“Thanks for picking that up for me! I will Venmo you the money.”

“Oh I don’t have Venmo but I can do bitcoin, CashApp, or PayPal”

*radio silence*

Even if bitcoin has world-class UX, I’m not sure if we’ll ever see widespread adoption until we can figure out how to release the absolute chokehold Venmo has on people, especially millennials.

CashApp may not be self custody but at least I can live my bitcoin life if someone uses it to send me money. Venmo has normalized digital payments so much that it’s changed how people behave and has become a verb. Nobody bothers to split bills anymore and they have stopped carrying cash. Why? Because they “can just Venmo you”.

I can see stack overflow error happening in real time when I tell my friends I don’t have Venmo because I don’t believe they created the social feature in good conscience and think it’s an awful thing for Venmo to try and normalize the destruction of financial privacy. Yes, you can now make transactions private, even if it’s not the default. No, I don’t care. I’m dying in this hill. I don’t want to link my fiat ass bank account to ANOTHER system when PayPal, which owns Venmo does the exact same thing. And you know what? People have been using PayPal since the dawn of the Internet 2.0. You already have it! And if I’m going to use a newer, mobile, digital payment solution, it’s going to be CashApp because at least I can turn that money you owe me into bitcoin, which is what I actually prefer you pay me back in. To add to that, Block and Jack Dorsey have done so much for the Bitcoin ecosystem. Of course I want to support CashApp!

In my experience the hierarchy is:

1. Venmo

2. Zelle

3. Cash (middle ground for “you don’t want to set up CashApp? Weird because I don’t want to set up Venmo!”)

4. “I’ll get your lunch next time”

5. MAYBE PayPal or CashApp

6. Not getting your money back

7. bitcoin

So what do I want? Obviously the Bitcoin Standard, but if I can’t have that I want to make cash great again and more people using bitcoin compatible payment solutions.

I encourage everyone to join me in a crusade of maximum pain for anyone trying to use something that is not this. We all deserve better! A win-win would be if Venmo integrated bitcoin so then all my Venmo using friends could transact with whoever they wish, using a free and open monetary protocol.

For starters it would probably help if I was more often in the scenario of needing to pay people back instead of the other way around…

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i do not accept venmo or zelle due to the ToS which removes some fraud protections (participants in the network assume all scam risks), and the added risk of accounts being flagged and frozen based on what comments denote.

paypal is better than venmo and zelle, but not by much.

Wow! I had no idea about the fraud protection, or lack thereof. I have so many friends that use Venmo and Zelle to accept business payments. Can’t wait to inform them about this and be ignored 🥲

Good point about the comments and account flagging. The people that reply to that with “Then don’t put in any dumb comments!” remind me of the people that say you don’t need privacy if you aren’t doing anything bad.

good take

100%. I had a conversation once with my barber (who's Jamaican) who accepts cashapp and he was saying that he saw cashapp used alot more than venmo in the black community. Idk if this is true but demographics of users is always something I think of as interesting.

I absolutely think demographics are at play. I don’t have evidence to support it but I suspect a lot of younger people (like gen z) are more likely to have CashApp.

It's odd that I was able to use PayPal for 20 years and then boom Venmo became the standard for people to send money around. I believe this is regional or changes with your different groups of friends. I don't know anyone who hat uses CashApp in my friends and family. Some have used PayPal many years ago, but it seems like everyone has Venmo since it was treated as the fun and social way to send money. Even my parents in their 60s use Venmo. I don't know anyone that uses Zelle either. I think I'd pass out if someone locally offered to pay me in bitcoin. I've thought about trying to get some friends to try Strike and then having them send me that way. Then, I can just send the cash to my Lightning node, but it also seems like a hassle or a dick move to ask someone to pay me but also require them to use a specific application or method. It has just been easier to accept all methods.

Do you think it’s a dick move to pay people back in the payment solution of your choice? I can get behind the etiquette of one side deciding how the money will be transferred but I don’t want to live in a reality where it’s Venmo only, both ways.

Thank you for saying that about PayPal! I thought I was going crazy! 😂 I was like isn’t this what we’ve been using since 2000 something?! Why and when did we make an overnight switch?!

Anyways, you’re nice and a good friend to cooperate with all payment methods 🙂

I'm a big fan of the "I'll get your lunch next time" option. If I can't afford to spot my friends or coworkers lunch every so often, I just won't eat out.

I like that one too 😊 But I’ve come into situations where I’m often buying people things (not lunch) because they have an underlying assumption that they can pay me back in Venmo. It doesn’t usually happen more than once with the same people, but different people, over and over 🤣 Everytime I assume they just have cash so I don’t say anything but it never plays out like that, haha I’m never going to learn

Honestly I'm surprised Venmo and CashApp aren't interoperable for cases like that. But I guess they want to keep people in their systems.

In Eu none of those exist, in my country there is an instant transfer app that many ppl use, they charge a few cents for each tx. Bitcoin was not built to replace this systems, people will only start using Bitcoin if they already hodl so they are bitcoiners already, or some of these apps start integrating LN, Strike now is available in EU but not many people know about it.

Interesting! Is it just one instant transfer app? Is it made by a company or the government?

Doesn't PayPal do Bitcoin these days?

That’s a very good question. But nobody uses PayPal 🤣

I still see it get a lot of use. I made a couple major purchases with it this summer even. Maybe it is also semi regional what is accepted also?

It definitely could be regional. Were your PayPal purchases made in person or over the Internet? I still see it used a lot for sites like eBay and Etsy.

Last time I used it was to pay for a lawnmower I bought off Facebook Marketplace

Nice!

This is the cashu future, imo. The Venmo-like experience.

You have to link your account to venmo = you would onboard some cash to this app.

You send money around with no fees on venmo = cashu is the only way to do this, and it excels at it.

You cash out by sending back to the bank in venmo = same trust model with cashu. You don't really *have* the money until this step.

The "bitcoin standard" venmo.

With you on this! 🙌 “just Zap it to me” has much better ring to it. Lyn wrote about this in her recent Nostr article, too. Reducing payee frictions comes at a onetime upfront cost known as “wtf is Nostr?”

When I am on the paying side - I typically say I can pay you back in bitcoin, and if you don’t want to set up a wallet/learn, at least get CashApp! It’s not the final place to get people to, but if they want to get paid by me, I usually get them to accept Bitcoin and it’s usually via CashApp. It’s interesting b/c I don’t even try to tech or explain Bitcoin much anymore (terrible at orange pilling), but once they get some, they tend to hold it for fun (or b/c they don’t know how to do anything but leave it there 😂), and often start asking questions not long after!

I love this! Because a lot of people don’t know where to start if they want to get bitcoin. And I too am bad at orange pilling 😅

I'm dying on the same hill as you. When I realized I could literally see what my friends were doing on the weekends based on the social feed, I was creeped out . I deleted that app immediately. One benefit of not having many friends is that I am relentless on shilling bitcoin apps. Got my tight circle all on Strike and Cashapp. Even if Venmo got Bitcoin, fuck them for normalizing letting everyone see your financial transactions by default. Sadly they captured a whole generation of people already.

100%!!! 🤝 That’s awesome that you got your inner circle on Strike and CashApp 🙌🏼

Best of luck getting your friends who owe you money to sign up to strike or cash app. You definately got to flip the script so you got the leverage. If you want me to pay you back get on cash app or strike and shill them your affiliate code 😂. Win win for all.

All too familiar with this situation. No one outside of my bitcoin circle has accepted my offer to be paid in bitcoin 😢

See if they respond better to Dogecoin 😂😂

Similar problem here in Canada except that we don't have Zelle or Venmo and people don't use PayPal. Everyone uses e-transfers. Such a garbage UX. Or cash.

😭😭 We all deserve better!

curious if you’d have luck asking them to send bitcoin from venmo

Venmo doesn’t support this does it? I should still ask them though 😆

I think they do with a bit of additional kyc and manual in-app bitcoin purchase https://help.venmo.com/hc/en-us/articles/16145303480595-Crypto-Transfers

I also wonder how Venmo, which does nothing PayPal didn't do ( and which is owned by PayPal) just exploded into being the main one.

kind of reminds me how Skype existed for years and then zoom shit all over it

in Europe revolut is an easy way of sending a friend money but they also have a ton of other features , I only treat it as a hot wallet tho

YES! I have the same question!! Was it an organic shift in user sentiment that caused Venmo and Zoom to come out on top, or was it a strategically planned thing? I guess we’ll probably never know but it feels like those apps exploded in popularity overnight.

Maybe there’s hope that one day bitcoin will become the most popular medium of exchange overnight 😄

if I was a VC and some young goon was pitching me on zoom, I would just be like no way, we have Skype already, I'm not giving you million of dollars lol

I'm definitely ready for BTC to do Zoom overnight tho 📈💯

im exactly the same, minus paypal because they banned me. but bitcoin or cashapp is good. or strike (But no normie knows what strike is).

No need. Bitcoin is the only thing you mentioned that is global. All that other crap is US only. This is why bitcoin will win.

That’s my point though. Why are people choosing walled gardens over a global, permission less, decentralized network?

I think its three things: 1. Unfortunately because of shit coins, NFTs, blockchain grifters and all the crypto related scams (FTX for example), most people lump it all together, bitcoin included as worthless and scammy. It will take some serious PR work to distance bitcoin from those scams or some amazing app that make people look passed this association. 2. Most people's introduction to Bitcoin is by some tool who bought it trying to get rich quick so it is usually associated with investing instead of as a currency. First impressions are crucial. 3. UX. Getting bitcoin, you have to sign up on some exchange (associated with scamminess) or go to an ATM (sketchy). In the best case scenario, someone gifts you some bitcoin so you skip this part. Now storing it if you have anything of value is also strange and difficult. You have to buy a hardware wallet and learn about all of that. Even with a phone wallet, you learn about seed phrases and what it means and I imagine some people feel intimidated by the responsibility. I know most people I introduced this to did so I end up holding their corn -_-. And let's not get started about lightning UX. Anything non custodial is a nightmare for normies. And finally, say you got passed all that. Now what? Almost nobody will accept bitcoin for payment. You have to go out of your way to find merchants who will accept it and even then you're quite limited. I think if the UX could be better than what's already out there, people would use it. Or necessity will drive people to it (e.g. Africa or Latin America).

This is me 100%! I tell everyone to pay me on nostr:npub1cashappn03s3cl2ljsdntv0v28e2um5lgx4vjctqjt23pcwzjhsqmtdg5l!

Heck yeah! This is the way to gently get more adoption 🙂