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Most often my emotional pain is internally generated. Learning to analyze root causes helps me to slow down and respond more thoughtfully to emotional triggers.

Another thing that helps me is to realize that some feelings you just have to sit with and feel to let them out. If you weren't able to feel all the sadness or panic or anger etc in the moment something happened to you, if it's all too much, your body will store that emotion away for later. These stored emotions can be released during times of stress causing us to "overreact". Recognizing that some of what you are feeling is not caused by the present situation can go a long way toward being able to regulate your reactions.

Brown ground beef with homemade taco seasoning, scramble in eggs, add salsa, avocado, and cheddar cheese πŸ˜‹

I've experienced the real struggle... AND I complain about Spotify πŸ˜† (Used to complain, I've given up on using it)

The Vorkosigan Saga by Lois Mcmaster Bujold-- excellent fun, vivid characters, action, drama, and humor

Red Mars by Kim Stanley Robinson

gorgeous realism, made me want to go to Mars

I'm interested in this topic as well.

Both duck duck go and brave have been giving dumbed-down, largely crap results for months now, and getting worse lately.

Ravenclaw, with a healthy dose of Gryffindor to balance πŸ€“πŸ˜Ž

Replying to Avatar Derek Ross

We've had a lot of talk about relays over the past day here on Nostr. This may be a bit confusing if you're new to Nostr.

What's going on with this discussion and why are many people making comments, jokes, or memes about relays?

The argument boils down to centralization and decentralization. On Nostr, we decentralize our infrastructure by using a potential wide variety of servers. Many of us are reading this note right now that's been retrieved from a variety of servers or as we call them, relays. Some relays are more popular than others. This leads to the questions surrounding decentralization. If many users are only using a top subset of relays, then we're not as decentralized as we could be or maybe even as decentralized as we should be.

I have various opinions on this subject. Even if Nostriches mostly only use ten relays, we're still magnitudes better than any existing social platform where only one entity runs the server infrastructure. We can do better though and we should do better. We have the tools to and the capabilities to make Nostr even more decentralized.

Now, this gets us into the next discussion. Which method of decentralization is best? For that, again, in my opinion, I'm a fan of the Gossip model. Simple put, Gossip makes relay selection not overly matter all that much. You can use any relay that you'd like and your follower's clients essentially fetch the notes and events from the relays that are being used without the need to be utilizing the same relay for communication to flow.

What should you do? Nothing, IMO. Relay selection and discovery aren't that great on most clients. I'd say keep using the same relays that you're using for now. Maybe, at some point, you'll update your relays to use smaller, community relays. For now, this is a developer problem to solve. You just keep creating notes and sending zaps. It will all work out in the end. Our developers LOVE to have problems to solve. Pura vida!

Thank you for the explanation πŸ‘

Experiencing similar currently. Disputing a charge from a cancelled subscription (Curiosity Stream). Even with a screenshot showing my subscription was cancelled several months before the charge they are fighting me.

I TRIED to delete my Paypal account a year or so ago. They wouldn't LET me, insisting there was still an active payment though I cancelled/removed all payments and vendors.

I thought, well that sucks, but I just won't use the account.

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Spring Flower Fritters

1 cup all-purpose flour

1 teaspoon baking powder

pinch of salt

1 tablespoon melted butter

1 large egg

1/2 cup milk

About one cup flowers and chopped greens (pansies, violas, dandelion, dandelion leaves, garlic leaves, etc)

avocado oil, coconut oil, or lard for frying

Mix together flour, baking powder, and salt.

Separately, whisk together milk, egg, and butter.

Add wet ingredients to dry and quickly stir just until there are no lumps.

In a pan heat about 1/2 to 1 inch of oil until hot (very slightly rippling) reduce heat to medium or medium-low. Test cook a drop or two of batter. You want it to solidify right away, but not brown immediately.

Gently fold your blossoms and greens into the fritter batter.

Using a tablespoon dollop heaping scoops of batter into the hot oil. Cook until golden on bottom then flip and cook the other side.

Serve plain or with a dip such as garlic mayo.

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