I had a cousin commit suicide this week.

Please remember that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

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Nothing is permanent in an eternal existence.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

It's so tragic; I've been around it too many times and it's just awful.

My condolences.

Sorry to hear that.

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Sad. Rip.

Very sorry to hear ❤️.

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my condolences

Sorry to hear that man

I'm sorry for your loss

Sorry to hear 😔🙏

Sorry

It is always so difficult to understand when someone chooses suicide. Those of us left behind suffer greatly. The grief is complicated with thoughts that we might have missed an opportunity to intervene. I've said a prayer for you and your family that you may have peace.

Condolences to your family. ❤️

Condolences..

Fuck. Sorry man. 🫂

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Uh 😢 sorry for your loss

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Condolences, that’s very sad

If you want to understand suicide, learn about Seligman’s 3 P’s (permanence, pervasiveness, and personalization)

Sorry to hear it J.

Horrific, so sorry. I also lost a cousin this way some years ago.

I'm very sorry for your and your family's loss.

So sorry for your loss.

I'm sorry to hear that. It's on my mind today as my dad killed himself 24 years ago today

Ah fuck. That sucks I'm sorry. I'll repost bc it's true...

The trick is to make sure people realize that this is TEMPORARY.

Condolences

I am so sorry to hear that, Jameson. I hope you are well and continue to be.

sorry to hear that, much strength and love

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Instead of people saying good things about those who commit suicide, we all need to speak the truth. They are selfish people who hurt everyone around them. Suicide is not only foolish, it is hateful and harmful to everyone who cares about them.

You obviously haven’t had a loved one commit suicide. If you don’t have anything positive to say to someone who is obviously grieving SHUT THE FUCK UP 😒

I've seen all of the loved ones who were destroyed by those who committed suicide and it breaks my heart what it does to those who loved that person: parents, kids, friends, spouses. There isn't anything more hateful that you can do to a loved one than commit suicide because it fills the loved one with guilt and remorse. I guess I care more about those left behind, that were destroyed by the suicider's actions.

I've also seen one suicide lead to another and lead to another. If the first suicide hadn't happened, neither would the others, so it causes great harm. I'm sorry if it hurts your feelings, but this is a problem that needs to stop and holding those who commit suicide up as saints makes those that are hurting more likely to commit suicide.

You’re not sorry it hurts my feeling you’re just talking nonsense about things you no nothing about. Stop hating on those who had no support when they obviously needed help. Until you lose a loved one (l lost my Dad) I suggest you don’t go around spreading negativity. I know first hand and trust me I’ve gone through hell and back and I would never ever consider suicide the solution. If anything my Dad doing Shay he did is the reason why I would never consider it. Because I KNOW FIRST HAND suicide is NOT the solution. So essentially because of what he did , suicide is out of the question. It’s not an option cause I know how it feels to be left behind.

Sorry for your loss.

Maybe my point of view is biased because all of the people I know who committed suicide, I knew the people left behind much better than the person who committed suicide, so I saw the hurt, loss and harm, but since the actual person who committed suicide was only a distant acquaintance, I saw the hurt caused by the suicide more than the hurt that caused the suicide.

God bless his soul

My condolences. Its a terrible thing to go through. 🙏

I’m sorry for your and your family’s loss 😢

Piss. Sorry for your loss, Jameson.

Very sorry to hear that

So sorry for your loss..

Sorry for the loss

im sorry lopp

Rough. 🫂

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Sorry for your loss.

My condolences, Jameson. I’m sorry you have to experience that pain.

Sorry for your loss, sir.

My condolences! I lost a good friend like that ((( Awful.

Sorry for your loss 🙏

My deepest condolences.

Something like this often comes out of nowhere.

My condolences, I lost a dear friend the same way x

I'm so sorry to hear that.