I feel like in my current town the expectations placed on parents looks very different based on the school you choose and the social circle you’re in.
Thank you so much for chiming in. I appreciate your opinion and experience.
The ability to self moderate is something I like about Nostr. It takes a bit more work particularly at the outset but I find it rewarding. Having more advanced tools to self moderate will be helpful particularly as the protocol grows.
Seems accurate based on my feed too.
Take a break and listen to this track.
https://tidal.com/track/87470914 nostr:note1ca6ravcsczzw4xd68jmm6xyknz8w46ks05c32va3ry05kl9r54qskku5p9
Reread my comment. There are female trolls too. Why the assumption that when we talk about inappropriate social behavior you’re assuming we’re only talking about men?
Advising women to exist solely on the internet under a pseudonym to avoid harassment is just being part of the problem.
Nah it’s not an all men suck day. We’re talking specifically about trolls. Trolls are defined by behavior not sex.
Hmmm you would need a way to communicate which notes are from the private relay and shouldn’t be reposted. Then have to trust those you invite not to re-note. Communicating privately might just continue to be the easier way.
I personally don’t feed trolls. I mute liberally. I wish I could block a list of people from even seeing my posts. Privacy settings have been helpful with having a better experience as a woman on the internet.
Maybe the possibility of having a personal private invitation only relay and having the ability when posting a note to either publish only to your private relay or broadcast to all relays you use? Spitballing here.
Ooo that’s a really cool idea.
The pictures seriously don’t do the place justice and yet they’re still stunning. I’m so incredibly grateful I was able to go.
Most of all I want people to do what they need to do to live their best lives. Roya shouldn’t have been subjected to the abuse and trolling that she was. I wish I had come to her defense more often and checked in with her more. She seemed like a master of batting away haters and trolls. I tend to deal with them by subscribing to the notion of “Don’t feed the trolls.” But sometimes a group needs to tell someone their behavior is inappropriate and kindly fuck off.
At the end of the day protecting one’s peace is so important. Nostr isn’t worth sacrificing a healthy, peaceful state of mind. Roya doesn’t owe us her presence or attention.
I’ve been the blonde nanny in the Silicon Valley carpool line. Some of those schools are so incredible I’d like to go back to school. But the below video has me questioning if where you raise your kids has a big impact on how you parent? We know that social circles have a big impact on personal choices. So it makes sense that parenting choices would be influenced by the parents in your circle with similar aged children. Any parents want to weigh in?
I agree. I’m just not seeing many at that point yet. I think most underestimate the huge leaps that have to happen to go from feeling defeated and apathetic to having any emotion about the situation to that driving someone to make actual changes. I see more people feeling defeated and apathetic, hoping someone else can come deal with the problems they don’t have the energy to focus on.
I don’t think the baby needs to be thrown out with the bath water. I do see plenty that needs changing. I think we’d live in a very different society if more people just gave a damn.