Did we lose more lady users this week?
Discussion
Yes TheNoshole
And the women of nostr lied about her reason for leaving to blame men
Nope
Did you read her post? Lol
Yes and I also talked to her on telegram.
Did you see all the posts blaming men by other women and even the men simped in and joined ....and it wasnt even related to what happened...all assumptions...and blame for nothing
I did. We get crap on a daily basis on here. Reach out and ask women here.
How is that unique to nostr? That will happen everywhere and you will never be safe. People are people.
Nostr has mute button that solves the problem
I understand that and how it works but inappropriate behavior should be called out so it is no longer acceptable. That is all we want. If as a male you see this call it out.
Why ? To create more drama with simps and their followers ?
A simple mute makes it disappear. A flame war with peers adds more gas to the fire. And people will blindly take sides and not worry about the truth
Because we shouldn’t have to put up with it. We are tired of smiling and shrugging it off.
You shouldn't? But men should?
Acceptable by whom?
Some "authority" of sorts?? 🤔 I am curious now.
Shut up, lol.
Wow that sucks can you tag the note that made it happen. Sad this keeps happening.
Wait wait theres more to the story. The women of nostr lied and blamed men but that wasnt the real reason
I don't know the exact note, this guy was being really disrespectful to her and Marie the other day though.
Rough seems like there is some nut jobs on Nostr that constantly like to harrass.
It was mutual. The guy was simply being egalitarian with and not intimidated by her harassing (Marie hijacked his thread to stir shit).
Marie called Noshole for a dogpiling session. Didn't work. Instead Noshole regretted the whole situation, a toxic situation, created by Marie.
I have to see yet an apology from Marie. Unlikely. She created this whole mess.
I just saw this note today...
Yes but it's not just that. It's a trend that's been going on for a long while.
In my time here I've noticed that when men talk shit and get called out for it, they roll with it and either apologize or double down.
When the same happens to women, they can't handle it and they tuck and run.
Maybe don't talk shit and be kind?
You missed my point but thats oK
I chose not to acknowledge your sexist comment and chose to offer a better solution.
What, that women do not also talk shit at times?
I have never seen that. Normally is a toxic asshole male that they need to defend themselves against.
I've seen it and I've been here about as long as you. One lady called the men disagreeing with noshole "Limped dicked men who wanted to have a sausage party", whatever the hell that is.
Men argue differently than women. When they can't win by logic they will burst into tears, etc. And there is no way there can be any social interaction without heated debate. IMHO the ladies of nostr need thicker skins and I don't see it as necessarily and male/female issue. Hell, half the time I have no idea which gender I am interacting with here anyway and should feel free to express my opinion as I like without having to walk on eggshells at the risk of offending someone.
That probably can and does happen. However, that doesn't seem to reflect the conversation I followed from yesterday. All I saw was men acting like men that I wouldn't ever want around any of the women in my life.
I was raised differently. In my house, my father taught me to defend and respect women. I try to have debates without being mean. I just didn't see any of that yesterday.
Decency has nothing to do with gender
I don’t understand how the interaction from yesterday became a gender issue
Treat people as individuals
I agree with you about defending women, however most of the women I have contact with are quite capable of defending themselves.
Anyway, not sure why you called my comment "sexist" as that is hardly me. But this is an example of the different way men and women discuss or argue. We settled this. A woman might have runned oft crying misogyny.
I have bad news for you - Derek is kind of retarded.
Lady weighing in on this. The strength of actual women is compassion, emotion, being able to embrace all that chaos in a crisis. The strength of actual men is courage, integrity, focus, ability to be objective. Pro-tip: focus on the good qualities of your person, in whatever relationship, and watch the good qualities grow.
But you are kind of retarded, to be honest.
IT SEEMS #NOSTR HAS BEEN INVADED BY WOMAN HATING HOMOSEXUALS
THERE IS A SIMPLE SOLUTION TO YOUR VAGINA JEALOUSY
THATS JUST TALK TO OTHER MEN ONLY
WOMEN BEING BULLIED BY SO CALLED GROWN MEN…… WHAT ON EARTH IS WRONG WITH YOU
“BUT A WOMAN CALLED ME A NASTY NAME”
OH CRY HARDER YOU WEIRD TINY LITTLE BOY
DO YOU HAVE TO RETALIATE? NO
IS IT MAKING U CRY? HOPE SO
MAYBE U WANT TO COMPETE IN WOMANS SPORT AND COMPLAIN WHEN THEY SAY YOURE NOT A REAL WOMAN
OUR WOMAN ARE SACRED
YOU NOT SO MUCH
YOULL FIND YOURSELF A NICE HUSBAND IF YOU KEEP THIS UP
“BUT THEYRE OUT OF HAND”
JUST DECLARE WAR AND GET IT OVER WITH…. YOULL BE DISCARDED FROM BOTH SIDES WITH NOTHING BUT YOUR TINY BOYHOOD IN YOUR HANDS
YOURE ACTING LIKE YOU WANT MEN ONLY…… THATS A HOMOSEXUAL THING
AND THERE IS BETTER PLACES FOR SEXUAL GATHERINGS THAN HERE
Its true, if its another woman women turn vicious.
Men, well most, tend to find a solution to avoid a scene.
Yea I been following. Im sad to see it continuing. I got pay more attention and call it out don't really know what else can be done these people can spin up new accounts so easily. Clearly are losers to begin with so they have unlimited time to keep harrasing.
Nostr is designed to be a spammers paradise
A public notepad file
That's the drawback of a decentralized open network. Spamming is easy and for free.
That will be changing fast. Relays are gaining more administrative controls
How can you know this at scale?
