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Rick ~ ThrivingNow
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Nice. Zap. I just wish my verification on my own domain showed here when it does in iris. Nip05 sigh.

Thanks #[0]​ for this guide to setting up Lightning address on my own domain! It works!! Rick@thrivingnow.com is my new Lightning address and it goes directly to my Alby extension so I can use the sats for zaps āš”ļø

https://guides.getalby.com/overall-guide/alby-lightning-account/where-to-use-your-lightning-address/how-to-use-your-own-domain-in-your-alby-lightning-address

Indeed. This is the first time in my life I’ve kept two units of account. It’s wild! Makes me have compassion for those that have been forced to in order to eat. In many places holding USD means stability even if for me I know my savings belong in sats not the credit union.

What I don’t grasp yet is what the failure mode is for stable sats for example.

The whole derivatives market even after trying and reading feels like a casino game I don’t really grok. But I’m a saver at heart not a gambler. If Bitcoin returns to me 4 years after putting it in the vault equivalent buying power to what I put in, that would be Baseline Success for me. Beyond that is what serves us all who want to build and not just HODL. Stewards of a better future, gambling no longer Required.

Galoy and Kollider and others use derivatives to provide stabilized sats exchange rate. Stablesats for example tied to a fiat exchange rate. I hear from some I respect that this is really helpful in unbanked markets to meditate short term volatility.

I’d prefer such derivatives didn’t exist in the same way I’d prefer mosquitos didn’t exist. Unrealistic and how it is for me.

I’ve been a Saver at heart my whole life. I still have some silver half dollars from my childhood. And… I remember when they stopped being silver. 🤨

My kids not have some pristine, won’t ever tarnish, can’t be debased Satoshis. I can save again without feeling like I’m holding a melting ice cube. h/t #[2]​

Also as #[3]​ spoke of recently, I’ve been painfully aware that every stock has had those 24 risks. Stocks have never felt like savings.

Bitcoin is my Freedom Fund. It is my family’s Freedom Fund. It’s the money my Kinfolk know as their own. It’s stewarded in a way that finally feels like it can hold the energy I put into my work, my heartistry, and all y’all, too.

Sweet! Is there a quick swipe way to go from the thread back to posts? Touching the top left each time feels awkward on this big screen. Thx for all you do! Zap āš”ļø

@npub1teawtzxh6y02cnp9jphxm2q8u6xxfx85nguwg6ftuksgjctvavvqnsgq5u Verifying My Public Key f@npub1teawtzxh6y02cnp9jphxm2q8u6xxfx85nguwg6ftuksgjctvavvqnsgq5u Verifying My Public Key for telegram: "Rick:5413210851"or telegram: "Rick:5413210851"

Replying to Avatar HoloKat

I wrote this a while back about happiness. It’s party of a bigger blog post but I thought I’d share this snippet. I’d write it a bit differently today but the core message would remain:

ā€œMoney does not bring happiness no matter what anyone says. It does relieve you of despair and help live a better, more peaceful and enjoyable life, but it will not make you happy.

Very few people in the world, if any, know true happiness because they confuse happiness (the process) with happiness (the end state). There is no end state for happiness.

When people ask you if you are happy, it's hard to answer, right?

Your instinct is to say "yes, of course". After all, your day is going fine, you have every comfort you desire and you had a pleasant lunch with a friend. You feel "happy".

But, this happiness fades. Tomorrow you get in a car accident, your car damaged, insurance won't pay out and you miss 2 weeks of work. You are "unhappy".

Some people confuse happiness with being content. You can be content with your place in life, but that doesn't mean you're happy.

The whole debate over happiness is a mute point. Since happiness is a process which is more akin to enjoyment, ultimately there is no such thing as happiness. The word itself should disappear from dictionaries.

Ok, I'm joking. But, you get the point.

When it comes to my life, I strive for satisfaction and contentment.

If I'm satisfied that day, that week, that month, that year, or the last decade, then I've met my "happiness" goals. If I am content with my life, then I'm "happy".

While material wealth can provide satisfaction, the contentment piece is often missing. With wealth, the goal post moves from one spot to another. Once you've achieved a satisfying moment, you have to move to the next, and the next. Each time you have to introduce higher states of satisfaction that require more effort and money.

Eventually, you plateau and satisfying moments from the physical world no longer matter. You seek out emotional attachment and relationships.

This is why so many wealthy people are depressed. No matter how much they spend, they can never reach that emotional attachment provided by love and relationships.

In fact, wealth only complicates those things. Instead of people seeing you for who you are as a person, a new variable is introduced and they see you for your status. With misaligned incentives, it becomes more difficult to form genuine relationships. Thus, contentment is hard to achieve.

I'm going to let you in on the biggest secret everyone is asking about - the secret to happiness.

The secret to happiness is charitable work. Doing things for others, without expecting anything in return.

Charitable acts are secretly selfish acts, whether that person acknowledges it or not.

All humans act in self-preservation. The need to feel good about ourselves. The need for approval. The need for comfort and safety. The need for recognition. All of these needs are driven by self-preservation.

Charity is no different. While we may feel that we do good things for others out of the goodness of our hearts, the evolutionary incentive is to feel satisfied by our deeds. There's nothing wrong with doing good things to feel good, as long as you understand why you're doing it, instead of performing mental gymnastics.ā€

Satisfaction and contentment. Those I can do. Happy? Nah.

Thx šŸ™šŸ¼ Zap āš”ļø

It’s been during ā€œattacksā€ that I’ve refined who I listen to about Bitcoin. They want liberty for all. They want peace. They also seem to know that being prepared for exploiters and attacks is… part of all this.

It’s helped me embrace robustness in the face of attack as essential to deepened trustworthiness. And utility. And holding some of the energy of our Heartistry for our shared future.

Money issues are at the root of so much chronic anxiety and worry. As you point out it is literally FOOD for us.

Banks today feel like storing the meat you can’t eat today… with Scar and the hyenas from The Lion King. Totally messes with what can be the virtuous circle of money exchange.

Bitcoin gives me hope that this can change for everyone everywhere. It has already changed for me.

Yeah, even without the abuse aspect (or spam), the labor of tending to an open group’s needs is far more than most realize. Even a Facebook group that’s not public! Having tended to common spaces online for decades, I breathe such relief at the notion that I can help people find tools to focus and filter without needing to be the one ā€œresponsibleā€ for focusing and filtering or explaining once again the guidelines!

Oh, you don’t like unkindness? Here’s the ā€œkind onlyā€ filter app. No cuss words for you? Ahhh, you can do that while I still drop occasional Ducks. Quack.