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I live my life in accordance with the 4 Agreements: - be impeccable with your word - make no assumptions - take nothing personally - always do your best I'm a sovereign soul choosing unconditional love over fear. 💚

My daughter would think that shirt is hilariously awesome.

I'm somewhat glad she's not on nostr.

There's a security risk that comes with introducing both new hardware & software.

I would feel uncomfortable introducing both of those risks. Is it better than stock android or iOS? Yeah probably. We know they're spying on you.

There's also the unknown Ux. What is the support for apps like?

Someone always has to go first but I'm quite happy with Graphene. i'd need a more compelling reason to make that leap.

Yeah a lot of our beliefs are hidden in our definitions.

I don't like the idea of good people because it brings with it the assumption that there are bad people.

There are limited people & some are more limited than others. Discernment is important but judgement is very limiting.

Gooooooo Mooooooooooooaning Cupcakes!

A kind reminder...

Be and let Be!

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https://blossom.primal.net/86150d6e59108f2215229be8e0a88dc6be2d6fba6170f022d059a30d51c3faff.mp4

"You’re allowed to be selective. Being kind isn’t always the same as being available. Every living system survives by selection. Knowing what to keep and what to let go is how life stays coherent. At some point caring stops meaning ‘hold everything’ and starts meaning ‘remove what’s harming the whole.’ Bodies do it, ecosystems do it and communities have always done it too through shared rites, responsibilities, customs, social structures, etc. What we call being ‘good’ or ‘kind’ is sometimes hiding a deeper need to belong or be validated. These ideas reflect old moral hierarchies and colonial systems that rewarded obedience, loyalty, productivity and self erasure in service of an imposed order. Those same values are now reinforced by consumerist systems that benefit from over-functioning and endless availability. But the thing is that systems functioning in excess dont evolve. they grow increasingly exhausted and eventually collapse or implode. I see this pattern throughout nature and looking at wisdom traditions across time too, balance was about sustaining a coherent relationship with life (expansion/retraction, immersion/withdrawal, creation/maintenance/destruction). Which means knowing when to let go or remove, so that natural movement can flow. Energy requires that structure in order to take form. To me the message is pretty consistent. life requires limits in order to remain lifegiving. Long story short sometimes care looks like staying and sometimes it looks like stopping. some times it looks like cutting things out so something else can live. It’s ok to be selective. life depends on it."

By Sophia

#GentleReminder

#GM

You're allowed to be selfish.

Just be selfish with the knowledge that we are all One.

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Yeah I've never heard of iodeOS

I'd rather a second hand pixel purchased with cash running Graphene OS

Replying to Avatar Brisket

We used to joke that those people were a jack of all trades & master of none.

Carol Dwek wrote a book on Mindset about 20 years ago & I found it useful at the time. She proposed that people tended to have either a growth mindset or a fixed mindset. Later many corporations picked it up & pushed out a rather crude summary of it but few actually read the book. They basically inferred that a growth mindset was good & that people with a fixed mindset needed corporate reprogramming. Cringe

Essentially the growth mindset people believed that they could do anything with some effort & persistence. Fixed mindset people believed that they could either do something or they couldn't. The fixed mindset people typically had that belief because they were naturally good or bad at almost anything they attempted. It says a lot about the power of your belief IMO. It also neglects the fact that some people just don't have the capacity to perform certain tasks no matter how hard or long they work at it. I've seen many such cases.

I shifted my mindset as a result of reading the book but I also knew that I don't really want to do everything & I don't want to do anything forever. I started applying a cost benefit calculation to the things I threw myself into. Yes I could do it, but is it worth the effort required to master & how quickly would that skill be depreciated? I cut short my career in software development after 6 months even though I had the degree. The juice just wasn't worth the squeeze, it wasn't for me.

You should always play to your strengths but also be aware of your weaknesses.

Malcolm Gladwell's book Outliers also heavily affected my opinion on it too.

It's where the 10,000 hrs principle came from. You can be an outlier in any field as long as you have the capacity & perform the work/activity for 10,000 hrs.

I remember a pop song being written about it.

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This was interesting to ponder.

On one hand, we shouldn't withdraw from opportunities to reinforce points of weakness. Focusing only on strengths to the exclusion of strengthening weaknesses is a risky play. One might not get burned by one's weaknesses. One might be able to leverage the economy to convert value earned from strengths into value paid for coverage of areas of weakness. It mostly depends on how the value streams balance. If the income stream is high and the expenditure stream is low, this strategy can pay off. Often times the people in the wealthier echelons of society are elite at one, maybe two things.

This, however, creates problems. When someone is amazing at one thing and garbage at everything else, that person is "top heavy". They're not well rounded. They're dependent upon numerous people who they must pay in order to enable them to focus exclusively on their forte. This creates the need for trusted third party authorities or, at the very least, it creates the need to solicit bids from multiple vendors to compare/contrast bid details and pricing.

I'm prone to think that the sweet spot Goldilocks zone entails the Pareto principle. Let's say that I can learn/acquire 80% of a subject in 1 month, but it will take me 4 months to acquire the other 20%. It would be 4x better for me to learn 80% of 5 different subjects across 5 months (80% x 5 = 400%) than it would be for me to spend 5 months learning 100% of 1 subject.

I think it's worth it to pursue the final 20% on a few subjects, but perhaps that's best done on an 'as needed' basis.

Tried to zap you just now. Not sure if it will work. Zaps are so frustrating. I'm making progress on reworking my NOSTR setup. First step was getting my node and lightning node better set up. Still got a little bit of work to do there but progress has been made. NOSTR wallets and nsec management are next on my list.

We used to joke that those people were a jack of all trades & master of none.

Carol Dwek wrote a book on Mindset about 20 years ago & I found it useful at the time. She proposed that people tended to have either a growth mindset or a fixed mindset. Later many corporations picked it up & pushed out a rather crude summary of it but few actually read the book. They basically inferred that a growth mindset was good & that people with a fixed mindset needed corporate reprogramming. Cringe

Essentially the growth mindset people believed that they could do anything with some effort & persistence. Fixed mindset people believed that they could either do something or they couldn't. The fixed mindset people typically had that belief because they were naturally good or bad at almost anything they attempted. It says a lot about the power of your belief IMO. It also neglects the fact that some people just don't have the capacity to perform certain tasks no matter how hard or long they work at it. I've seen many such cases.

I shifted my mindset as a result of reading the book but I also knew that I don't really want to do everything & I don't want to do anything forever. I started applying a cost benefit calculation to the things I threw myself into. Yes I could do it, but is it worth the effort required to master & how quickly would that skill be depreciated? I cut short my career in software development after 6 months even though I had the degree. The juice just wasn't worth the squeeze, it wasn't for me.

You should always play to your strengths but also be aware of your weaknesses.

This is fascinating.

Such attention spans.

Always concerned about something that isn't Bitcoin 👀

I was pretty lucky. 🤣

When I met Bitcoiners for the first time in 2021 I was so paranoid that I knocked back a drink offer from a pretty young lady. It was just a young blokes girlfriend being nice. I thought she was a 'how's your trade going' girl 🤣

I'm on land away from populated areas.

You'd be surprised how little I have to do with the federal govt these days.

I'm even managing to avoid the state & local governments.

Nostr taught me the importance of my attention. I live in a blissful bubble of ignorance & my stressed out in-laws lecture me that I should watch the news. 🤣

My level of discernment coming into Bitcoin was woeful & embarrassing.

I trusted people that I shouldn't have & distrusted people just because they were careful about what they did & said.

Lucky I didn't send anyone 1 Bitcoin hoping to get 2 back. The wake up call was when I poured my heart out to a Saylor impersonator late 2020. 🤦

I emailed Ivan the programmer volunteering my time to help with his crypto university. Thank goodness he ghosted me.

Yeah I was at a similar place 2.5 years ago.

I hated my job & was tired of the grind.

Bitcoin was below $30k.

I stopped stacking, accumulated a little bit of fiat & quit the fiat life. Initially it was just going to be a break. I didn't have enough Bitcoin to retire. I had a general feeling of lack.

I spent a lot of time mediating & reflecting. I cancelled all my subscription services & my last insurance policy (my home insurance). I stopped outsourcing everything. I did my own plumbing, cooking, electrical, I serviced & repaired our vehicles. I was busy but my expenses dropped to almost nothing. I got more confident that I wouldn't have to return to work again.

I didn't have enough bitcoin to retire on yet but if Bitcoin did what I thought it would I had plenty. I'm basically a massive permabull.

I got my time & attention back. I lived like a pauper & felt like a king.

I still feel like I have enough Bitcoin. My conviction is unwavering but I knew that if I was wrong I'd have to find a source of income.

Had I known how epoch 5 was going to unfold I probably would have acted differently. I would definitely have more bitcoin but I'd probably still feel like I didn't have enough.

No regrets at all, what I received was priceless. I sincerely hope that you can all get to feel this one day.

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It's amazing how movement & strenuous activity can make you feel better.

I somehow forget this but it becomes obvious shortly after working out.

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Haha that's my daughter.

She's beautiful but she has an attitude & mouth on her that is going to get her into trouble.

Genes are incredible things.

Fiat does this to people in general.

The proliferation of zero sum games.

It's not because people are assholes but if they don't play them to win, they get left behind.

In a socialist state, you're incentivised to play the victim. To each according to his needs - victimhood is rewarded & responsibility punished.

They're the ones that typically have a fixed mindset.

They expect everything to be easy for them. If they're not excelling they give up & move on to something they can excel at. That's a stupid game/instrument/thing they'll say & move on.

This was basically me at pretty much any academic endeavour when I was young. I barely studied through high school but still got great grades.

It took me a long time to realise the trap I had made for myself with my attitude & perspective. I was a freak in my small home town but nothing special in the big city university.

I learned to persist if I really wanted something. If I didn't want something, I'd ask if I actually didn't want it or if I was just walking away out of fear of failing or the effort required to master it.

Looking back I think covering the pots in plastic bags to raise the humidity would have gone a long way.

Not doing that was a bit of a rookie mistake.

I only really needed 1 rosemary plant which has rooted and is growing well. This second one I'll plant but it was really just an experiment.

There's something about growing cuttings that I found really cool. Basically plants for free.

I've been thinking & feeling around this for a while (about 2 years).

I left my job 2 years ago & so my doing deceased substantially. But my doing was not purposeful. I thought it was but none of it really mattered. It was all devoted to an outcome (earning money) & really didn't reflect who I truly was. It was action based on fear, a fear of not having enough.

That first line rings true, we are not here to do, we're here to be. That is, we're here to discover & remember who we truly are & then express that knowing to the world. We do that so that others may use it as a an example & so help them to do the same.

It's not about the outcome, it's about the purest expression of our highest selves.

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People feel more comfortable playing the victim than accepting that they received precisely what they chose.

It's one of the hardest pills to swallow.