#cute #vibes #gfd #zelink #art #artstr #grownostr
the deepest yearners understand that obtaining is never the goal
#relationships #grownostr
let's chill at 80
^__^
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#chess #cat #catstr #cartoon
do you think be needed is different than being wanted?
i noticed you tying this into love languages—do you think it's reasonable to be loved and desired in a specific way, or is it something more selfish?
shirts that go hard
#gfd #grownostr
#discipline is choosing between what you want now and what you want most.
what i want now: indulgence
what i want most: "good boy"
#FLR #gfd #mindset #delayedgratification #patience #footstr #nsfw #grownostr
interesting...
i'm not sure. it doesn't bother me too much—i like to dance around the "line" :3
Wondering why someone (looking at you nostr:npub1jwka98a4n879dyejrrk7f0ez73wje3khusu02zx7zgyq3trc4rpskga2zr 😁) would report a note for nudity if the said note already has a nsfw content-warning flag. Is it an automated bot? Can some clients ignore 'content-warning' and require it to be a regular tag instead? Does Steve use more accounts and forgot that he logged on one where he allowed adult content and got offended?
So many questions, answers unlikely to come...
#suchisalifeofadventurer #nostr
idk
what does it even mean?
one of my posts got reported for nudity—they were clothed.
if you're not almost drowning you're not putting forth the right effort :3
same :3
i have to beg Her for one nowadays
;)
it might be nice to have some if it catches on
*bite*
#cute #vibes #gfd #manga #grownostr
yes.
they arrived quickly for mine.
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look closely at the letters—they make a stick man
the second one gives him a dump truck
omg
i do the same thing~!
^__^
beautiful... <3
#cute #vibes #gfd #grownostr
i think that mindset is something that comes with being a father lol
it wasn't until then that i started to realize that i had been using my "submissiveness" mostly as a conduit for receiving instead of something that primarily supports and fulfills Her. as a mom, She needs extra support because She is giving more of Herself.
now i do my best to focus on fulfilling Her needs and the relationship's needs instead of considering my own. i put my trust in Her and that reduces noise and clears space in the relationship. but i have to clarify, my "needs" and the relationship's needs are not the same thing. the health of the relationship determines how we interact, so that's why i think a date night is so important ^^
thanks for sharing so much with me, fren~! :3
yes, sometimes nights, sometimes more like evenings. little ones change things a lot (as i'm sure you know).
because it's so easy to put it off for later, it's something that has to consciously be kept in the "needs" list—our partners and our relationship should be prioritized as well.
before we were parents, we were lovers. and it's important to maintain the spark, spirit, and bond that created life. at least, i think so. <3
so yes, bring them back, fren.
best of luck~! :3
i imagine it's all fun until She becomes immersed in the game and forgets you need air >_<
no worries, fren~! i always welcome thoughtful responses. :3
you bring up a really important point about guidance and instructions and the importance of communication. and one i don't necessarily disagree with. a more assertive woman would probably find it easier to communicate those guidelines, however, i doubt that she'd consider a guy who passively awaits instructions as attractive.
i think when i asked this question i was thinking about "Her love language is not having to ask" and how this applies as a submissive man. many times i see taking initiative conflated with leadership, but in this context, at least to me, it's following—i'm following Her cues, i'm learning what She likes and following Her desires, my intent is to please Her by paying attention to the nonverbal communication and the small details in everyday conversation. the initiative is separate from leading.
to me, i think this arrangement is a common form of Feminine leadership—it focuses more on intuition and connection to inspire the masculine partner to act rather than direct commands.
idk, i don't have it all figured out; just something i was thinking about.
thanks again~! ^.^
