Its alright to tell me what you think about me, i wont try to argue or hold it against you

Because you are? Try to run and you'll find out that you're a bunny in a foxhole.

11%! That's one strong beer right there

It's weird to me that we have this common narrative that therapists just encourage people to be "victims" and blame everyone else and do nothing. In my experience that is wildly inaccurate.

A good therapist calls you on your shit. You can't do therapy without taking a good long look in the mirror.

We ate 😍

The dude that was lecturing me on men and women last night told some stories about his grandfather beating his father, and his father beating him. This quote is all I could think about 😢

I had this men I was in love and we were trauma bond with each other. We had common friends that new he was after other women, and from time to time would visit them with a new one, while we were together. They kept it a secret until I disconnected from him.

I lost all trust and respect from this people. Even dough I can understand they probably did not want to hurt me, they did hurt me by keeping the truth from me. I had suspicious but not proofs. They withhold truth from me and in the end, hurt me twice,

With his behaviour and theirs. I felt betrayed twice,

Of course! But humans usually don't like to be confronted. Let's be honest, we don't like to be called out lol. But, if we are honest, we acknowledge and take accountability.

I rather a truth that hurts than a lie or withholding. The person that does this to me I lose respect and trust.

GM! Today is the day I overdose on coffee #wolp #wolf #wolfstr #pow #anime #animestr

This is beautiful 💜

So this yesterday at the shop. Marketing team at M&S are on it.

Every. F#$%%^. Time.

Sometimes I gotta go look in the mirror and check to see if “please lecture me about masculinity” is tattooed on my forehead. Whenever one of these crypto bros spots me it’s like they just can’t help themselves.

I was out on a date with my husband last night. We were just chilling on the patio of some funky bar in San Juan when a pack of dudes walks in and shares the patio table with us. They looked familiar, after a few min we sorted out that we’ve met them before at one of the local crypto events.

I never start these conversations. “masculinity” and “femininity” are not a part of my day to day vocabulary. Not one time ever have I started this conversation. But I’ve done it so many damn times I can spot it a mile away and map out the whole thing.

The beginning of the convo has lots of lovely words and includes things like “women are amazing”, “men are strong”, “men and women are not the same”, “I love to see a traditional family”, etc.

The middle of the convo starts to get dark and includes things like “men are inherently violent”, “women are just complex and emotional creatures”, “men should be men and women should be women”, “men are the natural leaders”, “the world is inherently violent and hierarchical”, etc. etc.

The end of the conversation is really the part that they love and can’t wait to get to. Sometimes I think they might nut in their pants if we make it all the way to this part. “men should be the decision makers”, “women will naturally submit to a dominant man, it’s just nature”, “women don’t really want to make decisions, it’s too stressful for them”, “the world should be led by men”, “we lost our way when women got brain washed into thinking they should be like men”… “repeal the 19th!”

Well yesterday it started with one dude wanting to talk about parenting. “you have daughters?” And he wanted to tell me all about his daughters, but I can see it coming a mile away. He wasn’t talking with me, he was talking at me. He was just loving the opening to start lecturing me about women’s nature. I tried to wrap it up and change the topic, but that was never going to work.

It started at the beginning of the convo with lovely things like “I love my daughters” and then we got to the dark middle “men are inherently violent”, “the world is run by violence.” I tried to diplomatically disagree and told him that I have a higher view of men, and we get to chose what we lean into, etc. But of course he then started into the ugly end of the convo with him running through scenarios trying to demonstrate why violence rules the world, and the part he was really waiting for… “that’s the hard truth. I can tell you about the hard truth of women too!”

And nope, nope, nopidy nope. I just got up and left.

Every. F#$%%^. Time.

morning #nostr

Send good energy I'll be able to get my medicine and the things I need after being abandoned by everyone for speaking my truth.

Woah. That is so detailed. Well done.

It doesn't always work well, but when it does, it's really cool.

“I know how to party.”

#introvert

Time and place bro

So sharp. And they're grabby, I always had scratches I didn't feel until I showered and the soap got in them 😂

A shower is the best

#pow #wolf #wolfstr #animestr #disgustinghoomanears #dontkillmepls

A strong connection is revealed by the level of surrender 🫠🔥🚀

This reminds me of this part of the song I was listening to today

What if I posted a list of all the worst traits of men in a blanket statement followed by an impossible list of expectations they should live up to?

I would get sooooo much shit for that😂

🤣 this is true!

It really works out well for me that super long hair is considered luxurious and sexy because do you know what you need to do to achieve super long hair? Nothing. Absolutely nothing. I mean I wash it and brush it, but other than that I just ignore it... and ta-da 🪄 luxurious long hair.

This was my latest attempt at Bitchat two days ago 😂 not appealing

I'm sure it is.

It's always best to do, whatever brings you closer to what you desire.

Didn't know, if you'd catch the reference.

Oddly young lad you seek to be a mythical creature that takes the protagonist on an adventure of mystifying proportions.

I'm too old for this shit, Riggs

Morning #Nostr.

I have to figure out how to rehome these kittens, get the fucking fridge to stop beeping even though it's closed, some housework, get my meds and take a grocery run all without a vehicle and no help!~

Wish me luck or whatever you wanna wish me.

Any mysterious stranger out there want to buy a girl a beer on her birthday?

Life has a quiet way of placing us in the right spot at the right time more often than we notice. Most of these moments aren’t grand or dramatic - they’re small. Simple alignments that guide us forward. A random smile, a short delay, a meeting that feels like chance.

When we slow down and give thanks for these little things, we begin to see how much they actually matter. Gratitude turns small coincidences into meaningful reminders that life is gently working with us, not against us.

Good night 💤 friends! #nostr #psychology

"Stay on the floor until I decide you're relevant again."

- Me, in a different life -