I will follow back any young fathers on nostr. Regardless of ideological or political differences.
We have to have each others backs gentlemen.
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College age kids are not young fathers, oh wait you follow me already 🫡 Agree about having others backs. If we can’t do that, we’ve learned/shared nothing.
Dad's are the best
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Love this! I’m no longer a young father…I’ve raised 3 great kids (22 son, 19 daughter, 14 daughter, 1 son awaiting me in Heaven). I whole heartedly agree that we need to listen to each other. We just have to.
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Sorry to hear about your one son. But as you know he's in a better place now. Still I can't imagine the pain. 🫂
Thanks SO MUCH! He was the twin of my 22 year old son…so I feel like I always have a part of him with me. They were born way too early (24 weeks gestation…of 40), so my son that lived is an ACTUAL walking/talking miracle. Outside of my wife, he’s my best friend. What an experience that was…but to your point…I’ll see him one day, and what a reunion that will be.
But until then, I just want to lend whatever experience or wisdom I’ve gained to others who are in the fire. Help these youngsters realize things won’t always be how they are in this moment, and the secret is to lean on each other and KEEP TALKING.
Anyways, thanks much for your words. 🙏🏻
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Have my husband nostr:nprofile1qqsd7dva9jdz5ckq69egcc4ucp2xd24mgzf85vs6wagty2qqpfmkepqpzamhxue69uhhwmm59eeksctkd9hxwtntd9mkjtcppemhxue69uhkummn9ekx7mp0qywhwumn8ghj7mn0wd68ytnzd96xxmmfdejhytnnda3kjctv9uf5ug8t. He's rather silent, but based dad material.
Joining you early next year🫡🧡
here ✅
3 and 1 year old. 🤘🏼
Thank you for the follow. I love your vlog and content, and agree we dads got to have each other's back in this day and age.
Absolutely brother
I’m three months in , and we will carry the torches brother
We’ve been trying for the last 8 months. It hit me like a freight train… I aspire to be a father more than anything in life.
It will happen for you! Keep going
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I’m a 45 year old father with young boys, my second child only exists because we felt secure in our future thanks to Bitcoin.
The events of the last week have only steeled my resolve to not let the fuckers win. Onward
Two in college and one in elementary. Not so young anymore, but I’ll never stop living my life exclusively for the betterment of their’s.
9 yo boy and educating him on good values. We need them strong and sane to pass by this fourth turning pothole
old dads are also here to support you guys.
Few and far between these days
Can someone make a Nostr Group along the lines of “Fathers on Nostr”?
Two young ones here, with a third on the way. Thanks for your words on 9/11
I'm not a "young" father, but I do have younger kids. They changed my life for the better in a significant way.
Dad of 2 teen boys, not always easy but my pride and joy.
Sadly not young at 46 but have two great kids 14 and 10!
I’m not young, but I am a father 🫂🫡
My son is currently 10.
We're building in the fourth turning so they can prosper in the coming first turning.
That’s such a good age.
father for 13 weeks but in my 30s … (in my opinion not young)
Father of 4 Bitcoin kids, I zap them for chores :)
52. Boys 9 and 6.
📖 Malachi 4:5–6 (ESV)
“Behold, I will send you Elijah the prophet before the great and awesome day of the Lord comes.
And he will turn the hearts of fathers to their children, and the hearts of children to their fathers,
lest I come and strike the land with a decree of utter destruction.”
Love the reaction this has gotten. My two have always been all the motivation I’ve needed.
I am not young by any measurement, but have worked closely with our younger generations.
Not young, but it's been a hell of a ride with three boys.
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✋ 31 y/o father of 3
I wouldn’t consider myself young but father of 4 nonetheless. With any luck I’ll be able to help and guide as a grandpa someday.
Young father or young child? I’m 45 recently blessed with my 4th baby <1mo ago
Enough kids for a minivan and my wife and I drive them all to church every sunday!
Why relegated to young fathers, how about fathers of 20 plus year olds?
Also welcome to
Got your back fellow fathers
4 (3 boys) ranging from 2 months to 12 years. Gotta go. I’m in the middle of changing the final one’s diaper.
I have proof of diaper. Just fyi.
I've always thought young fathers have a bigger responsibility in raising their children.
Those of us with grown kids should be the ones shouldering this burden. I just don't know how.
By living well and not allowing evil to go unchecked
🫡 thank you
I didn’t even watch Charlie’s content other than short clips I would come across. It’s hit me hard as I have kids exactly the same age as his.
I lost my father as a child and it’s left a hole in me. 25 years later it’s the same pain.
Unity, this is the way.
As a father and primary bread winner, I feel the burden of providing for my family. It used to be easy, the destabilizing economy has made it hard. I can see that Bitcoin is the answer, my wife does not. I respect her wishes with our joint finances, but I stack sats with my personal savings. I just hope it will be enough to carry us through the coming hard times.
I'm not young but have young kids. Wife young tho
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The video of Charlie's Daughter running up to him is now daily watching for me. It's devastating and motivating.
Let's take our country back, gents.
Proud dad of 3 feral children!! All three have none in 529’s but each have their own separate wallets. I’ve burned the boats- let’s build a better future for our children!!!
Had my first 11 weeks ago. Crazy times we’re living in. SWODL and HODL I say
I have teenagers but I’m still young at heart
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I’ve got your back, brother. For Charlie
Girl dad ✊🏻
Father of 2 girls and soon to be 3 girls
Dropped her off for her freshmen year at college just a month ago. She’s a stacker so I got one thing right.
Father of 5 here
Ages 12, 5, 3, 3, 3
You read that right
Oh dang sir. I’m 11, 8, 5, 3 and new
Yours is way harder though
💪🏼 strong men creating good times for our children!
Father of one. I'm glad you bring this up. In a way that others wouldn't understand, the murder of Kirk really felt like an attack on being dad, on just being a head of family. Me and Kirk were the same age. Really hit hard.
Proud father of two girls. They are taught to be strong, be creative, be themselves and stack sats
Fathers set the stage for their children to act on. We HAVE to make this life and world worth living. It is so ordained.
- Father of a 2 year old, new to nostr
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Love this! Time to man up and make the world a better place. I will just add one piece of advice though for everyone…you need community to make this happen over the long haul. Ideally local.
How about connecting a working LN-address, which will enable plebs to zap you freedom money?
Pureblood dad checking in.
Indeed sir
Just found out I’ve got my first on the way. I’ve got a lot to learn but know nostr is the place to get real advice to raise strong children
Two daughters here. Trying to set the example of what a man should be. I have your back, fellow Dads…
#dadstr of 4
5 kids over here. Under 12 years old.
Send snacks
My heart has been outside of my chest now for 10months. Loving and in awe every moment with my daughter.
European pleb here with 15 and 13 yr old Bitcoiner kids. Appreciate your vlogs and podcasts with Erik 🔥
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Father of 2 and a red blooded American that is feeling everything you’ve expressed in recent days. 👊🏻
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Dadstr 💜🫂🧡
I think most fathers are "radicalised" in truth and comom sense.
Father of three boys here 9, 6, 3 months.
My main worry for them is if either me or them end up in a hot war with Russia. Again. Historically it keeps happening here. From this point of view, my main gripe with a lot of right wing people from further West is that a lot of them are useful idiots when it comes to Russia.
Also, I “strongly dislike” dictators, wannabe dictators, and “strongmen”. Even if I’d otherwise align with them ideologically. Freedom comes first.
Very unlikely two nuclear powers go to kinetic war imo assuming you’re American
I’m Latvian.
Ah got it. Then I understand your concern.
Oh. Did you mean only American fathers?
No not at all
Hey, thanks!
Couldn’t respond sooner - swimming practice with the eldest, cooking dinner, then quality time with the older kids (Lego Fortnite lol), then bedtime!
Just wanted to say that it’s a really great initiative to gather young father Nostriches. I mean, we surely have at least this in common - we’re pro free speech, likely Bitcoiners, and wish the best for our kids. Namely that they can live safe and prosperous lives!
Being open to having it geographically distributed is super important too. As we just have different concerns and issues to deal with. As an example, the left/right divide is really not that important here. But it’s only because we still have the experience of living under a communist totalitarian regime still very fresh in our collective memory. So we really just don’t have too many fools advocating for it yet. We’re also still salty about how that pushed us from being one of the more prosperous and developed countries in the region to being among the poorest.
The very recent memory of being a pretty poor place also means we don’t have too many people hyper focusing on transgender bathroom policies. Boys are largely still boys and girls are largely still girls.
Similarly, having been pretty poor until quite recently (not yet super rich, but rich enough by now) also means we’re not really dealing with the consequences of decades of misguided mass migration results.
On the other hand, we do have to deal with external players who just dream to destroy the West. By making an example out of us. They want to see a politically fractured America, hopefully fighting a civil war. They want to see a divided Europe where countries can be played against each other. They want to see America and Europe at each other’s throats. That’s their wet dream. Then the world is an oyster for them.
That’s not a world I want my sons to live in. I want them to be free. And the way this needs to be done in my opinion is by saving the West. We need to reinvigorate its values and the foundation it has been built on. We need to confront the enemies willing to destroy it. Both internal and external. And not lose democracy and freedom in the process.
I think it’s a tall order, but it can be done. And the start is definitely the realization that someone who has decided to go into fatherhood with eyes wide open in this day and age is definitely not your enemy, as we definitely have more in common than what separates us. And that applies not just to the ideological spectrum in a particular country, but also across geographies.
So yeah, kudos! 👍 Now let’s go and fix everything.
Not a father yet but I intend to start a family when I can!
3 kiddos 👧👧👦
2 sons 🤍
4 kiddos 8 and under. God has blessed me immensely.
As we all should.
What about old fathers? ...although we still have one teen at home.
All fathers welcome
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I’ve got two, planning for at least one more.
Becoming a father was the best decision of my life!
I am so glad I chose to become a father and did not become one by accident, as so many around me have.
I chose this path on purpose to make the world a better place and to be accountable for my actions in front of my kids.
They are the ultimate test of one's virtues!
Good on you
Let’s build stronger families built on Bitcoin and peace all across America!
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I'm a father of a boy about to turn 2. We plan on having more.
I'm an older father.
It doesn't change.
We still want the best for our children too.
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4 and 6 yo
Good list in the comments of great nostr dads.
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First child this summer. Planning for one more and a better future for them.
My daughter is in uni preparing to tear this world up. Been a father for 20yrs 🦅
5yo boy.. making a conscious decision to say yes as much as possible when he asks me to play with him
Good advice right there.
2 of my 3
Not so young, but I have a 17, 15, and 13 year old.
This is awesome!!!
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Fathers unite.
How young do you need to be? I wouldn’t say I am young, but not an old man either!
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Good thing about ditching twitter is I’ve got some time to work through following this whole group.
Well done sir!
The future belongs to fathers with steel in their spine and purpose in their steps. I will follow back men who live on mission.
The boys are now young men.
You know it buddy. Got my two blondies with blue eyes under 5. Third might be in the cards within the next year. You have been their defacto distant uncle practically present everyday thanks to CH. Let's make fathers great again. I've been chipping away at many a beta with some great results. It starts with being the example to emulate. We got this brother!
My kids are prolly as old as you but I am still young at at heart 😜 .. will that work ?.
Of course!
We’re out here perpetuating the species and the culture. The fight will never stop. Always has been, always will be.
Father of 3 under 10 here
Let’s go! Dad of 3 kiddos here. :)
Is 46 years old still a “young” father?
Planning on having three God willing. Looking forward to joining the ranks one day 💪🏻
Any young father’s need some middle aged parenting wisdom…I got your back. 19, 16 and 10….its been a wild ride.
Give me some advice.
You and your spouse are a team. You’re either playing man or zone but never play against one another or those little fuckers will eat you alive!
Every phase of childhood brings challenges and rewards as a parent. Breathe and learn to enjoy the messes and chaos because one day soon you’ll be looking at the back of their head as they leave the nest….and that’s not the time to try to right any regrets you hold.
Agree with everything you said in my experience
👊 awsome thread. Feels like Dads have been away for a while…like a deployment or prolonged business trip…kids in society were left unsupervised and broke some shit…we’re back and time to fix what’s broken.
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You got a lot of follows out of this one bud ;)
My son is now 29. Over the weekend I had a conversation with him about his perspective about his own childhood. I wanted to know what he thought we did right, and what we may have got wrong.
His answer(s): emotional stability (my translation) and consistency was what we got right right.
What I got wrong: "you were always working." - that changed my entire perspective.
Your kids happiness is more important than your own.
Nees all the advice i can get, 2 boys due in December
Awesome! Twice the reward! Best advice I can give for first 6 months, when you’re tested physically and emotionally is the old adage of “this too shall pass.” When at wits end, breathe and remind yourself of the above. The wins start stacking quickly once your child starts to smile and interact with you, but the first cpl months are a marathon.
Take shifts so each half can sleep, wash off the baby wipes with water to prevent diaper rash. Use the diaper cream.
I’m feeling old now, my youngest is 9 :)
Congratulations!!!
We just had our first son 13 days ago (due date was today) the best advice we got was that if we ever feel overwhelmed due to screaming or such, put the baby down and walk away for a moment to recover. The baby can handle screaming on their own for a few minutes, but to avoid accidentally being to hard on them, if we need a moment, it's really important to take it.
I love this thread with all the dads! You're all worth celebrating! Well done being awesome men, and awesome dads! I know you are because you're celebrating being dad's, and that on its own make you awesome!
Best method for discipline? Feels like we’ve given too much freedom to our 5 year old.
Show them and be the leading exemple.
Apart from that, why do you think you have given him too much freedom ?
We have no help from our families so my wife is 100% on her own when I’m working with 3 young kids who are starting to wreak havoc on the house which is preventing my wife from doing basic things like clean and cook and that spills over into my work.
We’re trying to go down the homeschool route but I fear we will have to run a very tight ship to do so, which could kill some of our children’s spirit, which is the opposite intention of homeschooling and the decisions we make.
I don’t wish absent grandparents and extended family on my worst enemies kids. It’s a very tough road.
I can relate to the feeling of being on your own. One of the four grandparents helps us here an there but having to drive a very long distance to get them adds its own challenges. This resonated with me a lot. I dont know you but I'm rooting for you. You got this 💪
They’re little humans just like you….they’re testing boundaries, seeing what they can get away with. Some are more stubborn than others…later in life obstinance can be a real gift. As far as discipline…consider that human behavior responds to a combo of the carrot and the stick. Set guidelines and communicate them. Good behavior gets the carrot, bad behavior the stick. Carrots at that age are more freedom, time to play, etc. The stick…not a physical stick but a real consequence. Could be a real meaningful timeout, loss of privileges/toys, pushups/laps if you’re coaching, etc can show that there are consequences to not following the rules of the game. Finally, be consistent with the rules, rewards and consequences with your spouse.
Thanks for the insight & reinforcement. Appreciate it
Shit, I think that I'm not int the young father category anymore.
How young ?
I have a 12 year old daughter. Thanks for your content. It has been a blessing.
Good day, sir! Father of a soon to be 3 year old little girl. And soon to be welcoming our second in the world within the next two weeks! Becoming a father has been the most transformative moment of my life. I am blessed with a growing family I am grateful for each day!
I'm still trying to figure out how to be the best father. I see a lot of good examples on Nostr.
I haven’t joined the dad club… yet.
That's what our ( nostr:nprofile1qqs88rmcwwkzcm9hwq0rz5rpdt7gysmekyetgea6t2zzn4vkftcmzdspzamhxue69uhhyetvv9ujuurjd9kkzmpwdejhgtcvpcn9x ) book will help you do, "How to Prepare Yourself for Marriage," at http://fikatimebooks.com. 😃
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Is 30s still young 😉
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2 months old here, humbly stacking sats for the little one
👈 Millennial father here frens
LFG fellow dads 💪
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Father of 2
Old father with young kids here. My kids have given me a new perspective on life; it’s like traveling to a foreign land, confronting and exhilarating at the same time. I never felt such joy while simultaneously pulling my hair out.
Got you all now. I am also a father of 2 high school age kids. One of each and a year and a week apart. Fatherhood changes you, fundamentally.
Not young, but here for the dad jokes.
My wife went back to work today (works late). I successfully completed dual bed time for a 3 year old and 3 month old on my own. It was 90 minutes late and they kicked my ass, but we got it done 💪
If your on nostr , throw me a follow. I suspect we align ideologically
I have a healthy happy 2yr old son!
Elementary age. Single dad.
I know it’s cliche, but everything changed the day I became a father
The meaning of life is so much clearer
“Oh now I know what I am here for”
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Two boys — if anyone needs tips, I’ve got you covered.
#3 on the way in January. No one can stop this train
Father of 2
The girls here of 6 and 3 are keeping us young. And they inspire me to build a better digital space for them. Better than what YouTube Kids is offering (for example).
Work in progress
I‘m old
Have a 4 year old girl and a little boy arriving end of the year. My wife is amazing - watching her playing with our daughter I'm just in awe how lucky I am. Being a dad has completely changed my perspective on what's important. Would choose to be colouring in princesses with my daughter vs. any luxury you can imagine.
It's also made me far more ruthless in how I approach my career. I want them to see me fulfilled and happy in my work. It helps to have some Bitcoin too - I just don't take any shit and do a good job on my own terms.
I've always been mostly libertarian thinking, but having a family has also made me a bit more right wing lol 🏴
I have six daughters and one wife - I need serious back up to win any argument most days 😅❤️
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Do you mean recent fathers? Or do older fathers with young kids not apply? XD
All fathers
Trying to raise a 6 and 4 year old in this crazy world
Most rewarding and challenging adventure but wouldn’t trade it for the world
Still trying to figure out who are the good and bad guys…reversing 30 years of state programming is tough but at the end of the day can only worry about the things that we can control.
Was blessed with a little one in the spring. Have been spending as much time as possible barefoot with her outside all summer. No screens, only nature.
Father of 4, 3 boys first and then a girl oldest 23 now. All 3 boys just left the nest to start their adult lives. Crazy!
I got you homie. What is the book or sermon or persons that have most impacted your parenting in the last year?
Best little broskee quote of 2025..."But if you were an octopus then you could grab more things with your testicles!"
I actually never read anything. Just staying present is the most important thing imo.
Really? Surprised. Was listening to a pod this morning titled "How to Raise Godly Children by Josh Howerton and reflecting on Proverbs 11:14.."Where there is no guidance, a people falls, but in an abundance of counselors there is safety." Some good bits in that talk. Would be cool if we started a string of resources sharing stuff that has impacted our parenting.
A few bangers that were shared with us along the way: Bringing up Boys by Dobson, Preparation for Parenting by Ezzos (OG Christian version of BabyWise), The Heart of Humility by Gilkerson, Tuttle Twins by Boyack, Wise Words for Moms by Hubbard.
I’ll have to check it out
1000 hours outside is the only parenting resource we use 😊
Two girls under 10
That's whatsup then.
Found out yesterday I will become a dad for the 4th time. I once told my wife that we win this cultural war by bringing more good people into the world, not by bunkering down and being afraid to have children. That's what the enemy wants.
Dads are important
New father here to a 3 month old. It is our obligation to raise strong, confident, resilient, and respectful children. “Hard times creates strong men.” Much respect, HODL. Keep speaking your truth.
Two girls. 12 and 9 ❤️
Offspring 2 arriving any day now.
Reporting in from Vanuatu 🇻🇺
100% lets make this world a better place than it was when it was handed to us
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10 and 8. Latest thoughts have been on Charlie K. shooters dad, building a relationship w kids that would prevent something like this. Hard to say at what point he went wrong but the world is a f’ed up place, and the protector role is no longer just physical.
Have one but wanting at least two more. I recently read the Fourth Turning and it is incredibly eye opening. I feel the major two blindspots for intellectuals these days are understanding austrian economics and the saeculum.
I know so many peers who have no plans to have children. I feel they are locking themselves into an almost permanent state of childhood without ever reaching full maturity. It seems to me you need to be fully responsible for another human being to reach that next stage of development yourself.
3 kids, wife, bitcoin and nostr Dad finding our tribe.