3 decisions shape your life.
1. Who you marry
2. When you finally decide to prioritize your health
3. When you get into bitcoin
Discussion
Your partner
Your mission
Your health
Your faith
#bitcoin
Life priorities:
1. Faith
2. Family
3. Health
4. Work
5. Hobby
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Be careful with #2. A husband is called to die for his wife if necessary (Ephesians 5:25), so his self-preservation can't be above his family. For this reason, I have my priorities arranged as God, then family, and lastly, self. However, to live out the servant leadership we are called to for others, you first have to rightly order yourself; in that sense, the self is higher.
Correct, and that’s the context I’m coming from.
We also cannot give from an empty cup.
So ensuring we are in the right place is critical to how we show up for our family
Also, in the business world a lot of hustle and grinders (which I’m fervently against) put their business and “others” first.
God often last
And their family gets what’s left over from the day of work and the man is a shambles inside because he isn’t taking care of himself so that he can die for his family if he needs to.
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As with everything, there is context and nuance to be applied
Not too dissimilar from my thoughts on the topic note139fprln3wg2ne63n2886ll3clulveltq0j493apfy4e9knejstwqn6hv3q
But I heard all these guys get girlfriends when it moons!
I agree but should be :
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4. Raise great kids
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1. No vaccines of any kind
Be prepared to go to war against the establishment. Lying, forging, cheating are all honorable tactics in fighting medical tyranny.
2. Trash the TV
Make your house TV-free. Only use screens out of sight of kids.
3. Teach them to read early
We used "Teach your child to read in 100 easy lessons"
4. Healthy whole foods
Let them cook and shop at the farmers market with you. Cooking is part of homeschooling.
5. Hybrid homeschool
Best model for us. At home we had structured 8a-2p day but within that was cooking, sports, and massive amount of board game play.
6. Board games
Most important learning tool of all. Math, risk, engine building, game theory, creativity, competition are all learned via games.
7. No phone until 12yo
No social media ever, no screens in the bedroom, ever. They do their screen homework in the kitchen.
8. Adjust relationship as they mature
First be a strong leader that is consistent, firm and loving. Morph into a guide that allows kids to make mistakes. Lastly, become a resource when they need advice or help.
9. Incentivize self investment
No social media is an agreement. In exchange they get $50k/year from 18 to 22. They can use it for college, investing or starting a business. They decide to use social? Why should you invest in them if they won't invest in themselves?
10. Constantly critique your parenting and work to be better.
A good guide post is: Be your child’s best friend when they are 30, not when they are 10.
What do you classify as social Media? Without YouTube I would not have found Bitcoin or been as insprired to take care of my health and fitness. But it also took away many hours that I could have used to learn important skills.
We let our kids use YouTube on a computer in the kitchen but not on their phones as teenagers. Agree it's a tough one because there is so much valuable info there.
Imsta, tiktok, Snapchat etc all totally out. Our oldest said not having Snapchat would ruin her life but lo and behold she's in college now on a full academic scholarship with lots of friends and no prescriptions.
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When you 6.15
I agree, in that exact order. 🫡
I pray everyday for my children to find a good partner in life.
Marry someone who makes you wanting to be a better person each day. ♥️
4. When you stop trusting the government
Facts. Love it.
Still working on 1
I would add a fourth.
4. If, when, and how many children you have
4. When you decide to self custody the Bitcoin!
I would add
1) when do u go deep within yourself and find out u are pure consciousness and realize that true intelligence is knowing how to love.
And somewhere in there I'd say there's a fourth decision: When you decide to change your status signaling from things like beauty, power, and material achievement, to things like integrity, competence, and helpfulness.
Almost everyone is geared toward signaling. As social creatures we're deeply wired to signal value to others.
But there's a lot of flexibility in how we signal that.
-We can signal it with shallower things like beauty, lambos, hierarchical dominance, etc. The details will vary between men and women but they have a similar short time preference that few old people on their deathbed wished they had focused more on.
-Or we can signal it with deeper things like integrity, honesty, helpfulness, friendliness, generosity, providing unique thoughts, or providing wisdom. The details will vary based on profession and skillset but they also have a similar long time preference that most old people on their deathbed wished they had focused more on.
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These decisions can even save your life
Have to marry virgin 12 yo White girl who is a fervent believer in patriarchal marriage and hates blacks.
Muh man, there's a reason most men went along with having that banned.
Only 12 y o boys have the patience for 12 y o girls. Facts. I know a few of 'em!
If you like the young look, get yoself a Cambodian girl of age of majority. Preferably with limited English, so she can't annoy you too much
Cambodiam? But I cannot betray my race. I must breed with a White female.
Women can ALWAYS annoy men, no matter what.
That's true. Gotta legalize butt spanking is what I say.
"Come here you little....💢💢"
those mud women are ugly. i don't care that they all look 12.
i wouldn't even fuck a white girl from a working class family let alone a non-white girl from Turd World.
i don't want a 30 year old APE that happens to look 12 - i want an actual 12 year old girl whose parents are upper middle class or better and are paying through the nose to have her in 3 different teams such as Swimming, Track and Volleyball for example.
Nah, working class White girls can be majestic.
Also, some of these "brown" mongoloids from Cambodia can bet beautiful.
My objection is out of principles.
it's not about beauty but class.
it is very hard to have class if you were born poor.
i don't want to be embarrassed by a lower class woman.
People talk about how Asian women are beautiful even though they look like subhumans caked with fakeup.
it depends - Asia is big. Both Jisoo and Tiger Woods are "Asian"
Jisoo is Korean tho. I don't get it. Tiger woods is a half breed. He's a good golfer tho.
tiger is 1/2 Asian and only 1/8 African. the rest is white and native American. he is more Asian than he is anything else ( 50% Thai / 50% Chinese ).
Thai people can be dark.
His color is probably as much from his Thai side as from his African side
Kamala Harris is also pretending to be black but she is Asian ( Indian )
Many high performing blacks it seems are actually Asian and only pretending to be African so we can apologize to them for slavery all the time ...
the media always referred to Tiger as black because they want to make it seem like Blacks are capable of doing white things ( like Golf )
he's still Asian ...
Life partner is probably the most important…
I agree but there is one more missing which is crazy important
When you realize the most important thing money can buy is freedom, not stuff.
No one on their dead bed wishes they worked more or made more money they all regret not spending time with family or hobbies etc...
Nothing is more powerful in life than this realisation 👨👩👦👦
4 don’t use free, you are the product. If you do, understand incentive structures #nostr
The beauty of not getting married is that you can focus more time on your health and acquiring Bitcoin.
What about purchasing your first firearm?
One decision can shape your life.
Do you want to be an independent thinker?
no one, never and never
Agreed
Couldn’t agree more 🤛
exactly
The third one is the only one that will get devastatingly more difficult with time. Prioritize appropriately.
Choose wisely! Especially that last one—Bitcoin's the real deal, not just a trend. 💎🚀
4. When you start thinking for yourself instead of letting the media think for you.
One could argue this is part of point number 2 😉 would fall under mental health. No longer will the media brain wash us 💪..
Possibly not in that order 👀
Based. #1 may cost you dearly.
Partially true.
A degen speak "His" words, and we must all listen🙏🏻. Nah, fuck that man.
Number 1) I've never been married and never wish to be. My happiness, doesn't require the partnership of another.
2). Yes, you should of course prioritise your health. Have I? No, no I've not. I've taken loads of drugs and drank heavily. I've also trained heavily. Both my Maternal grandparents smoked like troopers and drank like fish. They were 82 and 83 respectively when they passed away. So🤔, do what ever the fuck you want. I might die tomorrow, I might have 30 years left.
Finally.
3). Yes, stack sats. I do, and have done for some time. I'll also sell them too😳. Yes, for FIAT😳😳, because that's what makes the fucking world go round.
God speed🫡.