The things you tell a child at a certain age become their entire identity.
So be careful what you tell them.
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Yeah… kids don’t hear words, they absorb them.
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You would wish that’s it. You telling them is one thing, but you also have grandparents throwing comments… and society…
But what every parent learns eventually, is that you don’t have control over it. Just like how I, you, and everyone else are nothing like our siblings. Although our parents roughly said the same things to us.
This part of life you need to learn to let go.
Great advice 💯👌🙏
Hey HODL. There’s no tooth fairy either. Sorry dude.
Be a Bitcoiner at any age
It creates their paradigm which most people spend their entire life in.
Fuckin crazy.
True in my case, even though I’m consciously aware of it it’s very difficult to get out of.
It goes both ways. I once when 12 told my mom I don’t like mushrooms and now I’m never allowed to eat her stuffed mushrooms.
Very difficult but not impossible.
I'm going through it right now.
The best (maybe only) way to do it is through daily repetition over a long period of time.
It's why most never change it.
If you don’t know yourself, someone else will leverage your ignorance to their advantage. Get curious.
Very true, at least for myself. Still, your own self is somewhat already conditioned in that way, so that it becomes quite a frustrating “frame” to break or get out of
Probably the reason why every generation needs to do stuff different than the prior generation, indefinitely
... they're freakin sponges... and can also absorb ideas you communicaye that you had no intention of planting in their heads.
Bro đź’Ż. Our first personal identifications are set in very early childhood by our environment.
My mother always told me that as a little girl, probably no more than 6 she felt down. Her father picked her up onto his lap and said 'God does not make failures.' For some reason that settled it. Personal criticisms mostly just rolled off her back because of that.
This is why the State really wants them in pre-school and kindagarden... Get them away from their parents and who knows what can be poured in their ears...
I told mine to stack sats and live happy ❤️
Only the strong survives.
It's a lifetime of reparenting after that... The issue is not just what parents say (and what societal conditioning they are living life through) but the entire social system indoctrination from schools to the children on the playground, to the whole village mentality.
you’re gonna go far, kid
The monetary system you inherit becomes your reality.
My daughter has this GFY attitude
And she is real quick to be like “don’t tell me what to do”
Or “I do whatever I want”
I think she has gotten this from me
Like the anti authority - rebellious spirit….
I didn’t mean for it to run off on her
But as of late I’m noticing it more and more
Pure, distilled pressure. If you don’t have kids you wouldn’t understand.
AGREED! words are like a magic spell
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