I quite smoking weed a few days ago, for the 1000th time. This cycle is getting old. I'm kind of struggling today.

I have bever felt like i canI relate to people very well. Smoking has always helped me slow down and be more compassionate. I am tired of slowing myself and making myself small. Also, I'm tired of feeling so alone. Not sure if hanging out here helps or makes it worse. I want to believe that one day I will find my people and where I fit into this crazy puzzle. Or maybe this is just how it is supposed to be for me.

I appreciate any guidance you have for me on this journey. Please keep it positive and helpful. I beat myself up plenty already.

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be kind to yourself, dear brother. You’re here for a reason & im confident you can break free from all what shackles you. the power of decision is our great superpower, and you have it now.

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Day three is tough as I recall because that's when you really sober up.

Exercise has helped me. Also breathwork to release whatever was causing the habit.

The Presence Process by Michael Brown helped me tremendously.

You got this brother šŸ¤™

I'm a few weeks in, it gets better. My brain fog is cleared, showing is getting better. If you have difficulty with sleep try some htp5, I find it helps when I'm stopping the herb.

https://www.drugs.com/mtm/5-htp.html

Thanks. Just hearing from others that understand helps a lot. I immediately felt stupid for sharing that but thanks for the time and response.

Don't feel stupid šŸ«‚

Stupid isn't the right word. I just feel like sometimes my vulnerability is met with something that's difficult for me to deal with.

You are doing the right thing in striving to keep a clear mind. That's the state where you can make progress getting to like yourself more. Don't focus so much on expectations that others will fill a void. You are an undiscovered country all yourself, things to learn, interests to explore. You are made of potential energy!

Thank you. I really do want to be clear again. I know I have a lot of potential. I think sometimes I am scared to face it.

This time is different .. maybe

I like to think so. Thanks

Quitting weed is a good start, especially if it started ā€œdefiningā€ you.

If you are at a stage of your life where you are struggling, it probably means that you are shedding your old skin.

DMs are open if you need to talk.

Thank you. It feels good just to get it off my chest and be heard.

My pleasure, I know Life can be tough sometimes, but try not to forget that progress is more important than perfection.

I used to smoke a lot every evening and was scared I would not to be able to sleep if I quit.

Took a bit of time to get used to it, but clarity was much needed.

Now, I only enjoy cigars. šŸ˜‚

I really want to be free. I have been a daily smoker for many years now with only short breaks here and there. When I quit I get overwhelmed with myself quickly. I think I just need to stick to it for a while to recalibrate. I am hooeful I will follow through this time.

Some people manage to quit from one day to the other, some people quit gradually then suddenly.

What’s important is to keep the will to quit and act upon it.

Going out, exercise, envision your future self and embrace it.

Many have done it (including me) and I’m sure you can do it too.

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Intersting. Putting on my headphones now to check it out. Seems like my kind of thing. šŸ™

Here’s the thing, it’s more than ā€œquitting weedā€, it’s about becoming someone different, which is scary. What helped me the most was doing more hard things: lifting, running, watching every sunrise, cold plunges, etc. Not because these things are ā€œhealthyā€, but because doing things that I didn’t feel like doing started to increase my mind’s control over my actions. Slowly, I was able to use that same ā€œmuscleā€ to quit the more addictive habits: weed, drinking, refined sugar and even caffeine.

So, maybe don’t start with the weed, start with something else that’s hard, but easier than that… for you.

Oh, and don’t listen to what they say about weed not being addictive, it is the most sinister of addictions because it leads people to believe they’re not addicted, or that it’s some sort of ā€œmedicineā€. Rogan doesn’t help the narrative either. From personal experience, I can tell you that quitting is the greatest l, it took me about 6 months to a year of no weed until it no longer had its tendrils in me. So, like Bitcoin, play the long game. Hope that helps, good luck out there.

Thank you. Great advice. I do think it can serve as medicine for some at some times. I believe it has helped me through a lot in the past. And now I am at a different place where I don't feel I need it anymore. I do agree it can be very addictive as well. Just through my own experience. I don't need scientific proof to know something is addictive for me. Thanks again for the helpful advice. I have been doing more hard things, still getting my energy back. Tomorrow is a new day. šŸ™

I have tried many guided meditation type excercises but not this. I really enjoyed it and I feel lighter. Thank you.

Happy to hear. I find most guided meditations annoying or distracting but there seems to be something to the hemi-sync along with the visualization tricks, to the point that the CIA studied Monroe's methods. Just be careful not to go too far down the rabbit hole lol, it's a whole series of tapes and Monroe developed it around the idea of triggering OBE. I recently put down cannabis as well.

Interesting. What is obe?

Out of body experiences / astral projection

Sorry you’re struggling man. I don’t have any easy answers but I do know that I’m glad you’re here Dave!

Thanks. It means a lot. I dont have a lot of connections in the "real" world.

Small hack….try some hot/cold therapy. Sauna and near ice cold plunge in succession. 3-4 cycles per session. Lengthening the hot each time. Slowing pace of nose inhalations as well.

Helped me (and others) reset nervous system and cultivate a calmer more compassionate interior space šŸ’“šŸ§¬

Thx for sharing and being so vulnerable brother. You are right where you are suppose to be. Trust in that 😌

Thank you. Great idea. I don't have a lot of water resources out here but I can still least take cold and hot showers.

Replace smoking weed with going to the gym and wellness afterwards? That’s how I do it when I do my ā€žsmoke breaksā€œ. I like smoking weed every once in a while. But when I feel like I smoke too much I just double down going to the gym