You have over 40k followers, lots of people with big npubs actively promote your posts and you're on the follow-recommendation/onboarding lists.
Hardly any one on here has a similar experience and nothing they can do will ever change that. It's the hopelessness, that causes them to leave. They can't see their follower numbers steadily increase with effort and interaction.
I've been hovering around 6k, for over a year, and most of those npubs are dormant or bots. My notes get 5 views, sometimes, and 4 of those are my alts. π

I understand the frustration.
But I didn't plant seeds for numbers β I planted to remain.
Nostr gave me little at first, but it never pretended.
Maybe thatβs what makes it rare.
You were just really early and made some friends in high places. The newcomers can't be early and they have no friends.
There needs to be some other mechanism for growing your follows, other than nepotism and Just Be Me.
Maybe being "early" helps.
But staying matters more.
Over time, presence becomes resonance.
Resonance _with whom_ ?
Who is being onboarded? All of the 14372 people who are here and active, have already had the opportunity to find me and follow me, and most didn't do it and won't do it.
It would have to be new people, and there are no new people.
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according to nostr.band my follow count is now up to 1970. last time i checked about 6 months ago it was around 800. so growth is happening for me. i'm enjoying my interactions with people more too.
i consider it to be partly due to my character improving and partly due to improvements in the clients. and the steady drip of friendships growing.
IT'S BECAUSE I CONSTANTLY REPOST YOU AND PROMOTE YOUR STUFF. I HAVE BEEN BURNING MY WOT AT WARP SPEED TRYING TO KEEP YOUR NPUB ALIVE.
THANK YOU FOR NOT NOTICING. ANYTIME.
FFS.
lol, i didn't ask for it, i'm not paying for it, maybe you need to stoppit
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So the fifth view is mine? I feel somehow doxed now π
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