The most dangerous inheritance we can leave our sons isnāt debt or instability. Itās obsolete mental frameworks.
Most fathers are still operating from playbooks written in an era of industrial careers, geographic stability, and clear hierarchies. Meanwhile, their boys are entering a fluid world of remote work, AI disruption, and social structures in constant flux.
Weāre teaching them to climb ladders that no longer exist while ignoring the mountains theyāll actually need to scale. The question isnāt whether the world is changing, itās whether weāre brave enough to admit our maps are outdated and start drawing new ones alongside our sons.
Latest vlog dives into this ā
https://primal.net/e/nevent1qqs8uy0hct57nfzfr5rfh00pjw285s4reftd850gx0x64gy9994v4ug37xhav
Man why are you sending me to primal?
Link to the event directly.
I think your thoughts & feelings are downstream of your beliefs, definitions & agreements.
There is no in built meaning to anything that arises in our reality. It's our definitions & beliefs that shape their meaning. We have full control over how we perceive events but not through pure force of our mind, it's by shaping & crafting our beliefs & definitions.
A big one I've found helpful was accepting responsibilty for everything that arises. I chose this event, this expression, at a higher level, why? What insight does this show me? What can I learn from this? I don't like how this feels, what do I still believe that is causing me this pain?
My aim was never to become a stoic, it was to illuminate my suffering. Pain is inevitable but suffering is a choice. It's resistance to what is. It's ultimately my beliefs & definitions that cause the resistance. Once I started shifting my beliefs, everything else started shifting.
Ouch - what a pain in the butt
Jeff weighs in on the Knots vs Core debate.
https://blossom.primal.net/358193053204335b336c88c281311e19e5d860b144065a73e017114a44b78dfc.mp4
From episode 166:
Except they didn't split it off.
They took an existing fork & sold it as a solution to Core's arrogance.
It became popular because Core Devs were being dickheads & many of us missed the blocksize wars.
It's says it's ended within Amethyst.
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Youāre already being abused by the financial system ā whether you realise it or not.
Even if youāre a CEO or investor, youāre not exempt. Fiat money is designed to debase you.
You canāt save value in a system that destroys it by design.
Neal Flesherās book pulls back the curtain on the quiet slavery weāve normalised. This isnāt freedom. It is managed decline.
If youāre not questioning the system, youāre accepting it.
#FiatIsTheProblem #NealFlesher #SoundMoney #HonestMoneyShow #BreakTheSystem #MonetaryTruth #DecentraliseEverything
https://video.nostr.build/18fbf2db512e66e47874ad3bb12c553dd8fe1399a6f695c109460b3c2185d341.mp4
Dude has some serious hair game going on.
The Fourth Tuningā¦
Iāve been chewing on this ever since your comment. At first, I meant āFourth Turningāābecause yeah, I read that damn Neil Howe book. But what really stuck with me was your line about the tuning fork nostr:npub1n47jznzclhr8kzyyv6dtl4cqeltuzuajngx93m3flw2sdw9kfmaqjh8w74 . It got me thinking, maybe the world itself is the tuning fork. Always vibrating, always shifting pitch.
And there it was. Like that spiral Bitcoin graph, or some inscrutable power law curve. No one really knows whatās happening, or whatās about to happen, or what already did. Howe talks about turnings like seasons, predictable. Trump Pump, Paper Bitcoin Summer, Uptober & Valhalla.
But weāre the wildcards.
The vibration. Thatās the part thatās consistent. If you can catch the frequency, if you can vibe with someone on nostr, a fellow parent at the playground, whatever, wherever, youāre already tuned in. Thatās the signal beneath the noise. #nostr #intothevoid
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It's cycles & fractals
Frequency within frequency
Always trying to find balance
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https://blossom.primal.net/bf3883e7341f884c41298de0448f9b411572ba9e5895bfe9bc8b8207789d10c9.mp4
"Wabi-sabi : the Japanese philosophy that finds beauty in imperfection, impermanence, and the handmade. In a world obsessed with perfection, weāre slowly remembering what truly moves us ā the uneven glaze of a handmade bowl, the grain of natural wood, the imperfect yet irreplaceable details of the human touch. Itās not flawlessness that makes us beautiful ā itās our cracks, our quirks, our humanity. āWhat makes us fall in love isnāt perfection. Itās the person who accepts our imperfections - and who we want to accept in return.ā Speaker: Simon Sinek, Steven Bartlett This is clipped from The Diary of a CEO podcast. The guest is Simon Sinek interviews by Steven Bartlett! "
#ThingsIFindAndShare
Recommend looking deeper into Simon Sinek.
He's a cool guy.
Made a tonne of cash from selling CDs on the Internet via CD Baby.
I usually figure that you can't have to much bechamel but forget how much milk it requires š
Are you still in WA?
Coming over to the east coast?
I usually make mine a tad thicker but that's because I eyeball the butter & flour & then use up all the milk š
Yup.
So 80% of weight loss for most people is just not eating & drinking the calories that they would otherwise. Day in, day out over a long period of time.
Passive action.
Very similar to getting ahead with Bitcoin. You've got to create a cash surplus (ie save) & you've got to do it consistently over time. Yes you can hustle to earn more but most people just need to stop wasting what they do get paid. You save this surplus in bitcoin consistently over time & eventually it starts accruing more value than your labour can.
Passive action is hard AF though.
People always want to fiddle & try to move into active action. They'll go for a 5 KM run to burn off more calories & then eat that half tub of icecream in the freezer. Their mind (ego) starts bargaining with them.
Just like the dudes that sell their bitcoin stack & buy MSTR, thinking they'll later be able to convert it back for more bitcoin.
Consistency always trumps intensity.
I think the push back is good.
I think the debate is good.
I think we need a new fork.
I hate the approach that Core has taken (disregarding "dumb" users) & I think trusting Luke is retarded. The guy can't even maintain exclusive access to his keys.
I don't know what I'm going to do when we eventually need to fork.
I'm trying to say that you can't out exercise a bad diet.
You're better off not eating that slice of pizza than trying to burn it off later.
Put the fork down š
Yes but why are you exercising?
For cardio vascular resilience or to lose that spare tyre?
If it's to lose your spare tyre, you're better off doing a few more fork downs than another 5000 steps..
It's 1 error code man!
Not even the auto electrician could clear it after spending 4 hours on it.
Macadamia oil also works but it's more expensive than the liquid coconut oil.
Nostr Vlog 25.7 āEconomics 101ā
https://blossom.primal.net/f6531fefa5468a701246281c8fea87cf4d6a6512bb2da2d39fd442812d96b64b.mov
I think it's an and not an or. I don't think fiat suddenly dies but Bitcoin will exist beside it as fiat repeatedly crashes further in value.
Bitcoin is available for anyone when they're ready. Sadly I don't think everyone will choose it.
I loved this one man. So much of it resonated with me & it fills me with joy to hear you express it.
So much of our conditioning has been in getting us to focus on the physical & to deny the significance or existence of the nonphysical.

It's such a trip when you think about it. 30 mins work + a couple of years of care & you have a plant that makes free food for you. From that plant you can multiply it many times over.
I'm done buying avocado plants. Ironically the most recent 2-3 I've bought are actually doing quite well. The other 5 have I've bought, died slowly over a decade. I've a feeling my new ones (yet to sprout) will quickly overtake them in size. It'll be interesting to watch.
As a Bitcoiner I find real value in taking seeds & cuttings to propogate new plants at very little cost. It feels very open source to me.
Low time preference is a must. All it takes is a seed, some work & linear time. It kind of applies to most things in life. You've gotta trust the process & plant lots of seeds.
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A long read, but the author (a brother of mine) has taken much time to condense his thoughts.
It's also worth a small fraction of your time.
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It's not good for you dude.
I also started lifting again after a 2 year break.
Yes life is much more enjoyable.
I like the bench grinder
The worst nostr vlog continues. Enjoy!
https://blossom.primal.net/67684e2bd73c2d35ce799fd61d3f91b0477b1ec7a3e35506c64dc45f9a728086.mov
Take nothing personally & express your most authentic self.
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https://blossom.primal.net/bcdcba06bb57933c573b6289732f5232dbd8a6dd9b1ddc7a98682cefefc81233.mov
Well articulated sir.
We don't need permission.
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Yeah I'm not seeing it.
I probably haven't accessed the feature that requires it. š¤·

What was the revised guidance?
It finally sold leaving my brother in law and my sister with a 50k gain over 8 years. From that the commission of the real estate agent is deducted. Plus taxes plus "speculation tax" - leaving each one with 9k. He still owns 0 sats...
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It's hard seeing when it's people that you care about.
Uf š #foodstr š„©š„
https://blossom.primal.net/c749efce9591aad6b723950f2f2130e45365a82191c48cc2fbe8f84d4b967c48.mp4
Old mate needs a bigger knife š¤£
Is that chimichurri that he's putting in the meat?
Not at these prices.
Give it another epoch though...
Wait - you're in Texas now?
Living the dream girl!
Me either & not until 2020.
I live much more humbly than I did back then. I'm more grateful & less needy.









