I wonder if the relays have to agree to host your follows on your Nsec. So if you are connected to 3 relays, and all three don't like 1 NPUB that you follow, perhaps it looks like it disappears from your follows? Idk
Im just randomly watching Stephen Greer talking about aliens/drones, and I see several people on Nostr talking about aliens.
How sure are you of your statements?
I'm sorry you were also in this trouble last night.
It wasn't nachos for me it was Gnocchi with Marino sauce and some linginini and clams from another plate and some scallops and capers and linguine from a 3rd plate.
Maybe she will get a grasp on you and it's all ok :-D
Also, this love bombing thing reminds me of anytime I try to tell a friend BTC is a good investment.
I want to just stop but it's such a compulsion.
So BTC bombing is a serious thing and someday friends are just going to call an ambulance and have me taken away as I scream about "volatility", and "zoom out" and "you have to look at it on a log chart".
I needed this story to tell myself :-D
It's better than the fact that yesterday I just told a friend about Bitcoin, and it actively crashed during the convo.
That's the funny thing about volatility is that it's always doing something when you tell people.
Whereas "safe investments" would put people to sleep if they looked at the price on the daily.
I'm an introvert too (get energy from sitting alone with my thoughts) but I like to meet new people. It's risky but there's the reward of potentially having a good conversation.
I don't like hanging out in groups in general as I tend to stay silent when there's a group.
Also every person I have met who seems extraverted to me tell me that they are introverts so I can't say I know any introverts except the person I live with.
But that may be the weed causing extroversion.
Is there really such a thing as an extravert.
Also I highly value truth speaking. Even when I don't like to hear it.
It's much more loving to speak the truth to people than "talking sweetly".
So Maybe "sweet talking" is not so good but there is a case to be made for "talking sweetly".
I also felt like a caveman compared to the Brazilian politeness.
However, I get it. Sometimes there is politeness in front of your face and there is backstabbing behind.
A lot of politeness is telegraphing intentions to strangers. Initial contacts with others have to result in exaggerated gestures until contact is established
Perhaps as they become friends there is more directness.
Yeah, it seems like it was the blow off top for the overpaid tech talent and non-scarce real estate.
I am optimistic tho with Bitcoin that the tech talent(or untalented) will sort itself into the roles that are best suited for their talents.
All the carpenters and painters and shoemakers are going to be able to save in a good financial instrument and make crafts great again.
An explosion of inventions.
No more centralized "everyone has to be a doctor, lawyer, engineer".
From my circle, 1 programmer from Peloton laid off in last two weeks.
I guess that's not a surprise or good vibe check for economy.
Looking for a job? I want to delete linkedIn so badly but I keep it just in case.
I stick to my current job with no raises for years just so I don't have to go through the whole LinkedIn stuff again. It's big brother's new cudgel for reducing inflation.
Interesting. Well, I would say there's a spectrum, as with anything.
I'm from the south and my close friend from California always pointed out to me how much he hated the fake politeness vibes of the south.
When I run into someone from New York or a big city, I'm always aware of how silly I must sound with formulaic stuff. But at the same time it's a lot of fun to have the difference in relating styles for people who are willing to be authentic and point them out.
Also, there is the thing about meeting new people that just puts me into overdrive about wanting to know everything about them and thinking they are the greatest thing ever that walked on the planet.
Life in review:
From a crazy impressive obituary that I found on a road trip this summer:

Born 1947
From age 20 to 27 crisscrossed US with 3 kids and husband who installed phone equipment.
27 to 32: radio station news reporter and small farm
Age 32: moved to Texas and worked as private investigator
Age 34:joined air force (intelligence operations), including Bosnia and Herzivagina
Age 41:1st husband dies in boating accident
Age 45 meets 2nd husband in medical service command
Age 46 retired from the aeromedical command
Loved fishing, riding Harleys etc...
Should individuals start opening lightning channels or is this too risky unless one has dedicated, always-on hardware?
The last time I looked into the fees were to crazy due to ordinals or something, and I kept running out of battery running Bitcoin core and forgetting to me plug the laptop in.
Get the gas, squeegee the windows, lift the wipers, re-cradle the handle
Reminded me of my mom, who can't resist timed car washes. She runs around the car with the suspended power washer and gets every single wash, foam, non stick spray done before the machine runs out of time.
