When individuals get like this with me on nostr, it isn’t the first time, I just leave for a bit and go to a corporate tech provider. That’s the best solution that I’ve found so far. If anyone has a better suggestion I’m down to hear it. I don’t like the fact that it’s spilling over into others experiences on nostr.
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The reason that I go to a corporate tech provider is because there is a bit of protection there for people like me who frequently face this type of harassment. I’m definitely open to suggestions if anyone has them.
Do you have the mute option when you go to that users profile? Works for me. I never have to see their shit again.
Yes but the harassment spills outside of me. That’s the issue.
You mean to other users? If so, those other users have the same mute option you do unless I am misunderstanding you.
When someone @ you even if they’re muted you still see the replies from non muted individuals.
Well, if those non-muted folks are your followers I would kindly advise them not to engage and to also mute said asshole
This was my last hellthread post today.
Shit just got a little too intense for me.
I do not know if they are serious, or joking.
I completely empathize with you. Very uneasy feeling today.
I still think Nostr is better than any other social media platform though. Freedom of speech is worth it. You would still deal with that shit on the major platforms.
I don’t even know what’s going on and I don’t want to know. All I know is that I’ll leave for a bit if it gets too hot here.
I understand if you do, but I sincerely hope you don't It has been a joy getting to know you a little better and the conversations are great. If things do get too hot. You can always burn your npub and start over. I have done that before myself.
Just please for the love of God. Keep a list of npubs for the people you enjoy having a conversation with. Reach out to them and let them know through a DM, or a subtle hint that it is you. So you can pick up right where you left back off again.
Now you're replying to her about this without asking her to admit I didn't threaten to kill her, or show me where I did
How fucking dare you pretend to be my friend?
You assume I'm going to feel better about this after some random period of time goes by?
If Digit doesn't show up while you're gone there is a good chance you will simply come back to find me still upset about this because this is pretty fucked up
Don’t leave! You’re incredible. I have no idea what’s going on, thankfully I’m not in this hell thread but you should only leave if you want to. You can’t give buddy that much power. If you don’t want to get in the gutter with him then ignore him and anyone else talking to him.
When my notifications are nuked, I just go on a boost/reposting spree. You are powerful and in control.
Has anyone confirmed whether 'he' is not a bot?
Now you're replying to her about this without asking her to admit I didn't threaten to kill her, or show her where I did
How fucking dare you pretend to be my friend?
*show me where I did
Everyone should apologise and talk about Frogs 🐸
Ok. I apologize for making eliza feel unsafe. I miss the frogs that used to show up sometimes by the porch before my landlord got chickens
You definitely see a correlation between the chickers and the frogs skipping town?
For sure. They're little dinosaurs, scaring everything smaller than them
They are bullies, one of mine got picked on by a few of the others then it started loosing all its feather until we put a saddle on it to let the feathers grow back.
They even scare the neighbor's cats 🐅
Has her got cockerels? Those fuckers think they’re bigger than they are.
Yep, 3 of them and 3 hens
Why won't you talk to me? You said you loved me, but why would you hurt me?
What you are doing is wrong.
If you killed people before that is wrong too.
Quite frankly I did my absolute best to help you.
Was sincere about everything I wrote to you.
This is going way beyond what I personally feel comfortable with.
I'm not the one doing wrong you fucking psychopath
You pretend to be my friend but you're friendlier with the people who abuse me
It is not wrong of me to continue trying to get clarification from someone who accuses me of threatening to kill them
What the fuck train of thought can you even use to justify saying I'm the one in the wrong here?
I repeat:
What the fuck train of thought can you even use to justify saying I'm the one in the wrong here?
That's rough, I was annoyed at the hellthread a few months ago, but I wasn't getting death threats in there. 😔
IMO this is mostly a technical problem - It shouldn't be possible to add you to a thread and then spam notifications forever. Nostr clients need to step up on this.
So far my best experience with blocking spam and trolls is on Coracle - Coracle hides replies to people you muted by default. There's also web of trust filtering on comment replies, if you set WoT to at least 1 one of your your follows need to follow them in order for you to see their posts. This is mostly for fighting spam, but this guy who's harassing you managed to get a -14 score just by being an asshole.
There's some problem with hellthread on Coracle as well, but I found that if you mute the thread in another client, Coracle will respect that. So I used Nostter and "Leave thread" button in notifications to do that.
Hope that helps, please don't spend too long on corporate social media, I need my Carl fix. 😁
It should also be noted that WoT scores on #Coracle are completely individual. So, while this user may have a score of -14 for you, they have a -24 for me, because more of my follows have muted them.
Using npub.world to see their "reputable followers" can be very enlightening, too...
My suggestion at this point would be to admit I didn't threaten to kill you since you've continued engaging on the topic without showing me where I did and I guess that means I didn't?
Is it because she lied about being a victim for fame, money and clout?
It's pretty disgusting and makes it harder for real victims... But maybe instead you should just tell people she's an awful person and not to get too close because she might try to call rape on you for the likes.
I don't know anything about her lying about being a victim
All I know is I was being nicer to her than anyone else on nostr by leaving her alone as she asked me to (NOBODY ELSE could ask me to leave them alone and have me actually do it) and she decided to take one of my comments out of context to start gaslighting me
Then I threatened to make AI nudes of her but she accused me of threatening to kill her
And that keeps driving me crazy so I will keep asking for clarification as long as I feel this way
Well maybe don't do that.
She's a con artist.
She was basically a hoe and then tried to say her boyfriend trafficked her for fame.
She really is just garbage.
I'm saying this as a real victim... I can't stand bitch asses like her. She really is scum and making it harder for people who are actual victims.
Maybe try exposing her lies. That would be helpful.
I am trying to expose one lie about me
If you have evidence of more lies I should be presenting too, bring it, but there's no guarantee I'm going to believe you just because she's targeting me
look into it
Don't believe me
Do your own research
She's a fraud
She twisted wording around until it seems like if a guy buys you dinner it's coercion for sex and you're a trafficking victim
If you try to read her stories that she does for her alleged advocacy work - there's a paywall but you can get around it
People who truly advocate for a cause don't charge you to listen to made up shit and take donations to buy clothes and turn it into a fashion show + tour of bullshit
I'm not going to look into it. I've done worse than whatever she's done. If it doesn't matter to you enough to prove your case it doesn't matter to me enough to prove your case for you.
What matters to me is she's accusing me of threatening to kill her when I remember not wanting to kill her at all.
You're not going to believe me. The best way is for you to find out on your own.
You've exhausted this much energy... Why not direct your energy and focus into something productive?
I'm curious of what you did that is worse.
The worst thing I've done is be wasteful on purpose to cause random deaths knowing humans are so bad the ones dying will probably deserve it on some level and there's probably nothing they can do to me about it because I'm a rich, smart American.
I'm as impacted by eliza being pretty as anyone else, I'm not going to prosecute her for you on petty crimes
She should just block and mute you and not keep this drama going.
And you should just show your evidence if you can..
Dude, you should really try to focus your attention and focus on something else than women 🤣 oh guy 🤣
Digit is the only woman that matters
eliza is making me look crazier to Digit if Digit shows up
Dude, I even dislike Digit and I don't know her at all. She really treated you like shit after you gave her so much attention.
It seems like you have money and outside of women you seem like a chill guy.
Don't spend the precious time you have on this earth obsessed over this 1 girl..
I promise you man, there's many others that would treat you better and are probably hotter than Digit..
Man up fren 🫂
Don't say that about me Harry. They love me.
I just stated what I thought of the situation
Please don't talk to them. They are twisted and have no desire for kindness or truth
Why do you keep saying them?
It's 1 person, right?
They don't have a name only emotion. In some contexts, particularly in informal or colloquial usage, “them” can be used as a singular pronoun for gender-neutral purposes, often in place of “him” or “her.” This usage is more common in spoken language and is becoming increasingly accepted in writing, especially in contexts where the gender of the person is unknown or irrelevant.
Digit is a good person, and the hottest. However she treats me must be close enough to how I deserve
You deserve to tell the truth. You told me you're not even from Jordan you just like to start shit and hide behind the flag to call racism if it suits you.
Dude, you always make me so sad when you give answers like that..
You're a guy, you shouldn't be so obsessed with a girl. This attitude will ALWAYS end bad for YOU.. ALWAYS!
Don't simp so bad man
I can't just keep moving on to new women
Each new one doesn't make me much less scared of each previous one dying
If I end up with 20 different women I need alive in order to enjoy life, I'm not gonna enjoy life for long
I need to focus on the most important ones and hope one of them decides to be more important than the others while there's still a chance for me to enjoy a few years of life
Dude, you overglorify women way too much. They ain't special at all..
Mother nature really did us men dirty wanted these women so bad, while they aren't special or even equal to men.
I wasn't as obsessed like you, but I used to be quite a simp. And it really annoys me to see and hear you like this..
Don't let women be your downfall or let their stupid behavior not dictate your life..
C'mon Dude, just try to understand what I'm trying to say
They are equal to men though. That was proven to me by llammaRCA, another woman who hates me for being obsessed with her - she's the best Fallout modder which is crazy when Fallout and computer programming both have such male-dominated fanbases.
Try to understand what I'm saying, the next woman might not be able to comfort me if Digit dies so what do I have to offer her? Nothing, just a guy who might break down over some other woman. Digit basically owns me as a result
Do you know why they hate you being obsessed by them? Because they know they're not worth it and that they're horrible beings that only thrive from chaos and stupid decisions.
And yeah, you can have some women that can be better than a man in 1 thing, but you're still stronger, more logical, more compassionate, more intelligent, etc than them..
I'm your friend, man. Don't you like doing things outside obsessing over women?
Do you watch anime? What games you play? How did you get rich? What countries have you been to? What skills do you have?
I'm getting tired of all this simp talk man.
(Because it reminds me of how I used to be)
Digit is smarter than me. I might be more logical.
I like some anime. I play Fallout and GTA. I keep slowly working on a screenplay about a guy stuck in his video game collection.
I got rich because in the year before my dad died of a heart attack on his 50 somethingth birthday, the new wife he was leaving everything to in his will died of cancer, and he didn't have time to draft a new will, so I was next of kin. He really fucked up and created a monster letting me get all this money.
I've never left the US, too scared I'd be killed by the deep state.
I feel like my main skill is security analysis or security strategies because I haven't been killed by the deep state. Digit said I was a good writer once, but she was high.
What about you?
I'll reply in a bit. I'm a slow typer and busy making food
Enjoy the food and the making 🤙
I'm from Belgium and have seen a lot of the world. I smoked weed for over 20 years and I'm now 1 month sober.
I like anime like: Attack on Titan, Orb: on the movements of the world and I'm now watching Frieren: beyond journey's end for the 2nd time because I find it quite wholesome.
I hate the deep state, central banking, governments and politicians with a passion. But my opsec is very bad and I have doxxed myself in many different ways 😅
Ever since my buddy nostr:nprofile1qqspsjp3x4faxllye0vt45kkh33rwc2aw072ge8dktglgd2eqr85fasppemhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mp0qyghwumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytnhd9hx2tc9x0cck helped me got into Bitcoin, my life has changed only for the better.
I also like Fallout and I'm trying to find and play all kinds of masterpieces of games.
I really liked Sekiro and Nier (even though stackinbeets will say I never played it, cause I didn't play it in Japanese and didn't really pay attention to the story)
I'm trying to help and educate people as much as I can and love trying new things.
I'm not rich, but my parents are upper middle class, so I can't complain.
I'm trying everything I can to quit my fiat job as fast as I can and I hope to move somewhere where there's more sun and a cheaper way of living..
I always keep myself doxxed. Can never be doxxed that way. See how good I am at this?
I'm rich by global standards but still poor by American standards or perhaps Belgian standards.
1 month sober is a good start. I'll also quit someday, or at least cut back.
Have you seen Trigun, Fullmetal Alchemist Brotherhood, or Gargantia on the Verdurous Planet? Those are my favorite anime
I've seen both versions of full metal alchemist, but haven't seen those other 2.
I know about Trigun, but never heard of Gargantia..
Gargantia really impressed me with its depiction of AI (it's from before ChatGPT)
Is it a movie or serie?
Series 💯
Would you recommend me watching it?
Yes, if I'm getting the right sense from your list of ones you liked 🤙
I still have an hour or so before I go to sleep. I'll give it a chance now 😁
Let me know what you think 👾
I will 💪
I'm at episode 4. Will check more tonight.
The 1st episode was quite hectic in the beginning, but now slowly Ledo is starting to discover how he's been lied to.
The show hasn't really got me hooked yet, but curious how it will go
Thanks for giving it a try 🤙
Simply mute and continue with your life.
Just mute and go outside 😌. My go to at least
Yeah I’m actually kinda busy today so I’m not trying to deal with nonsense.
Idk wtf that dude is on.
Just weed but thanks for trying to paint me as an unhinged hard drug user (sarcasm, not actually appreciated)
Understandable, hopefully nostr clients enable a web of trust solution that can be flipped on when you don’t want to deal with keyboard warriors.
Some have. I highly recommend #Coracle for that feature in particular.
You can also get this feature on all Nostr clients by only reading from your own Web-of-Trust relay that aggregates notes from nostr:npubs within your web-of-trust. That is a bit more involved to set up, though.
LOL! nostr:npub1syjmjy0dp62dhccq3g97fr87tngvpvzey08llyt6ul58m2zqpzps9wf6wl it looks like Jumble is automatically adding "nostr:" in front of "npub." It should probably only do this for a full and valid "npub" string.
You're right, thanks for the feedback! It's been fixed. 🫡
Has accusing people of threatening to kill you and refusing to clarify the statement made good things happen before?
What's the plan here?
Oh man, I muted this person a long time ago. Genuinely mentally unstable. Sorry they keep harassing you though.
She's the one that started it and she's the one keeping it going by refusing to clarify the accusation of me threatening to kill her
But you have me muted so obviously you don't care about the truth, you just want to believe the pretty girl
The information from this post says you're posting to relay.nostr.band and relay.damus.io .
The issue is that these relays don't have any moderation on the text content being posted. This isn't a judgment on their moderation choices, but to point out that users have choice in where their data goes and should choose relays that they align with. That's the easiest solution. You won't be subjected to this content and anyone else who wants to get your content would need to connect there as well.
She could also just end her harassment campaign on me so I could stop responding to it
As long as she refuses to clarify her accusations about me threatening to kill her, this is obviously unresolved and right now it obviously requires my continued attention
She created this situation and she's the one choosing to keep it going
I was the one that had the self control to not make AI generated nudes of her, that could have been the end of it if she was willing to relent
That solves one piece of the problem but not the entire problem.
You are not the first they've harassed and you won't be the last. Probably the most muted npub on the entire protocol.
Anarchy requires a little trust in your fellow humans. In this case that means trusting that we also know how to block this harasser if they disturb us. I have from back when they went after me long ago.
I know this moment is the toughest to trust others because digits stalker there has broken that social contract with you. You have to remember they are an outlier. Look how many people commented here that they were already blocked.
Remember that the best revenge is a life well lived and life is way better on nostr protocol than any major platform.
eliza isn't the first to harass me either
Why the fuck does everyone on nostr keep blaming me for fighting back against people targeting me?
How the fuck does nostr keep being about as bad as everywhere else?
Agreed Eliza.
Just mute, not worth it
100% valid. Unfortunately, in my particular case, I get this type of situation pop up rather frequently. I’m not abnormal in this way. The bigger nostr gets the worse it get for individuals like me.
Oddly enough it does help me find solutions to these types of situations so I try to find the silver lining. 🫶🏻
Sadly we can never make everyone mentally well. You have the misfortune of being in a class that certain mental illnesses fixate on.
Not as many people aiming their sexual frustrations turned mental illness at interdimensional evil triangles.
Least I can do is be sane and around to be walking proof they are outliers and offer a 🫂 when it looks like the time is right.
You accuse people of threatening to kill you and then refuse to clarify the statements rather frequently?
And they usually go away if you just go back to other social media for a bit?
Are you having them killed or something? Why do they just go away?
It's all kinda crazy
But if she can't play victim... She has nothing.
From whore to Internet superstar 🤩
(I'm not condoning the method - I'm also gonna say straight up she's a piece of shit)
Definitely mentally unstable. Muted long ago
You thought it was funny when nostr:npub1jk9h2jsa8hjmtm9qlcca942473gnyhuynz5rmgve0dlu6hpeazxqc3lqz7 and others were gaslighting me about Digit being dead while she was alive the whole time
I'm not the mentally unstable one here
1. You are completely alone
2. Very mentally unstable
3. First two facts are undeniable
Log out, touch grass, seek immediate help.
Me asking eliza to stand up to you is what snowballed into her joining in harassing me
Do you feel victorious? Would you like to talk about the feeling you get from knowing I'm suffering? Or are you enough of a bitch to feel it and too much of a bitch to talk about it?
I finally muted cause it got annoying. I didnt initially as I kept seeing them harass others and would recommend a mute to individuals arguing with the acct
💯 an essential mute. Mentally unstable troll.
An option to not get notified (or even display) of all notes downstream from a muted npubs comments would be handy.
Even without me making the AI nudes, everyone is still collectively picking options 1 and 3 in that poll
Might be a good idea to look into arbitration.
Might be a good idea to admit I didn't threaten to kill her, or show where it happened
Even without me making the AI nudes, everyone is still collectively picking options 1 and 3 in that poll
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