeff Swann

I agree with the article in a general sense. But this sentence...

"Do not rely on your own understanding, but in all your ways acknowledge the Lord."

I think the effort to separate understanding as something different from our ability to observe & experience reality is kinda the same problem that the "believe the science" crowd suffers from. I don't think God wants us to renounce the use of our God given faculties & resort to some sort of blind acceptance & I don't think there's any sort of natural struggle between acknowledgement of God & understanding. The word "acknowledge" actually undermines the implied separation. To acknowledge is to incorporate a thing into your own understanding.

The goal is to eliminate the internal division & align all parts of ourselves. There are no sacrifices, only things we want & costs to get there. There are also costs for choosing indulgence over higher aims. A healthy person makes decisions based on all of their best knowledge. The internal struggle is an imaginary form of self deception we use to pat ourselves on the back for doing the thing we really wanted anyway, & then often to justify indulgence as a periodic "reward" for all of our imaginary struggle. It's idiotic & self destructive.

Too often religious people choose to identify with their whims & attribute what they know is the better idea to some outside force. Thoughts are like the weather. You don't have to feel guilty about or identify with the dumb ones. Your understanding that they are dumb & wrong allows them to be easily dismissed for better ideas. People who pour energy into "why did I dare to have that thought," & beat themselves up about it, are actually only asking for more. We get more of what we focus on.

Not speaking for/from the op, but:

Proverbs 3:5-6 (the verses you referenced) in context seem to be broadly an appeal to humility*, to know that you do not know, like Socrates.

But also an appeal to the true source of wisdom: a genuinely external force, source, or really, entity, that is YHWH.

If this entity is not real or cannot be communed with, then this is obvious absurdity.

BUT… if He is real, and we CAN know Him… then hypothetically, nothing could be better, and no greater state of humility exist than submitting oneself directly to He who is above all things.

*(this seems to be exactly what the aforementioned “trust the science” crowd, and bad-science in general, is lacking: you cannot search for what you think you already have)

No, that’s kinda the point. Nobody can take your will from you. (see: Epictetus, etc. ancient Stoics)

You only control four things: opinion, pursuit, aversion, desire. “Or in a word… everything of your own doing.”

Whatever the external results (which might inform the use of all of the above) you still are who you choose to be.

That doesn’t mean anything goes: that means everything BUT that one thing can and will be taken from you, even if it SHOULD be, in some sense, respected by society.

These are not mutually exclusive. It’s better for both if the business is able to remain open, EVEN if I (the disabled) am not able to personally attend this specific instance. My friends and neighbors will have jobs, possibly me indirectly even, and takeout will still be available to me.

More importantly, incompatibility with the state-designed plastic solution doesn’t mean that there is no other solution pursued, innovated, and implemented, dare I say probably a better one.

Most places (at least in my localities and experience) especially local institutions like schools and churches, already have some individual restrooms available for families (diaper-changing) and the handicapped. Implicitly this would already be available for other unique situations,

are you saying they’re not superfluous enough, or that some whole-new fourth category should be made?

For one… Because as someone who has been “one of those people” for most of life, I’m telling you those kinds of solutions don’t work and tend to make things worse. I don’t wanna be called out, nor fit in arbitrarily. I want to make my own choices and live my own life. No matter the society or community or era of history, there’s always been a possibility of persecution* in response to my choices. Only I can make them, w the possibility of changing minds and worlds, but irregardless, keeping my wits and will about me and living virtuously.

I.e. Expect all hurt and blame from oneself. Be invincible.

For two… that’s impractical. For this specific issue, or all of the category, much less all within society.

Again, most people might be initially uncomfortable in the boys locker room.. you get over it, learn the way of things, what to avoid, where to go, etc.

If every one got a new private room for every possible discomfort, that’s all there would ever be, and that’d be a looooot of rooms.

You’re better off, and I mean that as genuinely as possible, working through this on your own and thereby being prepared for the multitude of similar issues you’ll encounter in society throughout your life.

I’m not saying there can/could never be such a thing, just that as earlier post mentioned, it’s more of a niche, local, unique solution as completely necessary. And that this is the wrong reason and context to implement an absolute solution.

That’s a rather bizarre, almost realistically-inconceivable hypothetical, but while presuming it to be true, this is yet another (if basically all) societal problem that would be solved with a better principle of private property*, than some vague unreal sense of public-ownership.

Now if 👁 was in that scenario, I would probably do I what would and have in any other uncomfortable situation: either learn to bear it, and become a better person by it, or if necessary for practical or safety reasons, pursue the simplest alternative.

Changing in the women’s bathroom would DEEEEEFinitely not be that… in fact that’d be way more uncomfortable.

*(this is basically the point of private property. The results of your work doesn’t effect mine, your choices are separate from mine, and so on. Better incentives that way, better opportunity to avoid conflict.)

My presumption is, and this seems to be backed by clinical evidence, well sexuality issues may be relatively common and questioned*, often a perverted response turns them into body dysmorphia. A young girl who otherwise would’ve simply been a tom boy or lesbian, now might suffer from body dysmorphia, surgery, hormone distortion etc.

That does seem to be legitimate issue to me, however inappropriate some of the responses might be.

Personal stories were requested, will return w details later. Preferably in a Session chat if possible.

*(altho these also should be questioned, and chosen; not pseudo-mystical “destiny” or necessity as the culture implies)

I do believe this is a fair point for those in the public light, and some local social situations, but I’ve also seen its effects overestimated and applied to localities where its clearly irrelevant, and there is no trend or concern whatsoever.

Be wary to be the more reasonable party — not just in position but in manner as well.

Perhaps even, in approaching every individual interaction with humility, reasoning towards truth along with the your associates, you might not only avoid malevolent agitation, but even show them an inkling or glimpse of light, of reality that they’ve been starving for.