I could stand to lose some weight. I can always stand to lose some weight, but now, also.

I look like a real computer nerd, now.

Like I'm wearing a sign around my neck:

THIS PERSON SPENDS 16 HOURS PER DAY TYPING, HARDLY SLEEPS, NEVER TAKES BREAKS, WORKS OUT MONTHLY, HAS NO HOBBIES, EATS WHATEVER.

People keep trying to give me complicated nutrition tips and workout plans, and I'm like...

I should maybe start small. Like, getting at least 7 hours of sleep. Every night. No exceptions. No excuses. No guilt.

And then waking up 6 am and going for a walk.

That's it. That's the Grand Plan.

Nearly hopeless.

7 hours of sleep and fresh air sound like an impossible feat.

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Have you heard of the carnivore diet? Give it a try.

Instead of sleep and physical movement?

Yes.. I am not saying to eat more bacon. I am saying only eat bacon.

Weight loss will happen regardless of the amount of meat you eat. Inflammation will go down. Gut will disappear.

Walking / physical activities might be more enjoyable. You will be more comfortable in the way you look and feel and do it more often. I won't help with sleep unfortunately.

walk a mile with hubby in the evenings ^^

That looks like this and never ends in a walk.

lol

try this XD

That's the best plan. Sleep and walking fix many things.

this ^.^

1) Eat as close to nature as possible

2) Be only slightly more active than previous day, a little extra push

Sorry to pile on but this what I try to do as I like simplicity behind it.

I actually eat really well, but I don't do enough physical exercize and the exhaustion from the lack of sleep makes me constantly think about food. I eat to stay awake, rather than because I'm hungry.

Try keeping in mind to be slightly more active everyday , maybe a smart watch to help

I actually go in walks to not look at a screen for 5 minutes. Smart watches are like a new form of torture, to me. Now, you have to take the screen EVERYWHERE.

tbh. It’s a tiny screen that you can’t do anything on except be notified that you can disable, see date/time and health and activity monitoring.

With help of a smart watch I’ve lost 35kg, learned to swim now doing 25 laps per pool visit.

It took a years and obviously you have to want to more than anything so it’s not just the watch, it’s just a tool

If I can do it. Any one can do it. I’m not special but I am a hard headed asshole

I lost 40 kgs after the second pregnancy. Jogging every day and Weight Watchers, mostly.

Nice. So you absolutely know you got that willpower. Bring back a little bit of that energy back

I've been using that energy to work 2 full-time software jobs, is the thing. I'm all tapped out, but I'm slowly getting desperate for the sensation of walking around and waking up not tired.

The more energy you use over time that energy comes back 2 fold.

Less at the desk, out and walking more & find that balance.

I can tell you 💯 know how and don’t need anyone to tell you anything about it

I just need to do it, yeah. No idea, if I can.

The lack of sleep and free time is probably why I feel like a poor person. I have a high income, but no fun or luxury or ability to enjoy the fruits of my labors. Just more and more labor.

That’s why I’ve said ..

Wealth is doing wtf I want to do when I want to and not having to worry about bills!

I’d say start with small habits, no cold turkey stuff.

Slowly add friction for habits you want to break, and remove friction for habits you want to keep, build, or improve. E.g. simply rearranging app icons on your screen leads to less usage.

We make thousands of choices in a day, try to make as many as you can consciously, even if silly. Reflect on some of those choices the next day.

Well, commuting once per week has forced me to notice that I am getting too wide for the seats on the train and that I'm slow and sort of lumbering, when I walk to the station.

I also eat a lot less, when I'm out of the house, which is nice.

I'm a real workhorse, now, and look it.

I will give you probably the most controversial advice. In order to sleep well, you need to host unhappiness in yourself.

I wasn't able to sleep a lot in my younger years. I was a pretty optimist person and also pretty curious. I was always doing something, in the middle of all problems of the world, but always optimist. I tried every advice that people gave me but nothing worked, it was like no one understood what was happening in my head.

My theory is that animals get pretty stressed and unhappy in the middle of the jungle fighting each other to death. Therefore, they need to "dream", not just recover. Maybe the fact that humans today enjoy things that no animal could ever enjoy puts inconveniences in our biological and psychological patterns

The way I do this process is getting pretty unhappy 2 hours before sleep

Oh, I like that idea, but I actually fall asleep instantly, and then sleep like a rock until the alarm goes off or 8 hours have passed, whichever comes first.

I just don't go to sleep because I want to stay awake and work. And then I get up early and work some more.

i'm the same, i've kinda broken myself this last few days though with the amount of work carrying heavy stuff around and travelling up and down insanely steep terrain on a 250W ebike. still tomorrow i gotta do a 40km ride on a non-powered bike on not a hell of a lot less crazy terrain. but then i'm done. ahh. and then i can get started on my new job. 😁

seeing the cat bowl half empty of his afternoon meal already is all the reward i need, oh, and looking at that giant rock over to the east of me.

yeah, dreaming is very important, it is required for long term retention of learning. the other part of the sleep cycle, delta wave deep, unconscious sleep, is required for the immune system and the repair of tissue. a lot of things disrupt this, especially light, and secondary, noise. you look at most housing anywhere and it doesn't seem like these concerns are addressed at all, at all. street lights shining straight in windows that aren't adequately covered, constant noise of traffic, and idiots sitting at their TVs until 11 at night watching bullshit, that means anyone else who wants to sleep proper 10-4am natural sleep cycle, is disrupted by noise, and probably light as well.

None of that bothers me, at all. If anything, I struggle to not fall asleep while driving, or during boring meetings.

I could sleep around the clock, really. Always could.

i can't. i can only attribute my slow aging to genetics that make my deep sleep more effective. there is forms of yoga where they induce delta wave sleep at will and they can literally function on like 15 minutes a day, at normal levels.

i've never got around to learning how to do that. i'd love to even just lower my sleep requirement to like 4h a day. i think another part of it may have to do with digestion and diet as well. eggs and pork, are notable sources of phenylalanine and tyrosine, and eggs are my favourite. omg, i have eggs today, not factory ones also. i think that my low sleep requirement comes mainly from eggs, to be honest. i'm so stoked i got eggs again. damn. i gotta go cook some eggs. shit.

the fly in the ointment is i have some food-additive induced swelling in my bottom right molar tho, was kinda hard to eat it, but ok, i can eat more tomorrow too. it's a mission to get them though, about 7km but totally worth it, gonna do it every week at least. i'll have some beef tomorrow afternoon too, and my tallow, i forgot my damn tallow in the fridge.

Of all the habits, changes and improvements i have accumulated over the last 6-7 years none of them was as powerful as changing from always going to bed between 22:00 and 22:30 and get up between 6:00 and 6:30.

Probably more beneficial than all the other things combined.

Yes i did go to bed later like a handful of times a year because not everything adapts to my strict schedule but i always pay the price the next day.

I always immediately start losing weight and feeling better, when I get enough sleep. I find it really difficult to maintain, for more than a couple of weeks, tho.

Easily doable. In bed by 9 with a book, reading sends me off within 20 minutes. Fresh fruit and yoghurt for breakfast. Walk at lunchtime 30 mins to break the day up, a jog if you feel like it.

That sounds like a vacation.

It’s my life, and it could be yours, too

Lead me not into temptation.