i think nostr will fix this. i think these broken values are a result of the fiat algorithms that rule the world. i enjoyed reading that. thank you sir 🙏

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Lol so many of these people just want some kind of welfare man, if you can't get private welfare (family or a spouse) you will scream for government welfare

This is a very well-worded synopsis of part of the problem.

I think a good chunk of the fault can be laid at the feet of the previous generation buying into the lie that women should have been taught that they should strive for a high-powered career to the exclusion of everything else.

The highest powered position a woman can hold is Grandmother/great grandmother.

The best thing a woman can strive for, barring certain complicating factors, is to become a mother.

There's more nuance to this opinion and the same goes for men in their respective roles as well.

Having a family and becoming a pillar of your community is the highest calling.

NGL I hope these femcels die alone, with no cat.

A woman that self-centered and narcissistic is going to be a horrible mother and/or pet owner.

They have male equivalents, but those guys know what they are.

The genes and ideologies that produce these people need to die out, for the good of the species.

I don’t want to sound new age shitter but quite often one gets what s/he projects. Or in other words “you get what you deserve”

This too shall pass

Ah well you've still got your Bitcoins to console.

Women are reinforcing eachother's terrible behavior to the point now where they're sabotaging themselves and taking the family unit down with them.

"Basically nothing less than a multimillionaire rich guy with a sweet car and a six pack who will take her on regular holidays on a yacht."

The millionaires I knew were total workaholics. They didn't really go on holidays, just business trips.

😂🤣 Nope, you can have em...

It’s all downstream from broken money.

I agree with 90% of what you’re saying but I’m going to push back on the religion aspect. It’s not so much that we’ve “lost religion,” but that male/female roles have changed. Men and women literally needed each other before. When you needed to farm in order to survive, losing your partner meant death. A woman couldn’t have high standards because her life was at risk. A man couldn’t afford to divorce his wife because he needed her help with the children and farm. How can a single mom or single dad survive with children and a farm? It’s impossible so they didn’t even really think about it. But now, all these responsibilities have been automated. A man doesn’t need a woman to take care of his home. He can easily order his dinner and have it delivered through doordash or pop in a microwaveable tv dinner. He can turn on a roomba to sweep the floors or hire a maid. The woman doesn’t need the man to work and pay his bills, she is doing it herself. She doesn’t need the man to protect her, she can carry a gun. The main thing left that men and women truly need from each other is a way to make babies. But you can find anyone to make babies with if you lower your standards. So people look for deep fulfillment from their partner now. They want that perfect romance and a best friend all in one. It’s not unreasonable to want that but you can get stuck looking for that perfect person and you may never find it. And for women this is a lot more problematic because their reproductive clock is much shorter and their peak beauty and fertility is at an age when they are still learning about who they are and what they want from their life. I didn’t really mature until my late 20s and didn’t get a good idea of what I wanted from life before the age of 30.

If those women were to settle for someone and lower their standards, just like men, they’d always wonder what could have been if they didn’t settle. Would they have been miserable and divorced? Would they have felt unsatisfied and chosen to cheat later on?

There’s a lot more nuance to the problem and I think that when Bitcoin replaces fiat, the issue of wanting a wealthy man starts to become less of a problem. More men will be wealthy and women will have more options to choose from compatible men instead of fighting over the few rich guys.

Well said.

Online dating exacerbated this problem so much. Because women get attention from a hundred men, and men give attention to a hundred women. So women will have repeated unfulfilling interactions with guys who really don't care about them very much.

It gives women the illusion that they can have their choice of men, and sets everyone up for repeated disappointment.

If all the single people could just get in the same room together, and everybody pick somebody, this would all work itself out.

Children are ghr meaning of life and it starts with people pairing up. Everything else is noise.

They get husbands at the age and pairing that they deserve.

Most of the fantastical expectations are just smokescreen justifications for the type of man they once had and KNOW that they should have married.

Religion is grounding to society. Yes it’s funny

How

This has become scandalous — but it’s probably #science— marriage and family are not optional to flourishing human life or functioning human society

If women are competing for something, why aren't they becoming cheaper and instead they're increasing their standards? That always confuses me 🤷

Min requirements be like

6ft height

6 pack abs

6 figure salary

666... These women are the devil bruh

The power of the pussy.....or something

Women who make the choice to develop their character and openness are more likely to get good men. Women who don't, likely won't. Because high quality men reject low quality women.