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oh, the punch or breaking into my house is certainly their responsibility, no excuses or justification can take that away.

what is blame to you? maybe what you call blame I'm calling responsibility.

I would love that! ❤️ thank you very much! if you want you can also share with me why you're considering not posting.

overcoming seems to me a reaction to something you lived and you don't want to live again.

you experienced fear of speaking freely and then you start talking ignoring your fear. like putting something under the rug and then walking on top of it as it had disappeared.

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what I've been experiencing is that all we need is to feel the fear, all the emotions that come for us to feel - while doing things. when we feel all the fear of talking we can see that maybe we're not really talking freely, but to please an audience, to be seeing as smart, or something. if we feel all we need to feel we can surprise ourselves with what we're saying, we can let the ego go and say things that won't be our words, but a way for others to experience something for themselves. - and I guess we could call that overcoming, but I think we most commonly say that when we are still attached to the past.

I'd love to listen to your thoughts

everything you eventually figure out as it wasn't what you needed to do is a way to be deeply in touch with your intuition. so remorse makes you see there was something you were not seeing, but now you can. it can be just a reminder of who you are.

you can be angry and try to blame others as a reaction to that, but when you see it, when you feel the anger - that maybe was there before you made that choice but you didn't allow yourself to feel - and you face the remorse, you can look at the things you were not seeing before and let the remorse go, cause it's no longer needed and you'll be closest to you.

if you want to, try to see, in a situation that you felt remorse, if there's something you were trying not to feel. and then just let the feeling appear and open up to just feel it.

please tell me if something bothers you here.

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about being stupid: maybe you're trying to be smart. I see myself in this position a lot - writing this comment is being a struggle because of that. but that's an ego search. that's ok not to know something and to make mistakes on things you clearly know how to handle. but that feeling of being stupid maybe shows us that life's wisdom is available for us, we can just open our eyes to that.

haha did you feel any remorse doing that?

because of your comment on the wrong note, other people saw my post and I felt heard. :)

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but about your real answer, why do you think you shouldn't feel remorse?

when I was a child I used to put a mattress in the middle of my mom's living room, put a CD to play and started to discover some positions my body could handle. I had never heard of yoga that time. later my mother took me to Olympic gymnastics classes and it was nice, but I left after two years, I guess. but handstand was something that I always felt like doing after that.

later, I took Kundalini yoga classes when I was preparing for the conception of my kids, in 2017. two years ago I started circus classes and it was very nice, I practiced handstand a little bit, but I wish I had practiced so much more. they had classes just for that, but I couldn't make it. I took only a few months of classes and I also left.

last year I had like 4 yoga classes, of vinyasa flow - and that was something that really touched me, but that was all.

I don't really know when or why but handstand is something I feel like doing so often, but I never do. I always supress that. when I read your proposal I thought it could be the perfect excuse for me to practice.

I'm sorry I wrote so much. if it bothers you please let me know.

a bird hatching from the egg

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it's hard cause the ego gets in the way. but thanks for offering me this. this inspired me to write some other things on paper in my language. ♥️

it is the possibility to make our own choices.

but to make our own choices we must know who we are.

and to know who we are we must aware of our illusions.

being aware of our illusions takes us to a place of infinite possibilities.

starting from this space we are aware of life.

and then our action meets life's needs.

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thank you for inspiring me to investigate this within myself

that makes sense to me, but if you're not too tired to talk about it, I'll come with more thoughts.

it seems to me that you're talking about two different things. one of them is the value of beauty, that is present in every single thing and can't be less or more, it's just there unconditionally. and the other thing is related to how it looks individually and you can measure accordingly to some definitions made previously. is that so?

It seems to me that there are two different things here. one of them concerns action: when someone acts, the principles that govern life are already available, but the actions need to be defined and created by the individual who is relating to something or someone. a value can be the basis for many different actions.

The principles, or values, are universal, but it is not through conceptual elaboration that we will come into contact with them. beauty may be a value, but we can not say what beauty is unless the act of saying becomes beauty itself. conceptualizing an universal principle puts us in the same place as those who believe they define their own principles.